ok well i met this boy chris at the begining of the year...and we bacame good friends...we liked each other but i had a boyfriend so nothin ever went beyond friends...well a couple weeks later me and my boyfriend broke up and me and chris grew closer...then a week later he asked me out...well we went out and everything was good but then we broke up and i cant remember why but n e ways...me and him became even closer after we broke up and we were best friends all year...well we were friends with benifits gess you can say...but then a couple weeks before school let out for summer break he started going out with this girl tasha...tasha is my friend and she has liked him for so long. well im still in love with chris and i just cant stop...he means everything to me....now hes always with tasha and barely talks to me....i dont know what to do...what should i do plezz help me....i cry everytime i think of him..
xbellaxobambinax69 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 2:18 pm: no guy is ever worth you tears! and if your friend knew that you liked him then that was so wrong for her to do that because your friends always come before your boyfriends! but maybe if you talk to your friend tasha she will understand ((she sould if she is a real friend)) also maybe you can talk to chris bout it maybe he feels the same but didnt think you did so he kept it inside and went out with tasha to hide it ((guys can be stupid like that)) but hunni plz dont cry over him! ik it will be hard but try! xox Emily [ xbellaxobambinax69's advice column | Ask xbellaxobambinax69 A Question ]
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:53 am: My advice would be to have a talk with Chris.You need to let him know how you feel,if for no other reason than to just get it out there and get that weight off your shoulders.It sounds to me like you guys had something really great going.I would ask him how he feels about you,and does he ever see you guys getting together again.Ask him how he feels about Tasha,and how serious it is.But be careful and don't disrespect his relationship by over-stepping your boundaries,like by saying something to the effect of "Tasha's no good for you,you should be with me".Or insulting Tasha in any way.But you do need to get your feelings out there,he needs to know.Who knows,he may still have feelings for you too!!Hope I could help some!!! [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
XxbabygurlxX answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:05 am: u have to talk to both of them u need o get ur feelings out or ur goin to get stuck wit them for a while and that dosent feel that good when u cant teell the person u love how u feel someday soon go up to the one of them that u would feel better talkin to frist and tell them how u feel ...how u dont know what 2 do......and ask how they feel about it ..then maybe all of u can figer out whats goin on
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:58 am: I would talk to your friend and him both and tell them what you feel and if you could help how you feel you wouldnt because you dont want to ruin what they have and you know that you shouldnt be feeling this feelings exspeacially if this is your friend and your good friend going out and you know you wouldnt like for tasha to ruin what you had if you 2 were going out just make yourself sound caring and understanding. and this is short compared to some of the problems i get sometimes!-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
browneyes175 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:57 am: well if ur love with him than id say wait till they brake up to move n on him b/c u dont really wanna lose a friendship over him, and u dont really need to do that... move on and find someone new b/c ull never kno whats out there till uve looked so dont give up and let me kno how it all turns out! hope i helped! XoXoXo [ browneyes175's advice column | Ask browneyes175 A Question ]
iLuVkOaLaS answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:57 am: Well you should try hanging out more again but most of all tell him how you feel. If he still doesnt like you then just be really good friends!
thank you
hope my advice helps!
please rate me
**jessica** [ iLuVkOaLaS's advice column | Ask iLuVkOaLaS A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.