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I really like this guy but my sister says that he's hers. I said that i liked him first and now that I trying to get him to go on a date with me, I don't want her to get in the way. She just likes him because he's cute, but i like him for his personality. She never even talks to him like I do.
You should ask the guy who he would rather be with. If you guys ar ereally close, and he isn't close to your sister then he would probably pick you, bu tdon't take things to far and be overly harsh to your sister because you don't want to let a guy get in between your sisterhood. I hope I helped!
does anyone know the name of a song and who its by, it goes something like this where the party at? all my girls .... the bacardi at ... its like an r&b song / rap song
The song is called "Where the party at" by Jagged Edge. I hope I helped!
what are some good song lyrics or quotes that like you'd dedicate to your boyfriend or someone you like
Well, I don't have the song lyrics to this song, but I like the song "Cool" by Gwen Stefani. It;s talks about how a couple is still together after being through obstacles. I hope I helped!
ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for like 3 1/2 months....and theres this like really kinda slutty girl and i like really hate her and stuff....and well he has 3rd hour tech. with her and everyone is telling me he likes her a lot more than me and he like never calls me anymore and stuff...and i kinda feel like its true but then like his best friends are saying he doesnt like her and stuff but i just think hes making them lie for him and whenever i confront him about it he obviously is going to deny it!! well i just wanna know...should i break up with him or not. i mean i really like him and everything...so i dunno but i really need some help!! thansz'!
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Hey. Well, I don't think that you should break up with him yet because of what other people tell you. Ask the girl that people say he really likes, and find out if they have a relashionship. If you feel like she will lie and say they are having a relashionship just so you will break up with him and she can have him for herself, you should ask other students in that 3 hour tech class if they flirt or do anything intimate inside and out of class. Witnesses are very helpful. I hope I helped!
Ok so, my crush asked me out last night so of course I said yes. I'm new to the whole dating experience, im only 14. I like him a lot, but whenever the thought of going to the movies or something comes up, I automatically make up an excuse to not go. I don't know why. I'm very co-dependant and I would be too scared to go anywhere unless it was a double date or something. He says hes okay with that but I dont know whats wrong with me. I think my main fear is making out. Yea yea laugh, but I guess im just scared to do it. I dont know whats wrong with me and why im so scared to go anywhere with him. I'll rate you high. Thx a bunch
This is totally normal. Don't be afraid of him. Treat him as if he were a friend...you know, someone you can just hang out with and have a great time. It may be difficult, but you have to try. If you don't feel comfortable with making out, then tell him because you don't have to do anything you don't want to do. I'm sure he'll understand. I hope I helped!
hey guys...im really scared!! ok...i used to be really good friends with this guy and then we didnt really talk for a while, and in the past few months we have been talking alot and become really close again, well about 45 minutes ago i found out that his dad killed himself...what do i say to him? i mean HE doesnt even know yet...his mom called me before she told him...i used to be pretty close to his dad too...he didnt seem the type to do something like that...i have been crying my eyes out since i found out and when this guy does find out, what do i say to him? please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Before you tell him anything, make sure from his mom that he knows first because you don't want him to know that his mother told you before him. Let him know that you are very sorry and that you are there for him and if he needs to talk about it, you are there to listen. This must be really devastating, and I'm greatly sorry for their and your loss. He needs to know that you are there for him, and that he can cry on your shoulder when he needs to. He needs you know, and you have to be there for him. I hope I helped!
ok I broke up with my bf and from doing that my bf and his friends found me and beat me up pretty badly....i meen no broken bones but still pretty badly....so I was wonderin if he can get in like trouble 4 that because i kno like at school wen kids beat eachother up they dont get in trouble and i was wondering if this is like that...(my ex also did this to his last gf)....and is this my fault because thats how I feel..that its my fault...cuz my ex said that it was and it kind of is because im the one who chose to break up with him in the first place...and thats y he beat me up with his friends...well ya so do u think its my fault 2?
I definitely do not think that it was your fault. Who cares if you were the one to break up with him...he still has no write to abuse you that way. Don't doubt yourself just because he say otherwise. If you want to press charges against him, and the school won't do anything, as you parents if you guys can report him and his friends to the police for abuse. I hope I helped!
Hey advice-giving people! I have this friend who acts like I should be devoted to him and I should have no other friends beside him since I've known him since pre-k. Ok, well, one of my other friends, Jessica, asked me to go to the beach with her and I said sure because well.. the beach ROCKS! But anyways.. We told John Ross (the obsessive friend) not to tell Brittany (our other friend) because we knew it would make her mad at us. Ok, well he went & told her & it made her mad. He's ALWAYS doing stuff like that. How do I tell him to shut the freak up without losing him as a friend?
I think that the reaone why your friend is so obsessive over you is that he is scaread that he might lose you as his friend. He probably told that girl Brittany about going to the beach because he knew she was going to get upset, and he may have thought that you wouldn't have gone because she was so mad...that way, you can't interact with other people. I think you should talk to John, and tell him that you are his friend, but you have to have other friends too. Also, let him know that you guys have a friendship so strong that it is unbreakable. Talk to him, and maybe he'll finally let go. I hope I helped!
About a week ago, I told my mom and my sister that we should go see the movie "Bewitched" since we used to watch 70's version of this late at night on TV together. When I said this I meant for us to "set a date" to go see a movie. My mom called me earlier and said she wanted to watch this movie now. I am 31 years old and have a family of my own. I also have other plans to do tonight although my plans aren't that important. Anyways, I told her that I have a headache and that they should just go ahead and watch without me. I felt bad because I was the one who originally asked them to see this movie...It's just that I didn't expect it to be today....It's a long weekend...I just went out and watch a movie with my kids, went to a baby shower and I'm kind of tired and wanted to rest and then maybe do some grocery shopping later tonight. Was I wrong for saying no?...I really feel bad and my guts says I should've just gone with them....
I think that you should have told them that you were busy that night, and if you guys could go another day like tomorrow or next week. Cancelling the date would have been way better than lying to her. Tell her the truth about what you did, and try and see if you can make plans with them about something you guys liked to do together before. I hope I helped!
see the thing is i have alot of friends but not one best friend i can do everything with. i want my one friend to be my bff but i dunno how, its really confusing and even tho i have friends i feel so alone.....help please
I think you should find one of your friends that you guys have a lot of things in common with. That way, you guys can click more. Talk about funny and embarrasing stories with that person. When you guys keep having fun together like this, you guys may turn out best friends.
well after my gf dumped me, we became "friends with benifits." we still make out and ive touched her boobs and she's given me a hj. is this a bad thing? she's the one who dumped me for another guy (whose ass i kicked). does this mean that she still likes me???
I think that you guys are trying to have a relashionship, but not be like girlfriend-boyfriend type because she has a boyfriend. I think she still has feelings for you, just like you still have feelings for her. I hope I helped.
well im 13 and my sister is 15 but for some reason, evertime a guy likes her or she goes out with someone, i get really pissed off and scare the guy away. ( I even gave a guy a black eye) I know that shes gonna go out with guys, but i dont want anybody to hurt her or take advantage of her. last summer, we went to the same summer camp, and a guy liked her and thats where i punched a kid. we tell each other everything so she knows about the gfs ive had (only 2) and she didnt like my gfs either. should i give a guy a chance, and am i being too overprotective?
I think you are having trouble letting your sister go. You guys have such a tight bond, and you don't want any guy to tear that apart. But you know what? The love you guys have for eachother is amazing and other siblings badly want that, so there is no way she'll let a guy come between you two. But don't you think that she is smart enough to not let a guy walk all over her? She understands you really care about her, but you need to let her go because she is 15 and you are not her father. Let her go, nothing will come in between you two.
Are you going to the Blvd. at the Cap Center to go to chick-fil-A
Hey Uzo. Well, my mom can't take me but I'll ask my dad if he can.
well this guy that i like says he wouldnt go out with me because i was prude but im not soo he said if i wasnt prude then i have to have sex with him to prove him but now i think about it i dont want to cause i just isnt right at my age (15) and i dont what to say to him that i dont want to have sex with him just to show him im not prude!! everytime i talk to him he always says are u ready to have sex but i always say yes because if u dont then he might spread rumors about me which he is really good at!!! soo i dont know what to do at this point!!! HELP!!!!
You should absolutely not have sex. You are right...you are too young. You shouldn't have sex with him just to prove you are not prude. Who cares what rumors he spreads, it only matters that you have self-respect for yourself. You never know, if you have sex with him he could spread a rumor calling you nasty names because you had sex with him. Don't have sex with him to prove you are not prude. That's silly and immature of him to even think of that. If you know that you're not prude, then stick to that because you don't have to prove it to anybody. I hope I helped!
i have a black silky skirt for graduation and i got a size that is too big for me. i dont have a dryer so i cant shrink it that way.. what are some ways to shrink my skirt because i dont have a dryer.. i tried to put the skirt in hot water for a few minutes and then blow dry the skirt with hot air.. this doesnt work so what are some ways to shrink it?
First off, if you put your skirt in the dryer it could shrink too small and the hot water and hot air might damage the shirt, and then you could do nothing about that so that shouldn't even be an option. I think that you should go to a tailor and have them slim down the size to fit you just right. I hope I helped!
i have a black silky skirt for graduation and i got a size that is too big for me. i dont have a dryer so i cant shrink it that way.. what are some ways to shrink my skirt because i dont have a dryer.. i tried to put the skirt in hot water for a few minutes and then blow dry the skirt with hot air.. this doesnt work so what are some ways to shrink it?
First off, if you put your skirt in the dryer it could shrink too small and the hot water and hot air might damage the shirt, and then you could do nothing about that so that shouldn't even be an option. I think that you should go to a tailor and have them slim down the size to fit you just right. I hope I helped!
My best friend told me that my boyfriend was flirting with one of my friends. I dont know who to believe.. my boyfriend said nothing happened but he might just be trying to not hurt me. But then again i think my best friend is trying to break us up. Who should i believe? My best friend or my boyfriend? PLease help.
Well, you care about both of them a lot, and you can't really decide who to believe because if you do the other person you didn't believe willbe bent up about the whole thing. If you just can't decide, ask the other suspect which is your other friend who your best friend says your boyfriend was flirting with. I hope I helped!
I wrote last time how my ex wants to hook back up with me the advice was great. i talk to him and i told him how i felt and told him i was tryed of him leaving me to talk to some other gurl, and how he never sends any times with me. I seeing change in him he comes every moring to see me where it's mostly all of my girls. come to my one study hall some days to one of my class and we write notes to each other. we spend time after school with each other when we can. The thing is couple of my girls and one of my teacher friends are telling me not to get back with him. that all he want is bootie. i don't think that what should i do?
PLZ HELP ME OUT
I mean, if he's making a change then that's great because that means that he really cares about how you are feeling. If he's tried to get intimate or sexual with you before and still does, then you should have a clue that all he wants is bootie. But if he hasn't then you know that isn't true. You have to have evidence to back up your case. But if he tries to put a move on you that you don't feel comfortable with then just tell him you're not into doing that kind of stuff, and if he's the great boyfriend he's turned out to be, he will understand and takes things slow. I hope I helped!
hey okay i had this real good friend until she meet olivia me and olivia were good friends but now she is just a bitch she always turns people against me and now she has turnd my best friend against me like one night she IMs me saying i hate your guts but she does this when she is only around olivia ........i have to be nice and i cant say nething to her because she is hooking me and her cousin up.....but like she usualy talks to me on the internet but last night she was curseing me out and stuff but hey olivia was at her house right next her ........i dont kno what to do like should i talk to her about this or just leave it alone and let time take its tol?
I think Olivia is trying to ccontrol you, and your lettingher do just that. Believe it or not, you are her walking mat, and boy is she stepping hard. You can't let her or your best friend curse you out all of the time and treat you badly even if she is hooking you up with her cousins. Olivia has turned you own best friend against you, and you need to step up to the plate and confront her because right now you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. It doesn't matter if she is trying to get you and her cousin together because you shouldn't let a guy get between you and a best friend. You know what they say "Boys are whatever, friends are forever". Also, talk to Olivia and your best friend together at the same time.Try and see why they are treating you this way. Work things out with them, and try to come to an understanding. You don't deserve to be treated this way and they should know that. Keep this is mind-If they are real friends they will be able to care about your feelings and try to change so that you all can be good friends. I hope I helped and make sure you get through to them.
I want to take up a babysitting job for extra cash but, i dont know the neighbors that just moved in and thats the ones whos baby i want to sit, and my dad doesnt get home from work till 5:00 and i want to babysit!
should i meet the neighbors and babysit till my dad comes home or should i ask my dad and risk not being able to do it?
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I definetly think that you should meet the new neighbors first. Give them a good first impression of you. Let them know that's your responsible. That way, they will be comfortable with you babysitting there child since they know about you. Besides...who would want a stranger taking care of their child while they were gone? Also, when you have established a comfortable relashionship with that family, you can then ask your dad. Let the neighbors give him the ok, and let him know that you have things under control and you can handle this task because you're responsible-you know, ket them put in a good word for you. If they agree to this, why wouldn't your father. You and your father could even work out a schedule or plan so that you can be able to get home at the apprpriate time. I hope I helped and that this works out for you!