i just got out of this relationship with a guy i dated for a really long time. he broke up with me because we get into little fights. we both still love eachother, but he's afraid to hurt me because of little things. he thinks i'm hurt bc i cry, but i cry bc i don't want to break up. i really want him back, and he says he still loves me. what can i do to convince him that we should be together? i've tried to get over him, i play volleyball n i let my anger out on that, n i write poems n hang out w/ friends, but nothing works! please help me! i donno what to do! =(
Additional info, added Tuesday January 4 2005, 4:50 pm: he knows how i feel. a few of my friends try to convince him and hes been thinking about it, and i told him im not gonna force him into anything and crap like that and if i see him with another girl, i think i might die =(. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? i_LOVE_badboys answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 12:54 pm: hey i know how you feel i think you should just go for it just dont force him into it but just tell him that u promise him that you wont get hurt or at least try not too because you love him too and you want to be with him and if he really loves you he will want too be with you too i hope i helped please rate [ i_LOVE_badboys's advice column | Ask i_LOVE_badboys A Question ]
tygereyedangel answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 6:46 pm: the easy thing to do is to talk to him about your feeling and his... if he see another girl then he may not be for you... just you and him talk not you and your friends talk the few people the more real feelings come out... good luck...i'll be prayng for you...~_^ [ tygereyedangel's advice column | Ask tygereyedangel A Question ]
kitty_kat123 answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 6:20 pm: So, you know he loves you and you love him, right? So, get him something SHOWING that you love him. Take him somewhere fancy. This won't convince him to be with you.....................................................................................................................This will MAKE him WANT to be with you. Hun, you shouldn't have to convince him to love oyu because then it won't true but it is so... you have nothing to worry about. Talk to him. Tell him WHY you cry. I'm sure it'll help and blow over, O.K? Bye, sweetie and good luck! =P
~~~Kayla~~~ [ kitty_kat123's advice column | Ask kitty_kat123 A Question ]
Lady_M answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 5:55 pm: I think that you should sit down and talk everything over with him. he seems like he really does care for you and every couple goes through small fights, so if you 2 can work this out, it will show how strong your relationship is!!
lilcliffordgurl answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 5:44 pm: you are going through the smae thing i am going through right now exept i broke up with him alot and he doesnt want me back. well try to hang out with him more. tell him to go to the movies or somewhere you both like and talk to him more and more.call him alot and tell him how much you still want to be with him. show him that you can be a good friend and then set off again.after a while tell him that you have to tell him somthing and tell him not to talk till you say everything. tell him that you want to go out with him again and things were better when you guys were goin out.tell him how you fell and say its better to try it again than to give up so fast.GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!! [ lilcliffordgurl's advice column | Ask lilcliffordgurl A Question ]
evilenterprisesinc answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 5:30 pm: tell him the reason you cry is coz you wanna be with him.. tell him hes hurting you by not being with you.. tell him everything about how you feel.. its the only way.. and you wont regret it.. just come out and be as open as possible!!
NEVERLETG00 answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 5:26 pm: i cry all the time in front of my bf even if over the LITTLEST things, because i'm afraid of loosing him too. wait until he comes around again, hell realize that you guys were meant to be, and hopefully you guys wont have these little fights anymore because they all add up and look what happened, try not to get upset about little things. if he still likes you, maybe hes giving you both a break to clear things up, maybe there wont be any fights the next time around. x0 hope you guys work everything out. [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
Karen answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 4:50 pm: Aww, you have to tell him that you love him and want to get back with him. Tell him the reason why you cry and not because you're hurt! You need to show him that you still want to be there for him! Hope I helped :)
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