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i asked that question...not the next question, the one right after it.[thanks for answering lilly_pads79 ,charmed3fanatic, and sublime_burritos(by the way, i love ur name)]....anyway... i want to know, how can i tell if im in love or not. there's another guy i like, but he's good friends with my b/f...i dont no y, but im always going out with guys who are friends with my last b/f...and im just....i guess im blindsided by the fact that i might not love my b/f the way he loves me.
thanx 4 ur help!! i really appreciate it! (link)
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i always say..don't compare!! you don't know what he is feeling for you and his interpretation for love could just be a lot lighter than yours. don't break up with someone just because you think they like you more than you like them unless you don't like them.
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lol. how do you get people to stop saying lol. i dont mind when something funny is happening but when you're like "i went to the beach today" and the im you get back is "lol." please. it bothers me. ok. sorry... i know thats weird. (link)
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you can't stop people from saying something. lol.
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I know all guys are different, but do you think it's a turn off if they meet a girl who is almost 18 and isnt experienced (like hasnt even had her first kiss)? (link)
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no, only if he is a huge jerk will he care. if i were you, i wouldn't mention it though unless it comes up in conversation, then don't lie, but also don't sound ashamed. just say that you haven't met anyone worth your kisses. that will make whoever gives you your first feel very special!
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Okay I really like this guy, Albert. He's one of my best friends. He tells me alot of things, he trusts me alot. My friend says me and him are getting closer and closer and that something will happen if he breaks up with Emma (his girlfriend) but she doesn’t know that I like him. Thats the problem. I really like him but he has a girlfriend. 2 of my friends know that I like him. Him and I do everything together in class, like we sit together in class and all. His girlfriend only likes him, she doesnt love him, but Albert says he loves her. Im not sure though and my friend thinks that he’s hiding behind her but really likes me. Everytime I say something he ALWAYS looks at it the gross way. Like if I accidently touch someone’s hand he goes “Someone wants to get it on” and that stuff. At a party, he put his arm around me but just playing (not seriously). And once in class I was turning around to face the teacher and my knee’s touched his knee’s and he did this funny look at me. Is there something wrong with him or does he like me? Coz he says he loves his girlfriend. Oh and his girlfriend is one of my good friends. (link)
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wow..you sound exactly like my friends. one of my girlfriends is in exactly the same position as you with one of my guy friends. unfortunately i hear both sides from them and he doesn't like her. some guys are just very flirty and its just their personality. i could be wrong though! if you want to wait and see what happens when he and his girlfriend break up, go right ahead, but if i were you, i would try my best to move on.
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do girls like it when guys write poetry for them? cuz i wanted to do something different this time and iono if she will liek it, i really try, but its really cheesy. =/ (link)
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some girls think its sweet..but, sadly, most think it is cheesy. i have had a boy read a poem he wrote to me and it was just awkwards cause i had to stand there and smile while he read it and then comment on it at the end and it was just..weird. although i do think it's romantic when guys write good poetry but aren't open about it...but that's unrelated.
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ok well my best friend set me up on a blind date with her boyfriends best friend. well we hugged and we cuddled in the movie and i gave him a hug at the end of the date and i thought everything was fine but his friends didnt think so and hes saying im prude because i didnt kiss him. should i have done more i mean i would have but i mean i didnt want to take it to far on a blind date and i always wanted the guy to make the move i was never to (btw i have never hadeout before)so i wasnt sure if it would go there i was worried i would mess up! please help! (link)
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no!! y ou don't have to do anything you don't want to do and if anyone gives you crap about it..they aren't worth your time. only do what you are comfortable with..and personally even if i am comfortable with it..i don't make out on the first date. you arejust proving that you are not easy so be confident and proud!
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On the last day of school, I was particularly mad at my friend for ditching me at the mall to hang out with some other people, so I was telling my friends how mean and stupid she was when I realized my crush was behind me and he accidentally heard me ragging on my friend. He said, "I didn't hear what you said," and walked out after I gave him a look of complete shame because I was upset he heard me at a bad time. Since it was the last day of school, I have no time to make it better.
I live near him though- should I go talk to him to make him remember me on a good note? (link)
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yeah..go talk to him! just be like "i was out for a walk and i've been thinking about when you overheard me ragging on my friend i was just really upset and i wanted you to know that i'm not usually like that." or something along those lines. maybe afterwards you can invite him to play basketball or hang out with you and a couple friends after!
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i recently i needed help with my g/f and i wasnt sure if i should break up with her or not.....well anyways, i broke up with her and now her family is mad at me and she told me that she was crying and everything like taht and now i feel really bad but i want to be friends still but she told me she still like sme......im So lost =(
IM GOING INSAINE! (link)
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give her time away from you to get over you...but don't lose touch completely. it will take a long time to build a friendship again so just be patient..i'm sorry..
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Is seltzer a good substitute for soda. I'm trying not to drink soda, would seltzer { cranberry seltzer} be a good drink to drink if i want "fizzy" but without drinking soda? I hope that made sense lol. Thanks in advance! (link)
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yep! you can even mix regular alka seltzer with juice.
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I am a homeschooled girl, I'm turning 15 in about two months. I am doing this program for middle schoolers, where I go and pick up tons of work each month. Apparently, theres so much, that its hard cramming it all in a month, but I manage to get it done the very beggining of the next month, meaning I turn it in late. This happens, because either I didn't have parents take me because they were gone, or I wasn't done. Most of the time it was just not going on time. I expected a lot from myself when I was in public school, my grades were always in a high range. But now, I am failing three classes. Ever since I saw my grades, I have been feeling guilty for eating, sleeping, or doing anything I want because I shouldn't deserve to do what I want. I am so full of stress, I think that maybe another reason. I see a therapist that takes both of my parents sides, and my parents are divorced, but they still fight. But, I'm not going to drown myself in excuses because I've managed to do well in the past. There are lots of other stressful things going on, but I am just really scared that I'm going to get held back. I havn't finished the month of May, I tried to last night, but those thoughts of being a failure took over and kept me from concentrating. I have no idea what to do with the present work, but I do have goals for high school, I might be staying home again. Could anyone share some advice that could help me get my stress out and my future thoughts in?
I'll definetly rate because of the length of this question. It will be more than just thank you. (link)
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if you did well in public school and home schooling isn't working out for you gradewise..you should really consider going back to public school. it will be a lot less stressful because you will have to worry about getting a few things in all times of the month instead of doing everything by the end of the month.
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I had a friend sleepover last night, and now she wont get up!!!!!! I've tried everything, and i'm absolutly starving! What should I do?! (link)
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be nice or she won't sleepover again! go get something to eat by yourself and wait it out. don't let her sleep in too late and waste the time you could be spending together!
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ok well i have a boyfriend whom i love to death, but he is not good at making out at all. he knows that, and he wants me to teach him to get better. i told him i would, and we're getting together this afternoon. i don't know exactly how i'm supposed to "teach" him. any suggestions? please. thank you so much (link)
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practice, practice, practice! let him know what he is doing that you don't like, but there is no wrong way to kiss! just different ways. the most important thing is to be in sync with your partner. go to virtualkiss.com. they have a bunch of 2 player kissing games meant to help your kissing techniques. they also have a ton of other stuff about kissing.
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ok, i need songs to put on a cd that can get me really pumped for my games-the sports i play are football and basketball. i dont care what kind of music it is, as long as its not classical...lol (link)
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try the madden football 2004 soundtrack..that's what my boyfriend's team listens to.
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Me and this guy (lets call him Joester haha) are friends with benifits. His friend told me that Joester wants to make out with me. Part of me wants to that way I could piss off my x-best friend and because Joester is really hott. But part of me doesn't want to because after making out you do gross stuff that truthfully I dont want to take part in. Am I over reacting please help I rate really high (link)
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how are you fwb if you are afraid to make out with him? isn't that what fwb do? i personally don't think those kind of relationships are good ideas at all..but do what you want. what do you mean by "gross stuff"? you don't have to do anything you don't want to do.
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do u speak spanish? (link)
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yes
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i hang out with my friends at school but i keep very quiet or else someone will start talking crap about me but when im with friends from sports i can relax and just let myself free. when i do something funnywith my freinds at skool they dont think its funny but when i do it with my freinds from softball they laugh soo hard they are crying. but the problem is thAT my friends from sports go to diferent schools than i do. what should i do>? (link)
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spend more time with your sports friends to keep you happy because you seem to have a good time with them. also..stick with your other friends..they are different people, but also be on the lookout for other people who appreciate you.
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All of my girl-friends were like "omg the notebook is soo sad! I cryed so hard!" and my cousins told me so too..they said it made them cry soo hard..but then I watched it for the first time..and it wasn't sad or anything..they died together..I didn't cry or feel any sorrow..is something wrong with me??? (link)
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no the same thing happened to me. i was fine. i did get emotional over the book though.
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okay well if u read this question you might think i'm lesbian. BUT I'M NOT I SWEAR! i'm straight as a straight line! it's just well i compare myself to other girls if they have something and i don't. like boobs or a butt or really skinny! and i really need help to STOP because i DONT want people to think i'm lesbian! CUZ I'M NOT! i think there nasty people! but i need help to stop comparing! (link)
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it's natural for girls to compare themselves to others. just become more confident in yourself and you won't worry as much. but don't worry at all about the comparing.
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when it comes to swimming i get very self concious! people think im skinny because at school i squeeze in all the time. but i love to wear2 peice bathingsiuts because if i weara 1 peice ill be the only oneand look like a geek. i have a little flab. what should i do (link)
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everyone has a little flab..so don't worry about it. squeezing in doesnt really make that much of a difference so most likely you look great in a two piece. if you want..do crunches. when you find yourself sitting around..do them then! watching tv? great time.
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every morning when i wake up, my eyes are sooo puffy!! i cant take it! does anyone have an idea about what to do to prevent or treat them? (link)
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if you put tea bags on your eyes that is supposed to help. you can also get one of those masks that you can freeze and put it on in the morning while you are getting ready..you know the ones with eye holes in them. there is also gel you can buy to put on your eyes that is supposed to help that. i know principal's secret makes some..but so does everyone else probably. good luck!
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