Member Since: June 9, 2005
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Last Update: June 17, 2005
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i am a 16yr old girl, and i havent been in a relationship recently bc i was raped/abused by my ex. and honestly im afraid of being in a relationship because of the past. i know i shouldnt let that effect anything in the future, because its done and over with... but i cant help to think what happens if someone hurts me again like my ex? and i no not every one on this planet is a sick minded freak like my ex was... but i cant help to wonder. there are numerous guys who like me, including 2 of my ex/bfs, who treated me with so much respect... but there is another guy who does like me, and i guess i like him too... but hes not really my type... hes sort of a dork, and yeahh. i know that doesnt matter, what im getting at is, if i do choose any of these, how do i make sure they wont hurt me like my other ex, and who do i pick?? (link)
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Follow your heart thats all I can really tell you because your heart will make the right chocie...Your heart will choose the best guy and if you cant trust him or dont feel safe break it off because you should feel safe in a realtionship.
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I am a 17 year old girl and I just made a huge mistake. I have a boyfriend, but this other guy has been hitting on me, flirting like crazy... and last night I gave in. It was only a few kisses, nothing at all really. But I feel really guilty. He said he won't tell my boyfriend because he knows I still love him. But what do I do? I really do love my boyfriend, this was just a one night slipup... if I tell my boyfriend I'll probably get dumped, if I don't I feel guilty... but I'll still be with him which is the desired outcome. What do I do?
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Ok ive heard this one before ill give u 2 different pieces of advice... If it was the other way around what would you want him to do...would you not want him to tell you...2nd- What if other people saw you..what if someone else saw u wouldnt he be more hurt if he heard it from someone else..honestly i think you should tell him the whole story and tell him not to interupt..and then when your done..let him tell you what he wants to tell you..in the end you will feel better and he might not even break up with you...he might just be hurt and it might take awhile to build up the trust again..hope i help..xoxo
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ok....all my friends make the bracelets out of the plastic things on the underside of the soda caps....i think sum of them call them soda condoms....i hear there is a whole story to them.......what does it mean when a guys breaks one of them off....or more than one? (link)
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Ok well im not positive on this one..but the bracelets could mean different things...such as at my school they stand for makeout and when a guy breaks it off you have to do what the bracelet means with him..hope i helped xoxo
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My best friend told me that my boyfriend was flirting with one of my friends. I dont know who to believe.. my boyfriend said nothing happened but he might just be trying to not hurt me. But then again i think my best friend is trying to break us up. Who should i believe? My best friend or my boyfriend? PLease help. (link)
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Ok my problem is similar to this...how long have you and you boyfriend been going out? Do you know for sure if you friend is jealous.If she is jealous then you shouldnt listen to her and just push what she says aside. You should trust what you boyfriend says if you believe he is not trying to hurt you.In the end you have to follow your heart and what you heart believes and not what you head or anyone else is telling you. It will work out for the best
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