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psycho parent
me and my best friend were hanging out the last couple of days because shes having issues with her boyfriend and ex boyfriend so i spent the night on monday and we tried to figure things out for her. on tuesday things only got worse i told her a couple days before i went to her house she could sleepover at mine on tuesday so after things got worse 30 minutes before my dad came to get me she was like im going to your house she went down stairs to tell her mom and her mom went crazy yelling and telling her that she had no respect for her moms rules or for her mom and it kinda freaked me out im not used to alot of yelling bc my parents are pretty laid back when we were leaving she was like i dont want you over here anymore but the thing is i didnt do anything wrong i was just there to help out a friend and there really isnt a reason for her mom to dislike me so much her mom already didnt like me bc i have different ideas about how a family should be run and my friend tells her mom everything shes my best friend and i would hate to stop being able to hang out just because her mom doesnt like me bc that really isnt fair whats up with her mom and how can i change things??( her mom scares the crap outta me!!) sorry this is so long but please help!!!
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Sounds like this freaky parent has some insecurity about herself. Sometimes you can't do much with adults like that. I would suggest just staying away from your friend's house for a short time. Let the mom cool off because she must be going through something to blow like that. If it's a bad household then she probably has some problems. I'm sure there are ways to see your friend. Maybe call her and meet somewhere. I'm sure you can think of something. But dont' let your friendship dissolve because of her mom. Good luck!!!
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if its really that bad tell your mum or dad & hav the parents talk she wont yell at them if that doesnt work out she can always go to your house or you can both meet up with another friend at their house
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Oh gosh! I would definitely not worry about this too much.. I'm sure your friends mom doesn't hate you or anything. But maybe what you can do is talk to your friend about this and have her discuss it calmly with her mom.. (without you there) maybe her mom will see how harsh she's been if her daughter points it out to her. Or, if your parents are friends with hers, then they could discuss it together. OR if you're really feeling "bold" sit down with your friends mom and your friend and all have a "heart-to-heart" of the sorts. Hopefully talking will take a little of the tension away and calm everyone down. Don't jump to conclusions just yet though, she could've been having a very bad day or something.. Good luck!
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Aw sorry about that. Her mom must of been in a really bad mood but her behavior has nothing to do with you and its not your fault. Her mom is defenetlly wrong and you didnt do anything wrong. She should be a better mother like your mom but its just the way she was raised and thats the way she knows how to raise her kid. Her mom must of been drunk or something because she said all that. You need to talk to your friend and she could talk to her mom and see what you did that made her soo mad? You and her will always be best friends no matter what and maybe your mom could talk to her and see whats up? Hope that helped at least a little.
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Well if her mom doesn't like you and respect, it's probably best you dont go to her house anymore or call her house phone. You should just chill with her when you guys go out and call her only on her cell. Theres no use in still going over to her house, getting disrespected by her mom and then getting her yelled at....And you can't really change anything between her & her mom...theres nothing you can really do to change the way she treats her daughter.
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