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Question Posted Wednesday July 21 2004, 5:51 pm

I'm afraid to kiss my boyfriend..everytime he wants to i back away. I knows it getting on his nerves..HELP

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 12:35 pm:
Just relax you'll do fine-trix

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xo_dream answered Thursday July 22 2004, 2:15 am:
Just tell him you're not quite ready yet, and he should understand. Just relax about it, because it's not that big of a deal, and when it happens, it'll just happen naturally, so it's nothing to be worried about.

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xmissybootsx answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:25 pm:
At least you're not like me.. I used to laugh when i was nervous about kissing guys. =oP They didn't find it too amusing.. if you don't want to kiss, then don't. Just tell him you wanna move slow at things, and you'll kiss when you're ready.

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Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 9:25 pm:
Aww honey. Just take a deep breath and let the boy kiss you!
The first time one of my boyfriends kissed me, it was totally unexpected - otherwise I probably would've backed away, too.
You just have to take a deep breath and ignore your nervousness. After awhile, it gets fun. =)
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)

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jeanine278972 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 7:36 pm:
Just tell him your not ready yet... if he truly cares about your feelings... he should understand and just back off until your ready

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imasweetieUHHUH answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 6:15 pm:
Okay..I kno how this is.I'm sure your boyfriend is getting kinda mad about u backing away.But have you talked to him about it?Just tell him how it is..if you don't wanna kiss him yet because your not comfortable then don't do it.If he really cares then he'll accept that.Remember,don't be pressured into doing somethin you don't wanna do.Only you can make up ur mind and don't change that. I hope that helped...GOOD LUCK!!


much love, tasha... email me if you have anymore questions!

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xHeartxOfxGoldx answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 6:14 pm:
Kissings not scary at all.. Trust me.. but maybe your not ready and thats why your minds telling you to back away. maybe you should tell your guy that your scared so he would understand a little better about whats going on. Don't leave him in the dark girl! And if your not ready to kiss him and he trys pressuring you then dump him. You can find a guy who respects you and your morals. But if he understands then wait for the moment and when your ready go for it

hope i helped

if you need anymore advice leave on in my inbox or im me ;)

xoxo

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girdy_goo15 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 6:14 pm:
well then i think you should tell him that. if you don't feel comfortable with that then don't until you're ready. if he truly loves you he will understand. but don't just do it to do it.

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lilangelshan08 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 6:04 pm:
this can be answered in two ways all depending on the situation. if this is a first kiss situation, the first kiss is like any first that you might have with a man, it can be scary something that might be good would be to face your fears head on and kiss him. if this i just you are scared of kissing him it might be a good idea to talk to him. i'm sure that it wouldn't get on his nerves as much if you let him know what is going on with you. good luck and i hope everything works out
*~*shan*~*

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dancergall answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 6:02 pm:
y wont u kiss him??? if u dont feel comfortable enough then u shouldnt be with him

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KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 6:01 pm:
i think that you should tell him that ur not quite comfortable doing that yet..or you could just try it! and just go with the flow! and if u absolutely think its gross..then u dont have to do it! but im sure that you will like it *hope i helped* <3/Dakota

[RaTe Me PlEaSe AnD iF yOu NeEd Ne ThInG eLsE jUsT dROp oNe In My InBoX]

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xogiggles37xo answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 5:56 pm:
u might wunna tell him ur not ready for that witch iz gunna b hard... so... i dk if u really care about him n u wunna do it try hard to go through with it. <3 xogiggle37xo.

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SheaStadium answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 5:55 pm:
If u really love him kiss him. B ut do it for u not for him. Show urself u can face ur fears! aND IF U DONT LIKE IT THEN DONT DO IT AGAIN. Sry bout caps. Ne way good luck!

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DeeplyInLove102203 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 5:54 pm:
you should kiss him when u feel u r ready for it dont let him pressure u into it!! when the time comes it will happen and until then he will have to wait until your confortable doin it!! hope i helped!!

<3 Caitlin

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