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Who to Believe?
My best friend told me that my boyfriend was flirting with one of my friends. I dont know who to believe.. my boyfriend said nothing happened but he might just be trying to not hurt me. But then again i think my best friend is trying to break us up. Who should i believe? My best friend or my boyfriend? PLease help.
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Neither. Think about it yourself or find an impartial party. I do not have enough information to tell you what I think.
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well if your friend is tryin to break u all up maybe she was flirting with him and telling people he was flirting with her tryin to break u 2 up i dont know why friends want to be that way but they can be well i guess im gonna zoom
goodbye.i hope i was a help to you
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Well, you care about both of them a lot, and you can't really decide who to believe because if you do the other person you didn't believe willbe bent up about the whole thing. If you just can't decide, ask the other suspect which is your other friend who your best friend says your boyfriend was flirting with. I hope I helped!
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well, first of all, if you think that your friend is trying to break you guys up then believe your boyfriend, most guys don't think that doing some stuff is flirting but don't forget what your friend said totally either. you might want to keep an eye on him but don't like follow him everywhere or hang onto his every move, or else he will think that you don't trust him. talk to your best friend and maybe ask her what exactly they were doing or even talk to the girl he was flirting with. if she is your friend she will tell you the truth of what happened. just remember, a relationship is not a relationship at all without trust.
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Normally I would say to believe your best friend over your boyfriend, but if you believe that your best friend is trying to break the two of you up, try to figure out who he was flirting with and ask them for yourself. And really, to be completely honest, flirting is <i>not</i> that bad. The way I see it, as long as he isn't say anything naughty/nasty or touching the other person in a way he would touch me, then it's fine. Talk to both of them to figure out the whole story, when it happened, what was said, who it was said to, yadda yadda. You have to get the whole story before you can start pointing fingers.
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You're in a tought situation, you've probably noticed by now. Your boyfriend might of not considered what he was doing flirting. Your friend might of exagerated a little bit to make it more than it was, because like you said, she's trying to break yall up. If your boyfriend was talking to the girl your friend said he was flirting with and they were maybe a little close, your friend could of considered that flirting and that he was all over her. I say believe your boyfriend, but also don't block out what your friend said, she also might have been right, but you don't want to lose your boyfriend that your friend might of just made up. Follow your heart, but don't forget to use your head.
-therocket♥
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You should talk to the girl she said he was flurting with.
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Ok my problem is similar to this...how long have you and you boyfriend been going out? Do you know for sure if you friend is jealous.If she is jealous then you shouldnt listen to her and just push what she says aside. You should trust what you boyfriend says if you believe he is not trying to hurt you.In the end you have to follow your heart and what you heart believes and not what you head or anyone else is telling you. It will work out for the best
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