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I need help with my crush please!


Question Posted Tuesday January 4 2005, 4:07 pm

Hi, I was just browsing the net when I came across this! So heres the
thing, I'm sure it's over told, I really like this guy at my school. I
find that he's hard to read though, like somedays he'll act like he's
really into me, and likes me, but others he doesn't say a word and acts
uninterested. So, here's what makes me think he is; He teases me in a
flirty way sometimes, and seems to like it when I laugh. He remembers
stuff that we've talked about before, even if I said it like in front
of the class, or mumbled it under my breath. This one time in class, he
was talking and when he said the word "amazing" he was definitly
looking at me. Sometimes he'll smile at me in the halls. When I needed help
with the copier he helped me, and seemed sort of nervous, more so
because it was just us, rather than around all of his freinds and class
mates. I also think he might have been staring at me a couple of times,
it's yet to be proven. But, we really have no connection outside of
school. Somedays, it's like he hasn't noticed me in the room, or
sneaking looks at him, I want him to see me! I've been flirting as
discretly yet noticably as humanly possible! I think he's noticed, but I
think maybe were both being to shy. I would ask him out, but I really
don't want to be rejected from him. I really like him so much. I don't
know too much about him either, I know that he hunts, likes fish (as in
pets), plays football, and loves poker and card games. He knows that
I'm in Tae Kwon Do, and am a vegetarian, and also that I've volunteered,
he even said I was special when I said I volunteered without a
sarcastic tone. I think he likes me too, but he's making it hard, or maybe I'm
not reading him right, either way, please help!

Hoplessly in Love


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i_LOVE_badboys answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 1:04 pm:
hey i think you should just go out with him i think he really does like you so just go for it i hope i helped plese rate

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Douchey answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 11:21 pm:
Well Hopelessly in Love...it really does sounds like this guy likes you. Maybe the days that he's not really paying attention are days that his mind is too focused on other things, perhaps family problems or homework. Try asking him to go to a football or basketball game with you. If you're afraid that it'll be too personal then invite some of your other friends, just make sure that you put a lot of attention towards him while you're out.

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XxXHyperGirlXxX answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 10:47 pm:
HEy
Well to me it seems like he really lieks you, you should just ask him to hang out after school one day, jsut to start off and stuff, and one day just ask him out, so i say just go for it cause it seems liek he really does like you.
And remember "Its always better to regret something you did do then something you didnt do." (I live by that quote.)
Hope I HelpeD

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aNgeLxfOrEvEr answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 8:40 pm:
Sounds like he definately likes you. You should just talk to him more! Ask him if he wants to hang out after school! I'm sure he'll say yes--unless he's too shy. Just get to know him more. Good luck =)

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tygereyedangel answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 6:50 pm:
this sound like me and my boyfriend... easy thing to do is be friends..since you are (or tryig to be) then see if you both want to try dating and to get to know each other better... but you should really get together and talk this out...good luck.. ~_^

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kitty_kat123 answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 6:16 pm:
OMG! I know he totally likes you. I know for sure! You guys are both shy. Guys always do everything. Make the moves, talk, flirt, (you flirt too but...) Maybe this time, YOU should make a move. Ask him out. I doubt you will be rejected. He gets embarrassed and shy when around you and you know why? Because he likes you, that's why! =P Trust me, it sure is love! Good luck and hope I helped.
~~~Kayla~~~

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Lady_M answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 6:06 pm:
whoa...I think he totally likes you... or is the biggest loser ever because I have the same troubles too! if you can get over your shyness,you should go up to him and like ask him if hes serious about every thing, or like invite him and his friend and one of your friends to go the movies...or by your self to show him that you want to spend time together OUTSIDE of school....or you could do it the old fashion, thrill-seaking way and send him an annonymus love letter...OH the fun!!

GOOD LUCK!!-L.M.*

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evilenterprisesinc answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 5:20 pm:
well.. its seems as if he likes you.. but hes not quiet sure you like him back.. give him the reassureance.. walk up to him and ask him if he has ever though about you an him together.. or maybe something along those lines.. flirting is real tricky to note if your being too discreet.. wink at him every time you see him.. and flash him a smile.. stuf like that.. and if he still hasnt noticed you.. ask him.. i mean it seems as if you really care about him.. so its worth a try right? remember:

If you risk nothing, You risk even more!

Hope this helps :)

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Cindy answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 4:34 pm:
Well, this sounds like it's been going on for a while, and obviously he wont make the first move. so here are the choices:
A. Neither of you do anything about it and nothing happens.
B. You say something to him. WORST- he rejects you and it's awkward for a bit. it'll get better tho. BEST- something happens.
:-) Bee Happy

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