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friend or foe
hey okay i had this real good friend until she meet olivia me and olivia were good friends but now she is just a bitch she always turns people against me and now she has turnd my best friend against me like one night she IMs me saying i hate your guts but she does this when she is only around olivia ........i have to be nice and i cant say nething to her because she is hooking me and her cousin up.....but like she usualy talks to me on the internet but last night she was curseing me out and stuff but hey olivia was at her house right next her ........i dont kno what to do like should i talk to her about this or just leave it alone and let time take its tol?
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Hot cousin or no hot cousin, this abuse is not worth it. Block her from your IM. If she is so weak that she feels the need to hurt you just to impress the Olivia, you don't need her in your life. This is not a person to trust or like. She is weak and foolish. She will only drag your self esteem down as a trophy for her new master.
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Ok i used to have friend problems like this but thankfully the bitch that stole my friend moved away...so what i think you should do is talk to ur friend(face to face when shes not around olivia) and tell her what she is doing and how you feel about it...if she doesnt listen or listens but does it again around olivia, then bitch her out because you need to stand up for yourself and the one thing that i learned is you cant let someone walk all over you and you not say anything because the longer it goes on...the meaner they will be....so forget the guy she is hooking you up with...you dont need a bitch to hook you up with someone...plus if she is acting like this, then you probably shouldnt trust her to give this guy "good" info on you...so first try to straighted things out, if it dont work...bring that bitch down to what she deserves! lol hope i helped...email me at sweetieme2215@netscape.net to tell me how it went. BYE!
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I think Olivia is trying to ccontrol you, and your lettingher do just that. Believe it or not, you are her walking mat, and boy is she stepping hard. You can't let her or your best friend curse you out all of the time and treat you badly even if she is hooking you up with her cousins. Olivia has turned you own best friend against you, and you need to step up to the plate and confront her because right now you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. It doesn't matter if she is trying to get you and her cousin together because you shouldn't let a guy get between you and a best friend. You know what they say "Boys are whatever, friends are forever". Also, talk to Olivia and your best friend together at the same time.Try and see why they are treating you this way. Work things out with them, and try to come to an understanding. You don't deserve to be treated this way and they should know that. Keep this is mind-If they are real friends they will be able to care about your feelings and try to change so that you all can be good friends. I hope I helped and make sure you get through to them.
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Did you think that maybe Olvia was the one writting the im things. Explain to your friend that what Olvia said was not true. Bye
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Punch both of them in the face.
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This girl absolutely has a serious attitude problem and I have had a friend like her before. She used to be all friends with me, trying to get me to hook up with someone she knew, and then when she got around my other friend she began to front. And she used to insult me and call me names. Yeah, I think we all have went through it. She did the same to me one day and then we just got in a fight at school. I'm not suggesting for you to fight her, I'm just saying that you need to teach her how to respect you. Thus afterwards comes the respect from others. Cause once I taught her respect, she left me the hell alone. Me and her talk but you have to show them that enough's enough and that you're not taking it any longer. It makes you seem weak if you do nothing and it also makes you seem as if you need them when you really don't probably. So what you have to do is teach her how to respect you. The question is, how. I hope I was some help and have a nice day.
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