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i need advice!
ok well my best friend set me up on a blind date with her boyfriends best friend. well we hugged and we cuddled in the movie and i gave him a hug at the end of the date and i thought everything was fine but his friends didnt think so and hes saying im prude because i didnt kiss him. should i have done more i mean i would have but i mean i didnt want to take it to far on a blind date and i always wanted the guy to make the move i was never to (btw i have never hadeout before)so i wasnt sure if it would go there i was worried i would mess up! please help!
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that guy is a freak. just because you didn't kiss a dude that you went on a blind date with, does not make you a prude. what would make you seem like a prude if you didn't touch him at all...and you did. you cuddled and hugged. there is nothing wrong with that. if you didn't feel comfortable making the first move for the kissing, then don't. it's not your problem that he's a pervert and expects that much out of blind date. *mumbles idiot under breath*
it is ok to wait for the guy to make the first move. and unless you feel like you want to make the first move, then just sit back and relax. forget what he said...the dude's a jerk. you are not a prude, he is.
hope i helped.
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well you shouildnt kiss anyone on a blind date.. ans sont worry about what people say about you..but if you feel you shouild of kissed him than you shouild of......but dont do anything because your firnds tell you to..anyways he shouild of made the first move anyways..what is it now a days????all the girls are amking first moves.. you dont do that you wait till he kisses you...well i hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101
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No, I think that you didn't have to kiss him. You did fine with what you did because you barely knew him. It was just a date at the movies though. So yea.
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If he isn't man enough to tell you how he feels then i don't think you should waste anymore of your time with him. I agree with you about not going to far on a first base, and i honestly think you can do better than him. If he's gonna talk about how prude you are now, then when you really start to do stuff with him, he'll probaly talk about how much of a slut you are.
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well I can help, you say you need help well I didn't understand on exactly what but I can help you on your kissing here is a website that will help you on that
http:/www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool/
and yes the guy should make the first move thats what I think
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You did the right thing. You did what you felt right. It doesnt matter if he thinks youre a prude or not, you should never do something you are not comfortable with. If this guy is calling you a prude because you didnt kiss him then he isnt a guy you want to be with anyways. If he was a nice guy who liked you for you he would go as slow as you want in the relationship.
Never think it's your fault for a guy not liking you. You do not have to change for anyone, one day you will meet a guy that likes you for you and not for how fast you do things with a guy.
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it was the first date, let alone a blind date! you should do whatever your comfortable with. he was wrong to call you a prude b/c 1.) he doesn't even know you and what you're like and 2.) if he wanted it to go farther he could of tried to kiss you too, like you said the guy should make the first move. so don't worry about what he says, he was completely wrong and don't worry about it.
*Lins
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Relax babe! There is nothing so attractive to guys as comfort and confidence. If you were so stressed out about a kiss then you were absolutely right not to kiss him. It would have just ended badly.
Make sure you are comfortable hanging out with a guy before you kiss him, that way if anything does go a little wrong you can laugh it off easily and go on to bigger and better making out!
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no!! y ou don't have to do anything you don't want to do and if anyone gives you crap about it..they aren't worth your time. only do what you are comfortable with..and personally even if i am comfortable with it..i don't make out on the first date. you arejust proving that you are not easy so be confident and proud!
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