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a guy that thinks im prude
well this guy that i like says he wouldnt go out with me because i was prude but im not soo he said if i wasnt prude then i have to have sex with him to prove him but now i think about it i dont want to cause i just isnt right at my age (15) and i dont what to say to him that i dont want to have sex with him just to show him im not prude!! everytime i talk to him he always says are u ready to have sex but i always say yes because if u dont then he might spread rumors about me which he is really good at!!! soo i dont know what to do at this point!!! HELP!!!!
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ok.. it's your choice a rumor going around that you are a slut for having sex with him or you could get pregnat. or just a rumor saying that you are prude. i would pick the prude at your age. im wishing you all the luck in the world.
Tonie.
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he just wants to have sex w/ you... and let me guess... he's probably really popular too.
1. stop liking him
2. tell him and everyone you know that he's a jerk
3. make your best friend promise to never let you go out and/or hook up with him.
4. go find a better guy... one who's worth your time
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if that guys if a fag like that fuck him...just tell him you know im not prude and your trying to minipulate me into to doing shit with you and your desperate. why do you have to prove yourself to some horny guy? dont let the boys get to you theyre always up to no good
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If you think it's worong to have sex at your age then don't do it. If all he's after is sex then he's definitely not worth it. If he spreads rumors just ignore him and tell your friends what has been happening. They will stay by your side through the whole thing. Find another guy because you can do so much better than him!
~Erika~
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Ass thats all i gotta say. Find another boy hun. You can do so much better! All he wants is sex im sorry to say. Find a boy that will wait till your ready and will talk about sex. Dont fuck him cause then he might just leave you no. Plz find a boy who will date you and wait for you to be ready! Hope i helped.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Wow wait a minute, no way. I don't care if this guy spreads rumors about you being square or prude, you do not want to go and have sex with a guy to prove something right. What if you became pregnant? That guy would dump you in a heartbeat, and you'd wish that you were prude. Theres absolutely nothing wrong with being prude when you are 15! If you aren't prude, then something is really wrong. That guy is immature, and you are acting immature too just thinking about having sex with him just to prove something to him. You ignore him at this point, actually, you should have ignored him from the start.
-TheTeenGirl
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Why the fuck do you care what he thinks? I'm 15 and I don't give a shit about how I've had sex since I was 13... Why would you have sex with a lame-ass motherfucker like that anyway?
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if you dont want to have sex with him dont ... what rumors could he possibly spread ? say you wouldnt have sex with him cause he has herpes or something ... then you dont sound prude to anyone else and if he spreads rumors you can back yourself up with this or better yet say if you even think your going to spread rumors about me I'll tell everyone you have herpes and then no one will have sex with him ! who needs him , if you dont want to have sex than dont
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dont do it! no matter what he does he just cant find anyone to do it with so he says have sex with me to show you your no prude. so its eaither run your life carring about what other people think and get pregnant or aids. or just dont care.. god. if you say no then hell probly beg you and hes just desprate belive me hes making the whole thing up like if i said your ugly. and you were accully pretty then your like no im not! but i was just jelous do you get it its really hard to explain.
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wow, this guy is a total jerk, he should know that you're not ready to have sex yet, and if he doesn't understand that the first time then he deff. doesn't deserve you. but if you are afraid to say no b/c of the rumors, don't be, other ppl don't matter in this situation, and i assure you that if the rumors do start, it will pass in no time, just keep telling yourself and others that they aren't true, and you'll feel better in the end...hope i helped!
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Hmmm this is a little case of peer pressure. Honestly alot of people says sex is a huge deal. To about 25% of the population is. But mainly its your decision... its not like the first time you have sex you are going to get pregnant, or get stds and die. That stuff if very very rare especially at a young age. Depending upon how you feel about it and how much ya like the guy.. and how far other people have gone... like if every one of your friends are prude... u might be looked at as a slut... but if their not then hell why not haha. Just dont make a mistake... its up to you.
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Just say no! Guys are stupid like that.
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He is just trying to fool you into having sex, by using reverse psychology on you. If the name prude bothers you, and mostly it bothers you more because of the way that he says it and he does it on purpose, then he knows you'll feel anxious and he may get lucky. What he should get is a fat lip. Tell him that you are only a prude where he is concerned. And don't kid yourself, he is probably saying this say thing to some other girl. He sounds like a creep trying to pressure a 15 year old girl into having sex with him, and playing games with your mind. He is not nice, he's not worthy of you. Find someone else.
That is my advice
Michele
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You should absolutely not have sex. You are right...you are too young. You shouldn't have sex with him just to prove you are not prude. Who cares what rumors he spreads, it only matters that you have self-respect for yourself. You never know, if you have sex with him he could spread a rumor calling you nasty names because you had sex with him. Don't have sex with him to prove you are not prude. That's silly and immature of him to even think of that. If you know that you're not prude, then stick to that because you don't have to prove it to anybody. I hope I helped!
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Say yes, have him come over, moan a few times and say "Oh. With how much talk you do I thought you'd be better."
Then send him packing.
Tell the other girls at school that me might have given you a VD.
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Wow.. I could go ON and ON and ON and On and ON about what a WASTE OF A LIFE HE IS.. but I don't think I need to. You'Re NOT a stupid giRl.. you KNOW that is just a line to get you into bed. Just please use youR head heRe.. I KNOW you can see this isn't Right. You don't EVER have to do ANYTHING that makes you feel uncomfoRtable, bottom line. I wish you the best!! :D
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Ok, first off, you shouldn't keep saying yes. You're not prude if you don't wanna have sex. Prude is like not wanting to even hug a person or anything like that. You just need to tell him that you are not prude you just don't wanna have sex yet and then begin telling him "What if I got pregnant because the condom broke? Would you stick by my side? What if you suck? Would you want me to tell people that?" and just scare him out of it, but I reccomend just saying, "I don't want to have sex, I barely even know you,". Simple. Well, not really, but you've got to tell him the truth, but you aren't prude and I honestly don't know why you like him. He's just trying to pressure you into sex by calling you prude. So I say "GET OVER HIM!!!". I'll give you five good reasons why:
1) He's a jerk, OBVIOUSLY!!!
2)Do you want to be pressured into sex? Didn't think so...
3)Do you want him to sex you up and leave you?
4)Do you want to get pregnant?
and last but not least 5) He obviously doesn't know how good you are if he's calling you prude. Any guy would be lucky to have you and here this guy you like is already belittling you!
So please just get rid of him, before you do something you'll regret. I am not for waiting until marriage, but I am for waiting until you find someone you really know and love with all of your heart and truly trust. :)
~K~
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