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Hey, My name is Ryan, And I will be your shrink for the day, I have 18 years of life experience, trust me I have been through it all, loss, births (no I didnt give birth silly), Parents divorce, my own bad relationships, I have fixed heaps of relationships, basically, I'm the one who will lay it out straight! if you dont want the answers everyone seems to give like those stupid answers that never really help, then come to me, I condone the realists approach, the ways that REALLY work :D so ask me about ANYTHING..

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I have just moved to Virgirnia from Oklahoma, and I want to buy a new car. However the registration of my old car is expired. I am wondering whether I can trade-in this car when I buy a new car. If I can not, how can I get rid of it?

selling it would be the easiest way.. but its prob best if you get like 3 months reg and trade it in.. hope this helps :P

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how do i help my bf be more confident about making a sports team?

tell him he is really good at the sport... encourage him.. get him really going.. and train with him before tryouts.. you maynot be a sporty chick, but u can sure as hell help him :)

Hope this helps :P

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theres this new guy on skool and shes really HOT! hes on the other team so i havent talkd to him yet. i wanna talk to him because mayb we can get 2gether :-). I am a shy person when it comes to talkin to new people. Any ideas or tricks on ways to talk to him?
PLEASE ANSWER QUICKLY!:-D
I RATE!

dont trick him.. just walk up to him and say hi :) its the easiest way.. and he is sure to notice you.. trickery is just silly coz he may think of you as a tease and might not want to know you.. so yeah.. be urself and take the risk

If you dont risk anything.. you risk even more!

hope this helps :)

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my doctor told me i was anemic, but i have no idea what that means. can anyone exaplain it to me?

it means you have low iron levels.. you should either take iron supplements.. or eat more red meat :)

Hope This Helps!! :P

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Hey Everybody!
My High School will be having a Sweethearts Dance in February, and the girls ask out the guys. Well, there's this guy I like and in the past we had our little trouble times, but I think he likes me again! I want to ask him, but I don't know how. So, do any of you know how I should ask him to the dance?

I know I have asked this question before, just a little reminder because I need to ask him, now! So if you have anymore ideas, tell me as soon as possible!!
Love you guys.
~MiSSc~

P.S.~ I wanna do something sweet for him since he's a sweet guy. I want to ask him out that involves a poem, chocolate (because he loves chocolate), or anything special or cool. So, Got any tips?

write a poem on a block of chocolate? liek.. actually carve it onto the chocolate and then you can watch him devour you poem :) at the end of the poem it could say.. i love you be mine? or something? heheh

just a though :)

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Okay..well theres a guy im going out with and its been a month and a half and well, i need to know a way i can break up with him, and well ive seen many questions like this asked before, plz dont tell me to tell him the truth..becuz everyone is saying that, all i need is to know what i should say to him but in a way where he wont hate me because we go back..we are good friends and im afraid if i break up with him it wont be the same :( but ill rate high!
Plzz just gie me some ideas.

Signed, confused4life
xoxo

tell him you really love him. .but just arent ready for a relationship.. but sometime in the future you wil lbe really great together.. but you just have to sort yourself out first...

although it is better to tell the truth.. but meh.. oh and he will hate you more if you lied to him and he found out but you dont want to tell the truth so try the above :)

Hope this helps :)

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Hi my name is shannon bell and am 13 years old i had surgery on my back at12 and my family andn friinds say that i could never be a model with i scar in my back.I think that i can becuase i am fabulous.but when i seen americas next top model i new i would be good for runway but i did mot know if any modeling agency would won't me with a big scar on back.What should I do go on with dream or just forget.I need your help please.

always follow your dreams.. no matter what.. not all clothes are backless you know.. you will prob end up modeling gowns.. or formal wear.. or somehting.. however you would prob never do two peice swimwear etc.. but you never know.. they may end up designin a one peice coz of you..to hide the scar at the beach.. and youll become famous :P

anyway.. good luck!

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i have these 2 friends and they are like 2 of my best friends..they are twins too.But like they have other friends that they chill with but they never have chilled with me, & we are always there for eachother and they always say bf4l sfl and i sorta believe the bf4l part but not the sfl, it just rlly pisses me off how they dont chill with me, how should i handle this? what should i say to them?

bf4l = Bes Friends 4 Life???
sfl = No freaking clue!!!

ask them to chill with you.. have you ever tried that? its the best way to get someone to chill with you..

hope this helps :)

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hey..ok so here's the problem..i've liked this guy Chris for like Ever. he was going out w/ my friend for about two months and i had liked him the whole time. they broke up awhile ago, and i just found out he likes me. and one of my friends was talking to him and he said he'd ask me out. and i dont know if i wanna go out w/ him..i mean i've liked him for so long and i still Really like him..but we have this Fun Flirty friendship that i deff. don't wanna lose. and i'm scared that if we go out, and break up that we'll be all akward and not even talk to eachother..but i've liked him for so long and i dont think i could turn him down! ahhhh Help pleaseee! I Rate!! xOxO

ok. im going to tell you what i have told so many others before.. YES! go out w/ him! do it! why not.. its always worth the risk if you really like him! and he likes you.. i mean do it!

If you dont risk anything, You risk even more!!!

Hope this helps :)

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i just got out of this relationship with a guy i dated for a really long time. he broke up with me because we get into little fights. we both still love eachother, but he's afraid to hurt me because of little things. he thinks i'm hurt bc i cry, but i cry bc i don't want to break up. i really want him back, and he says he still loves me. what can i do to convince him that we should be together? i've tried to get over him, i play volleyball n i let my anger out on that, n i write poems n hang out w/ friends, but nothing works! please help me! i donno what to do! =(

tell him the reason you cry is coz you wanna be with him.. tell him hes hurting you by not being with you.. tell him everything about how you feel.. its the only way.. and you wont regret it.. just come out and be as open as possible!!

hope this helps :)

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alright so my brother is a little more then 4 years older then i am. but for the longest time i have had this huge thing for one of his friends, who i dont even know that well. when they are off at college i feel alright, but everytime the come back to visit, i start to like him again. i dont know what to do its just one of those things that you totally cant get over.. any advice would really help thank you!
~*~AndreAa~*~

hes a college guy.. forget about him.. move onto someone your age.. youll find youll be alot happier with someone your age that you can see all the time and be with.. and whenever they come back to visit.. im assuming its a day.. go out with some friends so you dont have to see him. of course you wont be able to see ur bro.. but meh :P anyhoo hope i helped :)

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theres this random guy that hates me for no reason...he says im annoying but i dont talk to him...and yesterday he threw an egg or something at my window...what can i do to get him back so that i wont get in (much) trouble?

i dunno.. if your a guy - tell him you will hit him if he doesnt stop; if your a girl.. maybe ask him out.. he may have a crush on you and is trying to get your attention?

hope this helps :P

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hi its been 2 months since my dad left for monterrey to learn french an he will be gone six months. Anyway im stuck at home with my sisters and my mom who are driving me crazy and it seems like the only way i can get away is by smoking and ive got asthma and one kidney. i just need advice on soning out because if i keep up the way ive been smoking ill be dead before im thirty. Any good advice would be nice and i will rate high.

ok.. so it seems that you have had some hard times in your life? maybe donated a kidney.. or kidney failure. hang on.. thats non of my busyness... ok so like.. how old are ya? in your mid 20's? early 20's? im 17 and the best way i zone out is going for a drive in my car with my subs blaring.. it kinda beats the frustration out of me.. but if your in your early mid 20's you may not really be into that stuff.. so maybe you need a punchin bag.. something to hit when you get really frustrated...

hope this helps :)

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Hi, I was just browsing the net when I came across this! So heres the
thing, I'm sure it's over told, I really like this guy at my school. I
find that he's hard to read though, like somedays he'll act like he's
really into me, and likes me, but others he doesn't say a word and acts
uninterested. So, here's what makes me think he is; He teases me in a
flirty way sometimes, and seems to like it when I laugh. He remembers
stuff that we've talked about before, even if I said it like in front
of the class, or mumbled it under my breath. This one time in class, he
was talking and when he said the word "amazing" he was definitly
looking at me. Sometimes he'll smile at me in the halls. When I needed help
with the copier he helped me, and seemed sort of nervous, more so
because it was just us, rather than around all of his freinds and class
mates. I also think he might have been staring at me a couple of times,
it's yet to be proven. But, we really have no connection outside of
school. Somedays, it's like he hasn't noticed me in the room, or
sneaking looks at him, I want him to see me! I've been flirting as
discretly yet noticably as humanly possible! I think he's noticed, but I
think maybe were both being to shy. I would ask him out, but I really
don't want to be rejected from him. I really like him so much. I don't
know too much about him either, I know that he hunts, likes fish (as in
pets), plays football, and loves poker and card games. He knows that
I'm in Tae Kwon Do, and am a vegetarian, and also that I've volunteered,
he even said I was special when I said I volunteered without a
sarcastic tone. I think he likes me too, but he's making it hard, or maybe I'm
not reading him right, either way, please help!

Hoplessly in Love

well.. its seems as if he likes you.. but hes not quiet sure you like him back.. give him the reassureance.. walk up to him and ask him if he has ever though about you an him together.. or maybe something along those lines.. flirting is real tricky to note if your being too discreet.. wink at him every time you see him.. and flash him a smile.. stuf like that.. and if he still hasnt noticed you.. ask him.. i mean it seems as if you really care about him.. so its worth a try right? remember:

If you risk nothing, You risk even more!

Hope this helps :)

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Well hi my name is Jay and i have some friends right and they give me alot of shit that i put up with. Im getting really pissed and i am an inch away from cracking one of them in the face.
We're good friends though and they just started to be jackasses to me and its pissing me the fuck off. Help me out please i dont want to ruin our good friendships.

seems to me however that he couldnt care less about your friendship.. maybe he has some really intense family issues and he is just taking it out on you.. try talking to him.. ask why he is being an arsehole.. he may open up to you.. or just yell in your face.. but still. its worth a go right? Remember:

If you dont risk anything, You risk even more!

hope this helps :)

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ok well this is kind of embarassing(sp)but i have sweaty arm pits..even when im cold..i no i should see a doctor so i can get some med. but i dont want to tell my mom cause its embarassing(sp)should i tell her?im going on vacation in feb. and i dont want that problem to effect my good time because its going to be hot there..and in school people always ask why im always wearing a hoddie..and i dont want to tell them..but i want to tell my mom so it will stop but like i said it embarassing(sp)...please dont respond if your going to make fun of me

hope you can help!

yes its a medical condition.. youd best sort it out asap!!! or maybe its just somethin your not doing? maybe its the deoderant your using.. could be any number of things.. but id see ur doc asap

hope this helps :)

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Okay i have this "friend" and she's getting on my nerves. the thing is that i know i'm a shopaholic and i shopa nd buy thing a lot it's just the thing i do. so we went to the mall a few days ago and while she has $100 for shopping i didnt so i was like these are nice pants i'm going to tell my mom and we go back to get them and she all the sudden started yelling at me about me going shopping so much and everything and that i shouldnt buy anything from now on because it's way to much money. what should i do or say to her? it just pissed me off that it's any of her business that i buy things because it's not like she's paying for it...please help me if you can. and it feels like she's always competing with me with clothes or something...she doesnt excatly live where i do because her house is like the size of my living room(not to be mean or anything tho cuz i'm in a new subdivision with the nice houses) and she's always like yeah i use to do this and that like she was all rich before and that gets me mad...i'm not rich or nothing but enough to get by yah kno? Please help! thanks!

shes simply jealous.. serious.. you have all this money to throw around and do what you like with.. but still.. you are acting a bit greedy.. sorry to say this but it is true, the way you said that before sounded like you were bragging.. maybe if you dont talk about shopping near her for a while.. and dont say im going to buy this.. coz she probably cant..

hope this helps! :)

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im only 13 and i already had sex with my boyfriend ..... do that mean im a slut cuz like every1 in my school found out cuz my boyfriend told his brother and he told other people and now every1 is callin me a slut and a whore but i really love my boyfriend.....what should i do???

umm.. wow.. thats a hard one.. you arent a slut.. ok.. maybe they are just jealous.. although 13 is a fucking stupid age to have sex.. you probably havnt really even hit puberty.. so chances are you didnt even climax.. so really you could say you didnt have sex at all :S

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okay. i'm 13 and Female. well, my boyfriend dumped me for a very strange reason. He said that he was doing alot of sports (he does like 4 or 5) at the time. And wouldnt have like any spare time.....was he lieing? or, he telling the truth? he doesnt have another girlfiend. And doesnt talk to me. HELP

he was lieing.. duh.. if he really loved you.. he would make time for you.. sports arent more important than love.. forget about him.. hes an arse!

hope this helps :)

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A couple weeks ago, I had a dream that my guy friend kissed me. I woke up not wanting it to stop and I was really mad that it was just a dream. I started to think that maybe I had feelings for him just a bit and when I saw him a few days after that I was acting all weird and shy. I dunno what I should do. I'm too scared to talk to him!

xxx Keely

why it appears you have a Crush.. congratulations!! talk to him.. ask him how he feels about you.. flirt everything!!

as i always say

if you dont risk anything.. you risk even more!!

GOOD LUCK!!!

hope i helped :)

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