ok here it goes..
my best guy friend and i went out for roughly a month, then he broke up with me. Well he's gotten over me and gone out with all these other girls, but i still have feelings for him and he has no idea whatsoever. i want to tell him, but then again i don't because i'm afraid that it might mess things up. and just a couple minutes ago, he read my profile and it has a quote in it that says "if two past lovers can remain friends then they were never in love or they still are" and when he read, that he imed me and goes "thats not true, i loved you until i saw you as a friend" i dont know, something about him saying that made me feel weird. i really really like him, but i feel like i can't do anything about it. This might be a confusing question, and it might be hard to understand what im asking, but if you do please help me..
CheapChineseFood answered Sunday November 14 2004, 11:35 am: It couldn't hurt to tell him. But...hmm...especially if he's dating someone now, I wouldn't go all out with your feelings. However, with his words, I already predict the outcome of your spillage. To him...this is over, he likes you as just a friend. If you telling him you love him or like him or whatever, and he all up and changes his mind about you...that's not good...remember that. [ CheapChineseFood's advice column | Ask CheapChineseFood A Question ]
babygurl7961 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 10:44 am: i understand where youre coming from, that's happened to me before just a diff. quote in my profile. Well, now, me and the boy don't really talk as much. but in your case i think you definetly should tell him how you feel.. The reason, in my situation we don't talk as much now, but we're friends.. is cause i NEVER came around to telling him how i felt when i had those feelings, and i regret it when i talk to him. You should definetly tell him how you feel.. and if he doesn't feel the same then maybe try out some different types of guys and its most likely somebodys going to make you feel so great. =] I hope I helped.. let me know what happens! -x0x muah - Jess [ babygurl7961's advice column | Ask babygurl7961 A Question ]
xxpinkeyeliner answered Sunday November 14 2004, 10:43 am: Sounds like he's not worth it. Don't mind me being so blunt but your one and only will probobly value you as both a friend and a lover so perhaps this ones best to have as a friend. Especially since he got over it so fast. You deserve someone who will comit themselves and not fear friendship and love.
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