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how do you get backround mucic what site?? that isnt complicaded ill rate 5 i swear!!!!

hahah nice title!! go to a dite like diamondrains.com or starlightmks and find a code you like an put it in "profile settings". make sure its html compatible tho. lemmeknow if you need more info!

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I just did my column and it looked REALLY pretty! I went to about 6 different websites to get ALL my graphics. I logged out, came back about 5 hours later, and EVERYTHING I did is GONE! I'm really upset right now because I spent about 5 hours on that column and my HARD WORK is all gone! Why is this and is there ANY way possible I can get it back? Has this ever happened to any of yall?
PLEASE HELP!

its happened to me like a bizzilion times!!! try saving the links to a word document so you can retrive them. for now, i hope you can find everything cuz this site has no mercy when it comes to that. let me know if you need help. i should be back on later to help.

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Why is it that our culture always favors big, wide Caucasian eyes?

you mean in comparison to asian eyes? i dunno i think its retarded. i think eyes are beautiful and its sad that people arent open to different looks. oh by the way if you do mean asian, look in the fall magazines...asian models everywhere. (wink)

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that happened to my column too...must be the site then. im not so worried now.

phew! i got all scared! haha thanks!

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This may be a stupid qustion:how do you put icons on your advice colum

i feel bad that no one answered so yeah as far as i know you can only get one pic or icon on your column sooo you copy and save the icon you want to your computer then upload it at a picture to the "profile pic" in your "profile settings". hopw this helps!!

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So, about a year ago. I stole a little make up bag from a store. And ever since then i keep stealing more and more. && i cant help it. It's gotten worse ive stolen hundreds of dollars of makeup and hundreds more of clothes, you name it, i've stole it. When i see somethign, i dont feel like i ened money to buy it, because its so easy. One time i almost got caught, but i was lucky and got away with out gettin introuble. I thought for sure this stopped me. But then i stole something the next day. THen after that, i was in a wheel chair for being hurt while playin soccer. And that was 5 weeks that i havent stole when i was at the mall or ne store for that matter. (wasnt physically possible) well i was happy with myself. And today i went to the mall w/o crutches or a wheel chair for the first time in 5-6 weeks. Andi was all happy cuz i hadnt stolen nething, and i didnt steal ne clotehs. but then, i stole a neclace. I dont know what to do. :-/ HELP PLEASE?

uh oh! thats really not good....avoid malls and stores. dont go to places where you know you like something. go with someone you can bear catching you steal something. just dont do it...nothing is worth getting caught. just keep that in mind. please dont do it! good luck and i hope this helps!

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I have my senior pictures on Friday, and my face is kinda broken out because I just ended my period. I really wana clear my face up before friday if I can. Any advice is appreciated!

o boy. try something that works really fast (like temporary...meds wont do it quick enough) like that clearasil stuff and find a concealer too to hide any redness. other than that, im sure they could airbrush any flaws. luck!

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Okay, im really like overwhelmed. Like 5 guys always iM me and are like would u fuck me? and, there really nice people but like to joke around with me, and they say there jus messin with me. but its hard bc all the guys are all really hott. but it gets really annoying bc now i dont know who to trust. ive been in relationships where ive been cheated on, and theres rumours going around about me having sex with diff people. one of my guy friends said he heard im "loose " an that it seems like i have sex alot which isnt the case at all. i jus feel like giving up on guys all together and jus...be lonely the rest of my life.....any advice on what to do?

aww that really sucks! i hate it when guys do that. my advice: dont go with any of them no matter how hott they are, its not worth it! dont do anything with them either...do stuff with guys that can keep their mouths shut about it and dont say stuff like that. dont be lonely!

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All my friends masturbate and stuff, but not me. I'm sort of scared because i dont really no about it. I have a few questions.
1-Is it bad for your health
2-will it effect your period
3-will it make sex worse in the long run
4- how do u really masturbate

so confused and so left out. please answer all questions fully and i'll rate high, much love(and confusion) PLEASE HELP!

http://teenadvice.about.com/gi/dynamic/offsite.htm?site=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.scarleteen.com%2Fpink%2Fmasturbate_3.html
http://teenadvice.about.com/gi/dynamic/offsite.htm?site=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.scarleteen.com%2Fpink%2Fmasturbate_3.html
^just look around on there. the about.com site has TONS of info...wayy too much to put in here unfortunatly.
oh and if you cant go to the sites for fear of being caught, leave one in my inbox n ill copy&paste it for you. hope this helps.

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Okay so i'm going to be 14 in August and my period still hasent come yet. My boobs are VERY large for my size (4ft 11in and size 32B).I also masturbate so i dont know if that is affecting it, should i stop? My mom got her period at the age of 11 so i feel like something is wrong. I'm anxious to get my period because dont want to get it at like a really bad time( example: down the beach with my friend). At least if i have it i'll no what/when to expect it. ALL my friends have it so i also feel VERY left behind. Will rate for good advice. Please dont tell me i'm lucky i havent gotten it or its not that great to have, or ne thing like that. Much love, Please help!

im just gonna put in # order so i dont miss anything:
1. you can have boobs and not have your period.
2. masturbation...i REALLY dont think that could stop it. people all over would be doing it to skip or postpone it so no.
3. it comes at different times...my mom go it way before i ever did.
4. the first time you get it, it takes like a day to realize its even there. AND you can swim (wink) without anything cuz its so light. theres nothing to worry about.
5. LEFT BEHIND?! ok i got it like 3 years after all my friends and it was AWESOME! theyd all have to sit out cuz of cramps and i would be doin my thing! i rubbed it into their faces. if you feel left out, just dont bring it up.
hope this helps!

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When is everyone gonna stop ending everything with " & hearts" its soo annoying. Im sure im not the only one who feels this way. Someone please agree with me.

i agree with you...is this the same person as before? hahaha either way, rock on.

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ok well..im 11 yeears old, and like.. im 115lb. and im 5'2 and i abouslty hate it. People say im fat, behind my back..and im always hungry ..and i try to eat healthy but i still gain weight ..help?

your around my size cept im older. who cares what they all think. its ok!

youre 11 tho. this site clearly states that you have to be 13 to be on. delete the questions before it gets deleted along with your membership.

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Tryouts for my school's volleyball team start the week before school starts. My mom also works a lot and the only week she has off is that same week, so she planned for our family and her cousin and my cousins to all go to my grandparents lake for that week. I'm in 8th grade, and last year I made B team, so its not like volleyball is all I do. I also go to the lake every year, so its not like I'll never be there again... and if I miss tryouts I can't play at all. Should I go on vacation or stay and play volleyball????

well if vball isnt your life then go on vacation and have a blast. truthfully, i was on the "b" team because it was my first time playing and really it is a ton more fun! the "a" team had a ton of drama and they didnt get too far in tourneys. so just do it to have fun!

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hey kids, ♥ doesn't work nemore so stop trying! mmmk!?

hahaha thank you for that...i agree.

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Hey i have really thick curly hair, and i was wondering if anyone knows of anything i can put in my hair that will make my curls more defined but not make hair look thinner..cuz i've tried gel and mousse and it makes it look nice but still pretty puffy. Thanks

well this is different but it works for me, i have the garnier fructice shine serum and if you put in in, it defines the curls a lot. something to make it a bit less poofy, put it in a half ponytail in a clip. hope this helps!

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does anyone know a website that you can put a picture of you on it and check out different haircuts on yourself??

oh yeah..but doesnt cost money to do lol and looks a little realistic

THANKS!

the makeover thing on ivillage.com is good. its free as far as i know. i think to actually get your pic you would have to "register" or whatever but yeah its convinient. have fun!

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OK, this August I am starting highschool. I am in the honors program, and all my life i have gone to a Catholic school. It was a very comfortable environment. I knew everybody and was liked by everybody, and I did my work very easily. I didnt really have to work that hard at all. I loved the school I went to, the teachers were great and I learned a lot. But it makes it that much harder to go into highschool. I am going to a catholic high school too. I get stressed easily. How will I get used to the hard work, and the homework? My older sister is in that school, and she is SOOOOO smart. I feel like i have to be as good as her. How will i handle the work? I NEED HELP

omgosh!! i have like the exact same life! cept im not in honors...i was one percentile away. but anyway, i bet its because you got recommendations from the grade school teachers that you could handle it. i have heard that theres tonss of homework but im sure that it was made to challenge you and teach you to use your time wisely. dont compare yourself to your sister... everyone is different and it happens in every family. oh and about the program, if you notice that you just cannot live another day with those classes, ask to be moved down to a normal level. hope it all works out for you!

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what are some really romantic things i can do for my (been together 10 months) boyfriend?

hes a bassist/singer/guitarist/musician
he loves descendants/green day/ blink 182
a major music fan (any kind of music)

we live in a small town in ohio

thanks

3 doors down, breaking benjamin, stained and no address come to riverbend in cincinnati!!

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what is the difference between being christian and catholic?

well all catholics are christians. the main difference i can see is the belief in transubstanction. (i might have spelled that incorrectly) that is the belief that the bread and wine becoe the actualy body and blood of christ. christians believe in communion but not in the same way and catholics can partake of that communion. hope this answers it!

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does anyone know how to do a picture marquee ??
I want to put one on my website ..
Or does anyone know any website that does know how to do one ..
thanks..

you just put the things onthe sides of the link to the picture.

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