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Friends with benifits, bad???


Question Posted Friday July 1 2005, 2:29 am

well after my gf dumped me, we became "friends with benifits." we still make out and ive touched her boobs and she's given me a hj. is this a bad thing? she's the one who dumped me for another guy (whose ass i kicked). does this mean that she still likes me???

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askmex3 answered Friday July 1 2005, 12:07 pm:
She might still like you or she might just be vonerable and wanting someone. Just remember that friends with benefits dosnet always end happily, sometimes one of the friends will get attached while the other is just there for the action.

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karenR answered Friday July 1 2005, 12:07 pm:
She does but evidently not enough to be your girlfriend. I think friends with benefits is not a good thing. For one it keeps one or the other person thinking that there is more to the relationship than there is. It also keeps a person from moving on. I think you should find someone new and put distance between you and the ex for awhile. :)

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texas_hotti answered Friday July 1 2005, 11:32 am:
Yea. Well..kinda. "Friends with benifits" basically means that she wants to get it on with you, but she doesn't want to be completely commited to you. She obviously still has feelings for you because if she didn't.."friends with benefits" would have been out of the question. Hope I helped! <3 Candace

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vchicka15 answered Friday July 1 2005, 11:31 am:
does she still do things with this other guy? if she is doing stuff with the both of you, she probably doesnt like you and is just using the both of you. friends with benifits isnt a bad thing.. its just a way to have fun.

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mr.niceguy answered Friday July 1 2005, 11:17 am:
ok dude no offense but there is no such thing as "friends with benefits" unless the girl is a hooker and then again if she has a bf then y would she have sex with u?

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partygurl24 answered Friday July 1 2005, 9:57 am:
I think that you guys are trying to have a relashionship, but not be like girlfriend-boyfriend type because she has a boyfriend. I think she still has feelings for you, just like you still have feelings for her. I hope I helped.

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blondebaby1016 answered Friday July 1 2005, 9:30 am:
Usually in cases llike that, the person is probably just using you.

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Rebecca answered Friday July 1 2005, 8:08 am:
Is it a bad thing? I guess not. I mean is it playing with your emotions? If you still like her and are hoping to get back together - you may get hurt. I don't get why she would break up with you then do this stuff with you. I will tell you like I tell the girls - there is no such thing as 'friends with benefits'. It's giving away your body for free. The bottom line is that you have to respect yourself enough to leave that alone. Or - talk to her and see what's up. Don't assume things because you never know what's going on in someone elses mind. Just be strait up. Tell her you want to know what's up. And if she really does like you - if you take the physical away, she will come back.

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