i asked that question...not the next question, the one right after it.[thanks for answering lilly_pads79 ,charmed3fanatic, and sublime_burritos(by the way, i love ur name)]....anyway... i want to know, how can i tell if im in love or not. there's another guy i like, but he's good friends with my b/f...i dont no y, but im always going out with guys who are friends with my last b/f...and im just....i guess im blindsided by the fact that i might not love my b/f the way he loves me.
thanx 4 ur help!! i really appreciate it!
Additional info, added Tuesday June 14 2005, 1:22 am: ok, well maybe i was wrong, my last question is down there....the only one that doesn't have a subject.....my bad...lol.... Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Xsweetpeax26 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 12:42 pm: if you are dating around all these guys, youre not in love. too many people in this day and age that are like 13-17 think theyre in love with their boyfriend, when in reality its just something to say before you hang up the phone. in all honesty - i dont think youre in love at all. i thnk you mean "i dont LIKE my boyfriend as much as he likes me" im prtty sure if you have to ask this question than you dont klnow what love is. let me give you breif run down of what love is like, because ive been there. with the REAL thing. not the "lets say it before we hang up the phone"
you cant breath when you talk to him.
your stomach gets butterflies everytime you see him.
no matter what, you can never stop smiling,
reality is better hten a dream.
your heart literally hurts. you have a sinking aching feeling to it when youre with or when you think of him.
you dont mind working hard for money to buy him presents. or at chores so you can go see him.
no matter how sad you are, if he just holds you? all your problems go away..
those are just a few of the thigns ive experienced, and they are absolutely wonderful, until you feel things along those lines, youre not in love. sorry. so dont say it. save those words for somoene you really care about.
BearKatGirl09 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 10:35 am: Trust me you know when youre in love. Ive been dating my boyfriend for two years after about 6 months I told him I loved him and he felt the same. Love isnt just a regular feeling like sadness and irritation. Love is an overwhelming emotion one you can't get rid of. If you think about him all the time if every last thing reminds you of him if you talk to him every night b/c you like to hear his voice before you go to bed and if after everytime he messes up for, some reason you cant explain, you forgive him...those would be good indicators...hope i kinda helped [ BearKatGirl09's advice column | Ask BearKatGirl09 A Question ]
xoBrowneyes answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 10:02 am: If you find yourself looking at him more than you do your friends. If you dream about him. And if you want to walk by him then you might like him! [ xoBrowneyes's advice column | Ask xoBrowneyes A Question ]
iSpEaKsPaNiSh answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 6:58 am: i always say..don't compare!! you don't know what he is feeling for you and his interpretation for love could just be a lot lighter than yours. don't break up with someone just because you think they like you more than you like them unless you don't like them. [ iSpEaKsPaNiSh's advice column | Ask iSpEaKsPaNiSh A Question ]
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