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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )

advice

if my eyes are dark blue-green wut color eye shadow should i use to make my eyes stand out?

i think silver eyeshadow would look good on your...or turquoise

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Does tooth paste really work on zits?? And if so how do you apply it? Thanks!

well i know they work on burns but im not sure about zits...some ppl suppose they work and they put bits of toothpaste on over night

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alright i just want to know if there is ne way for me to lose weight and gain more muscle ik im a bit on the chubby side and i just want to know any ways to lose weight and gain muscle w/out actually lifting weights b/c i have no way to get access to weights

eat fruits & veggies...drink plenty water..stay away from foods high in carbs...and just exercise as in curlups and situps..and even pushups

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Hey i was wondering how you get those pretty icons from photobucket onto the xanga's and stuff like that


Thanks so much! I rate high!

use the website freewebhosting.net to upload the icons and then post them onto xanga using the PICS button

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Hey i play sports and dont get me wrogn I love playing them and wouldnt want to quit...but iam kinda a tom boy so how can i become more girly??

Dont dress boyish...wear colors like pink & purple...leave your hair down & put on makeup..carry a purse..wear highheels...the options are endless....

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iim tryinq to eat healthiier ..i eat alot of fruit cause i feel like its not really eatinq at all.. is it fatteninq wen it addz up?

nope..fruit never equals fat unless your eating other junkfood with it...such as strawberrys and chocolate...which is great by the way lol but yeah...eat as much fruit as you want...your skin will be beautiful and your body will be healthy

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what are sum good eyeshadow colors?

I love turqoise these days. Try gray or silver for the smoky look....*

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there is a girl. she doesnt know how i feel about her, i think. she's been helping me boost my self confidence. i want to show her i appreciate it. i just dont know what to do.
help.

just tell her...I really appreciate how you've been helping me through a tough time...or next time you see her...try bringing her roses but u dont have to make it too romantic...girls love chocolate...

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i always call my bf. He nerver calls me! whats up with him?

ask him why he never calls you...next time you call him, before you hang up, try saying.."aight why dont YOU CALL ME at..." whatever time...if he doesnt call..that shows he's not really interested in this relationship...

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Hi my name is jess my sister was going out with this kid named rob and they just broke. Well until after they broke she found out he was one of those stalker people. Today he broke into my house and my sister and i locked ourselves in my moms room and he kept banging on the door so my sis called the police. Well they came and caught hijm and we didnt press charges but they said if he steps one foot on this property again he will be arrested. i was crying when this happened cause i was afraid he had a weapon. Im really afarid he will do this agin. How can i get over this really scary moment im scared ut of my pants right now?
plz hurry love jess

wow i would be scared too...but just make sure you keep your doors & windows locked all the time for right now. Don't stay home alone..make sure you always have your sister with you and even when you go somewhere, dont let your sister go alone...thats really dangerous...I hope you guys stay safe( :

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me and my best friend were hanging out the last couple of days because shes having issues with her boyfriend and ex boyfriend so i spent the night on monday and we tried to figure things out for her. on tuesday things only got worse i told her a couple days before i went to her house she could sleepover at mine on tuesday so after things got worse 30 minutes before my dad came to get me she was like im going to your house she went down stairs to tell her mom and her mom went crazy yelling and telling her that she had no respect for her moms rules or for her mom and it kinda freaked me out im not used to alot of yelling bc my parents are pretty laid back when we were leaving she was like i dont want you over here anymore but the thing is i didnt do anything wrong i was just there to help out a friend and there really isnt a reason for her mom to dislike me so much her mom already didnt like me bc i have different ideas about how a family should be run and my friend tells her mom everything shes my best friend and i would hate to stop being able to hang out just because her mom doesnt like me bc that really isnt fair whats up with her mom and how can i change things??( her mom scares the crap outta me!!) sorry this is so long but please help!!!

Well if her mom doesn't like you and respect, it's probably best you dont go to her house anymore or call her house phone. You should just chill with her when you guys go out and call her only on her cell. Theres no use in still going over to her house, getting disrespected by her mom and then getting her yelled at....And you can't really change anything between her & her mom...theres nothing you can really do to change the way she treats her daughter.

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Sorry its kinda long... My boyfriend and I get along really good but he thinks I have too many guy friends. I am pretty good looking *not to sound big headed, its just what people say* so he thinks that whenever I go spend time with him I will cheat on him. He doesn't trust me at all. Just the other weekend I went to see my guy friend I have known since I was born. He moved when we were 6 so I go visit him all the time. My b/f called me every 30 min. to make sure I wasn't cheating on him. He didn't even want me to wear a bathing suit infront of my frnd. Of course while I was there I didn't cheat on my boyfriend. Is there someway I can make him trust me with my guy friends?
Thanks for the help.

Guys like this will probably claim "I do this because I love you" but what they really are saying..."I do this because I dont trust you". You have to talk to him and let him know, he cannot control your life...he is not your parent or anyone to tell you who to hang out with and who not to. He needs to respect you and your friends...and if he cant do that, he's not worth being with.

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hey! i bought some bronzer in the compressed powder form, but i dont know how to put it on!! everytime ido its bltochy and looks soo bad! how to i apply it evenly and where do i apply it? thanks!

Maybe its not the right type of bronzer for you....you should go to a place like hechts or nordstorm and there they will actually tell you whats good for you skin...the right shade & form of bronzer for you

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okay how gross is this...
on dates with my bf while talking casually about what we've done before meeting each other (usually involving a rush to get out of bed) ect I always list down that I managed to brush my teeth and have a drink before leaving the house... him on the other hand spends his mornings on the computer or watching TV... he doesn't even BOTHER to brush his teeth or anything :S and he tells me this! can you be more of a turn off... ewwww... and once he got really mad at me for not wanting to kiss him but can you blame me!! how do I subtely get the message across to him that that is the biggest turn off like, ever :|
plus, I dunno, is this like a hint he can't be bothered? he's always dragging on about how he doesn't care about his appearance ect.. but after 3 months he's never even complimented how I look and I always try my best, blah...
Please help + opinions on this
xxx

it sounds to me like this guy really doesn't care what others think of him and though that can be a good thing sometimes...in your case its not. You need to tell your boyfriend that you don't understand why he is so sloppy and that it really bothers you. Plus..if he really likes you, he should put some effort into looking good for you

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Please only answer this question if you have read the book!!!

I was wondering how many people liked the book(Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince) because i work at a bookstore and we have really been wondering what people think of the book!!!

thankees

(i rate high!!)

I read the first one and enjoyed it

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my birthday is coming up soon.
i want to rent a limo.
but the only problem is . .
i dont know where it would take us!
does anyone have any ideas of places to go? thanks!

You could have the limo take you to some nice restuarant thats not near by...but not too far...actually first go shopping with your friends at a nice place which you wouldn't be able to go any other day and then go out to dinner

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All my life-I was known as the "stick."


Now I'm gaining weight-and fast. I am on birth control and that could be one of the reasons-but I'm also not in as many sports as i once was.

I'm not fat-but I feel as if i am overweight. I am 5'9 and i weigh 130.


Psycologically-I want to stop eating. I eat something fattening-and then I decide not to eat for the rest of the day.



I can't shake this-and I really just want to lose weight. I run every day-but it soon ended-I just couldn't do it anymore. I have horrible back problems. I try and eat heathy-but i still feel fat.


Sorry.


Please help..

Just because u weigh 130 at 5'9 doesnt mean ur fat...im 5'3 and i weigh 135...and no one ever calls me fat. eat veggies n fruits drink lots of water n milk

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Alot things have happened to me lately..my parents split..my dad moved out..and my friendships are coming and going. I'm depressed. How do i get over this?

Ppl that i know who have gone through tough times always lean back to their religion during this time....they pray for themselves and for their family members, and they tend to feel better after a short period of time.

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how do you style side-swept bangs? like would you straighten them, or what. i don't have them, but i want them. and would it look bad if you didn't style them?

I had side swept bangs for a year...and i got them by taking a picture of jessica simpson to my hair stylist , and showed her the fronts of jessica simpsons hair...and no i never styled my bangs when i went to school n they looked cute.

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what are good types of hair gel/moose for when you scrunch up your hair and it makes it look curly/wavy
i rate HIGH!!!!!!! plz help!!

I like LA LOOKS..its really cheap and it works well for my hair...or use herbal essences mousse too

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