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ok im not really excited about christmas and i dont know why? i mean i feel like something is missing in my life or is it that im just getting older but i dont think that is true bc i like christmas and all but it just seems like it doesnt matta anymore.

find out wut yer missing...is somethin botherin u bout ur family/friends/bf or gf?? then talk to them about it! christmas is the happiest time of year!! good luck!

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Ok so I've tried about four different legal, free ways to downlaod music but either they don't downlaod or I can't burn the music onto a cd. What do you think is a good, free, legal, music downlaoding program?

www.limewire.com

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why is it that every time you are realy in love with someone they go and break your heart?

thats a dumb question not to be rude but loves one of the most mysterious things

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okay well i am going o;ut with this kid and my best friend like says stuff about him all the time and like seh never said that she hated him untill i started likeing him.. and today this girl that she talks to her sais that on friday seh hopes he breaks up with me.. he used to be in one of her classes until he got his schedule changed and they used to be friends and she was the one who introduced him to me anywasy itll be a minth soon and like i dont want him to break up with me and like i think he likes me and like she always says shit like "eww hes so nasty and hes gross and fat" and like i dont care and we are still best friends and i dont know tell me what to do! thanks

maybe she likes him and shes jelous of u guys...just tell her she needs to quit sayin stuff about him cuz hes yer bf and u wuldnt do that to her! good luck!

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ok well lately ive really had the urge to have sex. im a female and gonna be 15 soon and i know its too early but i dont know what to do. i dont even know how to have sex but ive been having dreams about it and everything. i dont want to be a slut! please help

u wont be a slut...but only do it with one guy u rele feel comfortable with!

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My friend has a dog that won't stop eating like when she takes the food away he growls at her a bites her .all he does is lay around by his food and if anyone walks by he bites them
what to do

take the dog to a vet..somethin might be rong

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i recently started talking to my exboyfriend again, and my old feelings for him are kind of coming back. he seems a lot different than he was when we went out, but we had a reaally bad break up, and i don't think i want to get into again. hes not really in my group of friends, so it would be easy not to talk to him, but he still means a lot to me, and i don't want to lose him completely. what should i do?

aww i know how u feel...just tell him that u still have feelings for him cuz it feels alot better wen u tell a guy how u rele feel! and maybe u guys can become close friends! good luck!

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I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we really love eachother. We've talked about the whole sex thing and agreed that we'd wait until we were together for a longer period of time. My boyfriend said that he's ready whenever I'm ready but he doesn't want to pressure me into anything that I don't want to do. The thing is, I really AM ready. I know that he is the one that I want to lose my virginity to him and he wants to lose his virginity to me. Every time I see him, I get tempted to do more and more with him but I have to stop myself. It's not that I'm scared it's just that I feel that we haven't been together long enough to be doing anything like that. I trust him and I know he won't hurt me. I don't want to become tempted and do that. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can avoid myself from being tempted? I can't have sex with him, it's not the right time for us yet. Thanks so much if you can help! If anyone is in or has been in my situation, tell me how you handled it or how you are handling it.

Just remind yerself its not the right time...but good luck wen the right time comes....just keep thynkin u can do wutever u want except until its time for sex! good luck!

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when im making out with a boy..i wanna just do more then kissing..like i wanna make him want me..cause once a boy knows he has advantage of you and he wants you..your gunna go pretty far..but like what should i do to make him wanna? like where should i touch him?

lol just maybe sit on him n start makin out...guys normally no wut to do lol then just be like lets go farther ....lol good luck

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Okay, I like this girl. We have one class together. I know shes a little hesitant about a relationship, but how do i casually get to know her (bear in mind i want to make a move later on)

well just go up to her and start a conversation...girls love when u complement them lol...then ask fer her s/n or number then clal her n make plans!

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Hey Guys,
Last weekend i went to the movies with my boyfriend. We planned to kiss and make out and all that good stuff. When that moment came up i panicked because it was my first time. After that day i could think of nothing but him and that moment. Now all i want to do is make out with him or at least talk to him about it. I am also afraid that i dont know exactly how to make out with some one. Plz give me tips and should i talk to him?????
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lol well go somewhere private with him...then just start makin out...uhmm it comes naturally lol just go with wut he duz!

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okay ive been on vaca. for a few days, and last night i was on the phone w/ the boy i like and im pretty sure he likes me..and i was feelin so horny and i seriously wanted him so bad..(weve made alot before) and i keep fingering my self..
and i want to do stuff with him right when i get home which is in 2 days..but how do i tell him i wanna..?

be like wanna make out n u no that always leads to other stuff lol or just sit rele close to him n lean in and yeahHhhH lol

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hey every1.okay i know ALLLL the diet tips and the right fo0ds to eat and the excerise plans, etc, alllll of it... Im about 126-127 lbs, and im 5'2..I want to go down to 120 but I dont know how to STAY on the diet..I need motivation..Like sometimes Ill just be like aww screw it and just eat w/e, then right after i eat it i feel really depressed, etc..Any tips on how to STAY on a diet and STAY motivated?? Thanks!

remember u rele wanna lose weight!! and eat healthier food and picture it as cake lol good luck!

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ok here it goes..
my best guy friend and i went out for roughly a month, then he broke up with me. Well he's gotten over me and gone out with all these other girls, but i still have feelings for him and he has no idea whatsoever. i want to tell him, but then again i don't because i'm afraid that it might mess things up. and just a couple minutes ago, he read my profile and it has a quote in it that says "if two past lovers can remain friends then they were never in love or they still are" and when he read, that he imed me and goes "thats not true, i loved you until i saw you as a friend" i dont know, something about him saying that made me feel weird. i really really like him, but i feel like i can't do anything about it. This might be a confusing question, and it might be hard to understand what im asking, but if you do please help me..

aww well tell him thats the best thing u can do is tell him how u rele feel! and maybe u guys will go back out! good luck hunn!

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Thank-you everyone who helped me on deciding about becoming a CSI. I guess I will just stick to watching the show. If my two options left are an interior designer or a teacher, which one gets paid better??

i thynk a interior designer probably wuld...

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Ok: so i love scary movies... spook houses, and doing the ouiji board. I live down in the basement all alone and after seeing freaky movies... like Saw I can't sleep. I think that there in my basement gonna come kill me.. and even though I'm 16... i still sleep with my t.v. on all night... even though I can't stand a speck of light in the night i LOVE watchinng scary movies... but i get so scared I sometimes cry! What can I do?

lol just remmeber their not real....thts wut i do wen i get scared of movies and then it gets better lol! good luck!

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This chick I met this weekend was making the move. I knew what she wanted. Her boyfriends in Iraq, serving our country. Shes a senior, i am a sophmore. You are the brainy one... what do i do?

i wuldnt do it if shes gotta bf especially if hes fighting....how retarded...and if she plans on cheating on him how do u no she wont cheat on u eh? good luck!

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if u made a prmise with someone and they said that it was ok for u to break it cuz they did, does that mean that everyother promise u made with them could break just as easily?

most likely....cuz dont ever make a promise u cnt keep good luck!

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ok my boyfriend is physco..he knocks on my window in the middle of the night and said he loves me and he thinks we're ready for the next step which is sex..but i dont wanna do that..i cant say kno cuz he said he'll kill himself if i dont do it with him.HELP

well if hes sayin hes gonna kill himself try talkin to a counsler or someone that can help him...or be like if u rele love me then u wuldnt wanna do n e thing im not ready for and im not ready for sex....im sorry!

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Agh... I'm so agitated and confused and depressed at the same time I can barely type this...! Anyways... my gf and I have been going out for about 10 days. My friends and I and her hang out all the time. Well it started last night. My friend was just joking around and he said "I'm like a star in the sky!" (Yeah we're pretty weird sometimes.) And my gf said "If you are then I will love you haha" and this kind of got me down, even though she said she was just kidding. Also, the same day, my friend was just like "My butt hurts." Then she says "Haha let me check that out for you then", and she touched it lightly... In a joking way, but it still didn't feel right.Another thing is, today, when my friend and I were walking towards her, she was like "Hey (friends name)!" And I was thinking to myself... "Eh? :( She didn't even say hi to me..." But... my gf said that she is crazy about me and she really loves me and everything like that, and she said that like the 7th night we were going out... but on msn. =\ Anyways, my question is, does she still like me? Or could she be liking my friend, and not me? I mean, she says she's worried that I will like another girl and dump her in the near future, and she also says that she's afraid to get hurt again, so maybe she will hurt me, and everything will be fine for her? I don't know, but we still held hands and hugged and all the normal stuff we do like that, but it still made me sad... please help... and thanks for reading...

well talk to her tell her how u feel...this is coming from a girl ok and if something is bothering a girls boyfriend she wuld rele like to kno...so she can fix it....im sure shes just being nice to yer friend! and if she duz like him then tell her she should go out w. him instead of u...but alot of the times girls like wne guys make the first moves....but just talk to her kay hun! good luck!

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