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what should i do
I wrote last time how my ex wants to hook back up with me the advice was great. i talk to him and i told him how i felt and told him i was tryed of him leaving me to talk to some other gurl, and how he never sends any times with me. I seeing change in him he comes every moring to see me where it's mostly all of my girls. come to my one study hall some days to one of my class and we write notes to each other. we spend time after school with each other when we can. The thing is couple of my girls and one of my teacher friends are telling me not to get back with him. that all he want is bootie. i don't think that what should i do?
PLZ HELP ME OUT
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I mean, if he's making a change then that's great because that means that he really cares about how you are feeling. If he's tried to get intimate or sexual with you before and still does, then you should have a clue that all he wants is bootie. But if he hasn't then you know that isn't true. You have to have evidence to back up your case. But if he tries to put a move on you that you don't feel comfortable with then just tell him you're not into doing that kind of stuff, and if he's the great boyfriend he's turned out to be, he will understand and takes things slow. I hope I helped!
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Do what you want. Why should we rule your life?
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Well, forgive me for I am not trying to be blunt, but every man or guy wants bootie from the woman or girl that he covets. It's your responsibility to keep sexual emotions in check and it's your responsibility to stay true to your virtue. Once it's lost, it can't be regained. To ensure that you can keep your emotions in check, chose an environment that's comfortable for you. A controlled one. Unless you're sure about yourself and your safety and well being around him. If you're sure about that and if you're sure about the fact that he wouldn't harm you(rape or anything like that) then I see no harm in continuing the relationship any further. Unless, of course, you are looking for something more out of him and the relaionship and that's up to you to decide. I hope I was some sort of help and have a nice day.
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don't let other people tell you what to do. if you believe that this boy has changed- then go for it! only do it or not do it if your heart agrees! hope i helped!
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that may be all he wants trust your heart but be careful with it your heart is the best thing you can give a guy that and your virginity so watch out
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I stick by what I say last time, all he's going to do is disappoint you. I mean you can try to keep up the friendship, see if he has truly changed, but I most definitley wouldn't start dating him at least not for a looooong while.
I mean it's up to you, but if I were in that position and a guy had been cheating on me, more than once our relationship would be over.
Yes, it's possible that he could've changed, but somehow I really doubt that he has changed. If it happens once, it's his fault, if it happens twice it's your fault. Not like your fault, but if something bad happens more than once when it comes to guys, cheating on your, forcing you sex, doing something like that, then you should NEVER take them back because they won't change until they grow up, maybe not even then.
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Hey hun! My advice is to keep up a friendship for a while. The only way you can really test to see what a guy is up to is to give him rope-- but not alot. Spend time with him, hang out but don't make anything official. Then try taking him where there are other girls that might be of his "interest" & see if he stays hanging out with you. If he does then you know he's commited & with you because you're you. If he doesn't then you know that the whole time he was up to know good & that you deserve better. Good luck & if you need anymore help, feel free to leave a question in my inbox =] ♥
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