i like this guy so much ever since october 30th 2002 and like its been abt 2 years now .. and i dont know wut to do . i went out wif him 6times before .. buh hes wif one of my friends now . buh like were more like enemy's now . i mean im her friend and i want her to be happy buh i dont think she wants that for me cuz i cut myself and like she does too . but at least she's happy i mean i told * dan * how i feel and still . he still sayz i love paulina and shyt ! and i hate it i mean .. wow i kryed so much over him iono wut to do anymore !!
xbellaxobambinax69 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 2:31 pm: no guy is ever worth your tears or you cutting yourself i kno it mite seem like he is but maya you are so much better than that!! and i think that if these ppl are making you do this then they are not people that should be in your life at all! because if you date a guy and you break up ESPECIALLY if you stil have feelings for him the guy should be TOTALLY off limits for your friends to date!! i could understand her going out with him if you got over him and had no feelings what so ever for him but c'mon! and this guy obviously doesnt care about you if he is going to do something so disrespectful! go out more with your other friends and maybe you will meet someone! xox Emily [ xbellaxobambinax69's advice column | Ask xbellaxobambinax69 A Question ]
GoDdeSsOfEveRyThInG answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 12:20 pm: First things first, DO NOT cut yourself over a stupid boy!! You and your friend need to get help, please. It's not healthy at all, you could get really sick, get infections, or even die. I'm so sorry this is happening to you and you think cutting yourself makes it better, maybe it does for a quick 5 seconds, but in the long run it does nothing.
Second, if you love this boy and he knows and he loves someone else, you need to be just be happy for your friend. There isnt much you can do for now but wait for him. You dont want to interfere with your friends relationship... if she wasnt a friend I would say steal him back!! *gIgGLeS* Do what you think you need to do to get him back! Good luck sweetie!!
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 12:16 pm: Well,first things first....NO ONE,I mean absolutely NO ONE is worth cutting yourself over!!You are worth SO much more that Maya!! In my opinion neither one of these people deserve your time and affection.This guy went after your friend after you guys had had a relationship,which is very disrespectful and shows just what kind of a guy he really is.And your "friend" is not really your friend at all if she is willing to treat you so badly and to go after your ex who she knows you still like a lot.The fact that you and this guy were so on and off during your relationship kinda says a lot.The relationship was probably pretty rocky,am I right? You need to surround yourself with great people who love,care about,and respect you.Then you will know what true friendship is,and you'll look back and think "why was I ever so worried about those jerks?".It will all work out.I wish you nothing but the best!!If you ever need someone to talk to,you know where to find me! ;) [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:00 am: Well its time to give up and to also stop cutting yourself!! that isnt good at all!! please dont cut yourself.. and if he doesnt see that you like him a whole lot then he has issues!! And he also has hurt you way to many times beyond talking about so i think you should just try your absolute hardest to try and move on i know it will be extremely hard and take alot of time but trust me you'll be so much happier once you meet someone new-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
iLuVkOaLaS answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:53 am: Well you dont need to be cutting your self, and also your friend as well. If he likes another girl then you have to accept that fact. i know its hard but maybe you should build up your friendship or relashionship. Maybe he will miss you! but if he still doent wanna go out with you then you should just be good friends!!
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browneyes175 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:52 am: WOW! first of all dont destroy ur body jus b/c of a guy. second of all if he doesnt like u then its his lose... there are plenty of other fish in the sea so dont give up sweetie, keep lookin and i hope it all works out! XoXoXo [ browneyes175's advice column | Ask browneyes175 A Question ]
lilangelshan08 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:44 am: first of all, you don't need to cut, no man is worth you hurting yourself. second if your friend doesn't care if you are happy she doesn't sound like much of a friend and third forget the guy. you can and will find someone better.
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