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Q: i think that im kind of annoying to my friends. i always want to do something different, and sometimes i bug them too much about something. its the way i am, and sometimes its hard 4 me to be different. i have alot of friends, because my nature is 2 be nice, but if i know some1 for a long time i tend to get like this. what should i do?
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Just dont burst out and do what others want from time to time and maybe they'll let you do want you want to do from time to time just be fair and equal-trix
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Q: I'm afraid to kiss my boyfriend..everytime he wants to i back away. I knows it getting on his nerves..HELP
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Just relax you'll do fine-trix
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Q: im almost 15 and ive never kissed a guy..am i a loser?
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No the right guy just hasnt come along-trix
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Q: my bestest friend iz like OBSESSED wid my step-bro n she talks about him ALL the time wat should i do???????
~ AnNoYeD ~
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Tell her you dont like always hearing about your bro.. just tell her cuz i am sure she wouldnt always want to her about a sib. of hers (if she had one if she doesnt)-trix
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Q: Hey! Dis might sound realli dumb, but i wanna know how can i get a bigger but by not workin out or takin any pills..Lyke what kinda stuff do i have to eat.xox
From, Curious Stranger.
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Eat and sit around sorry about that but why would you want your butt bigger? well thats not my problem.. so.. I would just excercise thats what my friend did and she said " I GOT THE SHAPE I WANT!" she was pretty proud of herself haha-trix
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Q: I started going out with this guy in Feburary 10th, broke up on April 5th the reason was I liked someone else which I didnt then I found out he went out with this other girl after a month he broke up with her because she kissed some other guy and he asked me out 2 days after he dumped her its been a month n 3 weeks. One day he had a girl over at his house "just friends" he said that she was their bc she was waiting for a ride, then my bfs friend got their we all hung out then he left n she went w him, when she was suppose to be waiting for her ride then another day we were in his room n hes like are you a virgan n I said "yes" then I asked him he said "no I just did it w one girl her name was christina" wat bf tells his gf the girl of the girl he fucked? Last my friend called me one day n we were talkin then she told me my bf and his 2 friends were their n my friends friend was also their n my bf was saying " i love you dont leave me I love you" to my friends friend then I called him to ask wat that was about n he said he was "fooling" around but I dont see why his friends werent doing that too n later he told me "shes was just my friend on the first day i got to school" which I dont think is true then he got upset because I was accusing him of who he loved n he said "I dont care if you belive me or not belive ur friend n not me" So am I like totally OVER-REACTING or WHAT SHOULD I DO? someone pelase help me I dont wanna be w the wrong person n not know it n the other thing is If I do break up with him I dont wanna REGRET it. Like the last time thank you...
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Well he hurt you and if you think you need to break up with him then do so.. but if you think you can handle this and he wont do this again then dont break up with him-trix
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Q: ever since summer started its been problem after problem. i guess its keeping me busy n itz better happening now the during school. but i dk. i break down at night n crym y self 2 sleep its getting bad but im the kinda person that can deal with alot happening but i dont like it. i dont know i think im really confused about wut to do n i need help.
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Well get someone thats really close to you talk to them about it and if its something you cant talk to thats older then you like parent or something then talk to a older cousin or something one thats more around your age or a good friend or one of us adivenators because we care even if we dont know you and thats a fact! But your older bro could get a job and help out with the money and if your old enough you could get a job to like babysitting or working at a fast food place. just work to help out with the money prob. Your probably in a mix of stressed out and depressed but more along the lines of stressed.. just keep in mind your fam. is in need of help and everything will work through. Just try to not to revolve life around money.. You could ask advice for your problems and you'll get answers im sure-trix
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Q: Ok my lifes not terrible or anything like that, but ugghh. Things can be so fricken tough. I have a good family, we're all together and nothings bad in that department. Im even really strong in my faith, but geese life can get to be so damn miserable. Just last year my cousin moved into the same town as me. Yep, same school, same grade, same frigen everything. And shes taking over as popular queen. Shes a little bitch that gets everything and has to be so girly and wear pink and be perfect. My opinion is shes damn ugly but whatever. Shes went out with every frigen guy in the grade and shes not done. Shes never satisfied. People actually tell me omg how can you be related to her. I dont even know... my response is gee idk how i got related to a mix of godzilla and the devil himself. To add onto the jumble my aunt (her mom) is always up my butt about us having a good relationship and crap like that. HOW CAN I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER? I've tried time and again. I even started hanging around her crowd but they all hated me and couldnt wait to get rid of me and they would even tell her that nobody in their group really liked me. Total assholes. But the best part about her popular crowd is they all talk about eachother. So im done trying to have a relationship with her, she never showed up at my friend or family party when it was my birthday so she basically doesnt give a shit about me. Oh yes dont forget the lovely story about when my aunt came to my house on my birthday and started screaming at my mom and telling her how rude i was to my cousin(her daughter) and to everyone else and that i was a bad person and this and that, god it was miserable. I actually have an awsome crowd of friends and a wonderful best friend, and im always being told im prettier than my cousin and stuff, so im not jealous of her or anything. Shes gotten me in trouble from my parents so many times this year but my mom finally feels bad and has just realized who the girl really is. So all that being grounded for nothing. Anyway..she hates me. She always has. And my annoying aunt is always in my face and telling me to be like her daughter. The best part is that shes got two more daughters, one is my sisters age, so my sister goes through the same hell as me. Well anyway that cousin is the schools whore, biggest druggy in the world, and always lies to her mother about whos shes with. So thats damn screwed up if you know what i mean. And whenever we tell my aunt she doesnt really click with it. She just goes I trust her more than anyone in the world, when really she just loves lying to herself, why, well put it this way, its beyond my worldly knowledge. Then the youngest is going into 4th grade and boy is she a fun one. My mom always has to babysit her and shes the biggest brat on the planet. Shes nasty to our grandmother, screams cries and whines when she doesnt get what she wants, she makes fun of me (or tries to), and she never takes blame for shit. And boy do i hate her! Shes always going through my stuff and chasing me around and trying to do what I do. And yes i live in the same town as them. My relationship will never be the same with my aunt because I will and can never forgive her for what she's done to me. Its left a scar on me forever. Im sorry but what else is there to say. I was here way before my cousins were and now theyre always around me and telling on me and the one in my grade spreads rumors and makes different people hate me in my grade. And here I am, about to conquer another year of it. I used to love it where I lived. But now Im just scraping by. I want to get far away. Or live somewhere else. And I sure as hell cant wait to get off to college. I hate my school, my town, the community, I just want to be somewhere else. I love life, but not where I live. What the hell do I do before I go mad? These people are ruining my LIFE
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WoW! SoOo sorry.. sounds as if that whole family has a stick up there bootay! They need to simmer down a bit! What does your mom think of all this? Just try your hardest to avoid her and the family which I am sure you already do that.. but just try harder.. dont try just do it.. my mom tells me try is failure so just do it and if it takes a yelling to get the point across to your cousin then do so because i believe she could use it-trix
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Q: Well Friday is my boyfriends birthday. We have the house to ourselves for the day...any suggestions on anything romantic we could do ?
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AnYtHiNg ThAt FlOaTs YoUr BoAt! JuSt DoNt Go To FaR!!~TrIx
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Q: my little brother has a really bad temper... kinda like a baby but he gets mad easily... he's really discusting... things u couldnt emagine... well i dont like touching him its that bad... so when he gets mad... lol. he touches me n like i start fighting with him. when he does stuff like that i alwayz get in trouble instead of him sept 4 1 tyme but thats a whole other story wut do i do my mom already knoz all this but hez her little baby... she says oh u cant do anything that he got 4rom ur dad. wut can i do? i have no clue wut 2 do at all.
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Well give him time I know your bro is 12 but alot of lil bro's are like that and they arent mature and obviously dont act there age around us because there trying to be cool .. well what they think is cool just tell him to grow up and act his age not his shoe size :)-trix
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Q: Hey hun! Here are some more of those songs for ya!!
2 become 1-spice girls
all i want is you-bryan adams
all of me-louis armstrong
always and forever-kenny rogers
to love somebody-bee gees
this must be love-phil collins
best of my love-eagles
im tired!! but ill add more tomorrow!! i have tons more!! i love lovey dovey songs!! :)
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Thank you SoOo much!! I am soo glad i found the right person with these type of songs!!-trix
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Q: I am deaf but i can hear litle and i can talk i have good speech but my voice make me sound like little kid. I want know how to writ songs and how you end it and how come up with ideas of makeing songs any tips
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Well if and when you are in jr.high there should be some type of music class and join that and that should let you follow through steps like that-trix
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Q: I'm 11 and I'm a girl (lol)My friend Madison is going out with this guy and I like him (a lot) but I can't flirt or anything cause I feel bad. And I don't want Madison to know that I like him because she won't be exactly happy.I really like him and I don't know what to do. Plz help.....:(
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Well I would just leave it how it is and if they break up dont rush things with him give them some space apart let them get there mixed feelings together and then after about 2-3 weeks well it really depends on how close they were and how long there were together then after sometime you have the all out right to move in.. but just keep up what you are doing by not flirting with him thats a smart choice!!-trix
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Q: Here are some more lovey dovey songs for you:
everywhere-tim mcgraw
i do- 98 degrees
i fall to pieces-patsy kline
i knew i loved you-savage garden
i keep fallin-alicia keys
i swear-all 4 one
i wanna love you forever-jessica simpson
L-O-V-E- nat king cole
my girl-temptations
one sweet day-boys II men and mariah carey
thank you for loving me-jon bon jovi
the dance-garth brooks
when a man loves a woman-percy sledge
I'll have more for ya soon! I have to go to a doctors appointment, that's why I stopped!! But I'll hasve some more for you later today!!
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OMG THANK YOU!! LOL give me all the ones you think of!! Your the best!!-trix
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Q: i really want to make out but i dont know how and then wheni wit a guy i feel like if i make out with him he is goin to think i suck enev if its my frist time idk what to do i dont know how to do it what should i do ?? i dont want to feel stupid when i doing it???=(
please help?!!
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Well dont worry just try to find a guy that its his first time to.. so you two are on the same level because that is in important and less emberassing and less pressuring also. But you just know.. without knowing you know.. confusing i know haha but i didnt know how or at least i thought i didnt but when it came to do it.. i did fine.. without any advice! so good luck!-trix
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Q: Just recently I went on vacay to see my moms friend that she had made recently on a college course. So we went down to see her friend and her family b/c my mom wanted to introduce me. So of course she has a son a year older than me and I'm head over heels, you dig? So anyway we had an awsome time almost everything in the world tells me he liked me back, so I gave him my home # and my sn. We live miles and miles apart and i just left a couple weeks ago. He hasnt called or been online and I've been missing him so much. I'm starting to wonder if this is a sign if he doesn't like me at all... or i d k. But I can't go ahead and call him b/c I dont want to look desperate if he wanted to talk he would have called or went online. But hes a great guy I'd never give up liking him so... at this point idk what to do b/c i d k if i will even get to see him ne time soon... and I just cant take it ne more... its more than i can handle.
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It may be a sign but it could also be that he is busy! after all it is summer.. so give him a break... just call to say whats up and ect. that happaned to me though between me and eric he wrote me a letter gave me his number and his sn and i wrote him a letter back to him and i havent heard from him sense last aug. 2003.. so... i just gave up and it slowly seems to fade.. and sometimes i think about him and me and what could have been.. but afterall he is in florida.. and that would be hard thing to work out.. so.. i just gave up and i do want to call every now and then but i dont.. maybe next time i see him ill make a better impression or something just try that i hppe my experience with that helped you! :)-trix
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Q: i like this guy so much ever since october 30th 2002 and like its been abt 2 years now .. and i dont know wut to do . i went out wif him 6times before .. buh hes wif one of my friends now . buh like were more like enemy's now . i mean im her friend and i want her to be happy buh i dont think she wants that for me cuz i cut myself and like she does too . but at least she's happy i mean i told * dan * how i feel and still . he still sayz i love paulina and shyt ! and i hate it i mean .. wow i kryed so much over him iono wut to do anymore !!
plzz help me !!
xOXo maYa xOXox
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Well its time to give up and to also stop cutting yourself!! that isnt good at all!! please dont cut yourself.. and if he doesnt see that you like him a whole lot then he has issues!! And he also has hurt you way to many times beyond talking about so i think you should just try your absolute hardest to try and move on i know it will be extremely hard and take alot of time but trust me you'll be so much happier once you meet someone new-trix
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Q: ok well i met this boy chris at the begining of the year...and we bacame good friends...we liked each other but i had a boyfriend so nothin ever went beyond friends...well a couple weeks later me and my boyfriend broke up and me and chris grew closer...then a week later he asked me out...well we went out and everything was good but then we broke up and i cant remember why but n e ways...me and him became even closer after we broke up and we were best friends all year...well we were friends with benifits gess you can say...but then a couple weeks before school let out for summer break he started going out with this girl tasha...tasha is my friend and she has liked him for so long. well im still in love with chris and i just cant stop...he means everything to me....now hes always with tasha and barely talks to me....i dont know what to do...what should i do plezz help me....i cry everytime i think of him..
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I would talk to your friend and him both and tell them what you feel and if you could help how you feel you wouldnt because you dont want to ruin what they have and you know that you shouldnt be feeling this feelings exspeacially if this is your friend and your good friend going out and you know you wouldnt like for tasha to ruin what you had if you 2 were going out just make yourself sound caring and understanding. and this is short compared to some of the problems i get sometimes!-trix
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Q: ok well i really really and i mean really like this boy.. we have like a connection and crap but he loves this other chick and it really hurts and i mean him and i flirt all the time and crap and i think i am starting to love him but i don't want to ruin anything with him and that girl cause they have a history but i really don't know what to do cause i am soo confused and like yeah idk!! and i just am soo confused and i ahh am going insane! But i def think he is better off with me cause that girl won't treat him right at all!!
sighned... HELP ME I DONT' HAVE MUCH TIME! :0
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Well i can tell you 1 thing.. you most defintly are not selfish! Your being kind by saving what him and that other girl have between eahother. Just be yourself around him. And hopefully he will come around!!-trix
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Q: I didn't know wut to put this under so i put it under love life .. buh im gettin my belly button pierced august 11th and im 14 and im still gunna get it cuz like my best friend is in poland . and she comesz bak aug 7th and her b-day is aug 8th and then were gunna go shooppin on august 9th and shes gunna sleep over on the 10th and on the 11th were gettin our belly button's pierced .. im reely scared .. kan someone tell me if it hurtZ?
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the more skinner you are.. the worse it hurts...-trix
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bio
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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.
I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.
I've been there done that im sure
ex. (with the number of expierences)
-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)
Like I said "been there done that"
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Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: June 3, 2004 Answers: 3661 Last Update: December 20, 2009 Visitors: 222147
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