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Ok so i tired to get into my hotamil account. But every time I put in my password, its like locked out you have or someone else has tried too many times to log in as you. And it has a recover password button, but it sends it to my email account, which i cant getinto. AAAAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUGGGHHHH help its so annoying that i just want to blow something up.

Hey,

I had the same problem. Try having a password sent to another email address. I think it will work if you put in all the right information.

Good Luk!

-GD ((Green Day))

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what is a wench?

Main Entry: 1wench
Pronunciation: 'wench
Function: noun
Definition: Middle English wenche, short for wenchel child, from Old English wencel; akin to Old High German wankOn to totter, waver and probably to Old High German winchan to stagger -- more at WINK
1 a : a young woman : GIRL b : a female servant
2 : a lewd woman : PROSTITUTE

http://www.m-w.com/dictionary/wench

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hello, i finnally got a new video card for my sims 2 game and i was wondering if it would be safe to install it myself? the guy at circuit city said that when he tried by himself he got shocked.But i really want to play sims 2 so badly and i see all these sites telling you how to yourself. SHould i or wait for a professional to do it?

Hey There,

If The guy at Circut City said he got shocked. I would get a professional to do it. Those things can be harmful. So you better be safe than sorry.

-GD ((Green Day))

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ive been happily married with my husband for a little over a year now but ive always wanted to cheat on him but not with another guy another girl im 21 years old im very curious never went all the way before should i tell him or just do it behind his back p.s i dont want to share

Hey There,

I Would tell him. Because if you did it behind his back and he found out it could lead to many problems. Trust me on this one. (a similar situation in my family). If you feel that you should tell him and be honest with him. Tell him. It's really your choice though.

-GD ((Green Day))

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whats a way to like lose weight im 95 and i sorta have a gut and im 13 and i do not like it.

Hey There,

Your not fat to me. Cause Trust me if I could go back to 95lbs. I would jump for joy. But anyways Do sit ups, drink water instead of pop, run, sports are good and clean house maybe (I know its dull).

-GD ((Green Day))

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Well about 3 weeks ago i invited my boyfriend home while my mum was at work. (no need to remind me that im wrong). now i feel so guilty because ive done something like this behind my mum's back(i live alone with my mum). Even if i didnt make out with my boyfriend that night(i havent done it,im still a virgin)...but i've been feeling all those guilts inside me ever since.I cant even tell any of my friends..i'm scared..i've prayed alot for forgiveness from God....But i just dont know what to do anymore with those felling of guilts and ashame. by the way im 16 and can anyone help here?

Hey There,

You did the right thing by praying to god for forgiveness. I'm not saying I'm a Saint and do everything right and go to church every week. But I might have only been to church 5 times in my life but I do know that if you pray he will make all that guilt go away.

But Hey Let's cut the crap here. You shouldn't feel guilty. As long as you didn't do anything. I would be the same way. Trust me it will go away. One time me and my friend got on a Porno site (it was mostly her idea) and I got caught for it. I felt soo bad and guilty. And I cried about everyday. But sooner or later it went away!

-GD ((Green Day))

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im a girl 14/f and i like looking at lesbian porn. i love boys but i just like looking at it. i would never date a girl but its just interesting to look at. is this normal!?!


Hey There,

Yea Its totally Normal. About every girl at least one time in their life experiances that. And it doesn't even mean your lesbian/Bi either. Its normal. ♥

-GD ((Green Day))

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ya see i am an only child and sometimes i get stuck on wat i should do, sometimes i have a friend over but people at my house get on my nerves messing with my stuff always wanting my attention, don't get me wrong i like hanging out but if there out my house in about 2hours i get bored ya see my parents are preety strickt so my friends are boring and imature
so if you can give me advice on some cool things to do like maybe a list or somthing i'd be real happy thanks
and remember i rate 5's to every one who tries

Hey There,

Ohh! I Love Lists! Ok,,

*Scrap Booking
*Computer
*PS2 (or other)
*Listin and Dance to Music
*Read A Magazine
*Gossip
*Watch a Movie
*Have an Outside Race
*Cook

Thats about all I could think of!

-GD ((Green Day))

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hey, what do you guys think is a good liquor to drink for new years? I mean i wanna get shit faced but not spend all my money...what u think?

Hey There,

I Personally Like Wine Coolers. (I'm Not Sure if Its Liquor or Not) But If you drink enough of them you can get a hang over. But When I say that I'm talking about 3-5. But they do tast good!

-GD ((Green Day))

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this is what happened..

an hour and 10 minutes ago my phone rang and my caller ID said it was my boyfriend so i was all excited and im like 'hayy' and my 'friend' answers so im like what? She goes 'hey its ***** im at the mall with *my boyfriends name* ahahhaahahhaha ok bye' im like what the hell that was really mean and i start hysterically crying.
so i call my boyfriends phone and she answers nd im crying nd im like 'can i talk to *my boyfriends name*' and shes like 'why are you pist' nd im like 'because you call me and your like 'oh yea were at the mall and im with *my boyfriends name* and your not haha'

Im like 'can you put him on please' shes like no why are you pist' im like 'can you put him on please' nd shes like no nd im like can you just put him on! and she goes YOUR A BITCH and hangs up!!

so now im crying 10x harder

I call one of my good friends for support and when she answers i hear their voices in the backround talking about it so im like OMG SHES WITH THEM! I say 'are you at the mall' nd shes like 'yea why are you mad at *friends name*' nd im like 'is *my boyfriends name* there' shes like yea nd im like can i talk to him shes like r u crying? im like yea and then she screams '*my boyfriends name* YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS CRYING COME HERE NOW AND TALK TO HER!!"

I hear "*my friends' name* screaming NO NO NO DONT TALK TO THAT BITCH and MY BOYFRIEND IS LAUGHING!!!!! and she hangs up on me like taking the phone from him. so now im crying 10x than before


I call him nd hes like 'why is *'my friends' name* so pist at u' nd im like 'howcome when i ask to talk to my boyfriend i get called a bitch' and hes like 'i dont know because your being..nevermind im not gonna say it *our friends name* you say it' and hands the phone to our friend.


So then our friend says "why are you mad at *'my friends' name* nd i told him nd hes like ohh or whatever and my boyfriend gets back on the phone nd im like 'you know what go go be with them because i dont give a shit. go have fun'

He goes 'no' nd im like YES **** BECAUSE I DONT CARE AND NEITHER DO YOU SO HAVE FUN' nd he goes 'sorry bye' nd i hang up! that makes me 305894085940865 times worse because he doesnt even care


i was crying for so long. this is soo horrible! what should i do? and he always says to me 'what are you doing later/tomorrow want to hang out?' and im always like 'yeah' but we never wind up doing anything and now he goes to the mall with my best friends and he doesnt invite me, neither do me so called 'bffs'. im so effing upset right now. any advice? anything at all. oh and if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all'


thanks for reading all of this. xo byee



Hey There,

OMG I would Kick his Royal Butt! Break up with him. DO NOT cry cause that makes them feel good. Like "Oh Look She's crying over ME!!!" and they feel important. Just act like it doesn't bother you. I'm single and I perfer not having a boyfriend. And For the girl. My advice:

BEAT THE LIVING CRAP OUT OF HER!!!

Good Luk!
-GD ((Green Day))

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ok well, i was on my computer yesterday and all of a sudden my back and forward button were gone. does any one know what happend or how i can get it back? thank you

5's

Hey There,

Go to the top where it says "File, Edit" and so on and "Right Click" The page and click Standard Buttons. That Should Fix It!

-GD ((Green Day))

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Hey everyone. For Christmas, I got the Sims 2 Computer Game. I was just wondering, do any of you have cheat codes so I can get more money? That'd be great, thanks.

Merry Christmas!

Hey There,

This Should Work. I had to look up cheats for that game the other day!


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-GD ((Green Day))

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what does URL mean? what is it?

Hey There,

A URL is a site. Like:

http://www.advicenators.com
http://www.google.com

Thats a URL. Its a Site that object is found on!

-GD ((Green Day))

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How do you get a picture URL? (that's from a file, not the net) HELP! HURRY!

Hey There,

Yes I know I'm a Late person. But Back to your question. Does the photo have a link (URL). If So Right Click and Click "Copy Shortcut". Simple as that.

But if it doesn't have a link. Right Click the photo and click "Copy ShortCut".

And if you decide to save it to your PC then Click "Save As".

-GD ((Green Day))

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who here knows how to get a stolen password for aim out if it wasn't sent to my email, since the last email address i used was deleted?

all i know is someone changed it, and i don't know who, but i'm starting to get pissed off about it. if someone could either tell me how to do this, or tell me if they've ever seen the screen name fluffypug09, since i got an im and sent one back about five minutes before this happeend, fron this person, that would be fantastic, thanks.

Hey There,

I'm Not really familiar with AIM but if this is even possiable. Try clicking on the "I Forgot My Password" Link and have the password sent to another email. IF thats possiable. I think I can do it on msn. But give it a try.

-GD ((Green Day))

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Okay, here's the story:
when i was 9 years old, i found out that i had a sister, named Elisabeth. she is now 20, and i'm 13. I have only seen her 3 times in my entire life, why? because she hates me. Now i know alot of you are gonna say "but she DOES love you" she doesnt. She absolutely hates me. She never gives me her number, nor her email. She hides from me--litteraly! she lives in my state (i THINK) but i dont know where. My dad has no contact with her, and my mom isnt related to her at all. So my sister ends up hanging out with my cousin, (FYI my cousin is like, Miss. Perfect and is really nice, etc.) like the sister she never got. Now i'm tired of crying, but i do love her. What the hell do i do? i mean, i cant forget about her, i cant talk to her, WTF?!?!?!?!!

Hey There,

Look Her Up, Read in Phone Books, and maybe ask people about her. Get in contact with her. And Get face-to-face with her and just ask her why she does this. Of course she may say she doesnt hate you. But prove her lie way wrong.

Show her that you don't hate her although that might be what she thinks. You guys really need to work on your friendship. Hope things work out for your sake!

-GD ((Green Day))

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Ok, i recently posted a "get advice" thing because my sister hates me, and wanted to know what to do about it. So i started to talk to my friend, Mel who is REALLY good with advice, and i went on and on on how horrible my life was and she said:
her: NO
her: don't even start on that "my whole life" shit
her: okay!
her: You life has sucked i guess
her: I mean, duh, you've had a family, and money, and you get anything you want. You have both parents who love you
her: My dad died on christmas eve, my family has NO money, my mom is depressed
her: my older brother won't move out
her: don't even start saying that your whole life has sucked
her: because you have NO CLUE what a sucky life is like!
and then she signed off. Now her away messages says "Yeah, pretty pissed right now. Don't feel like talking. Be back on later." and i totally can relate, but i just REALLY hope i dont lose her friendship. Like, she's really the only person who understands me, and has been there for me. I really dont want to lose her. And i thought since we were such good friends i could just sorta cry on her shoulder, when it turns out she was the one who wanted to cry i guess. What do i do? i called her house, but her brother said she was sleeping, although i really dont think she was. What i want to know is, 1. how do i know she'll still be my friend, and 2. what do i do when i need to get this off my chest? cause i obviously need someone to talk to :(

Thanx,

-Daddy's Little Defect

Hey There,

Your Friend was pretty hard on you. If I were you I wouldn't talk to her. If you ever need anyone to talk to just send me a inbox message and we can talk. Cause my life sucks to.

She didn't have a reason to act the way she did. I'm sure you feel sorry for her about her dad. But she was just probably just having a hard time. She will or might get over it and talk to you again. I've been in Similar situations. Trust me on this. She is probably heart broken about it.

But then again she might want people to feel sorry for her. Which is really mean. Like she's snapping at you and she knows that you will feel guilty and want to be friends with her and feel sorry for her.

Sometimes you just have to look at things in a different angel. They could either turn out good or they could either turn out the worst. But in the end things could end up going good. Just try to explain to her why you were talking like that. And Remember her life sucks alot to.

If you want to talk you know what to do.

-GD ((Green Day))

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My parents always argue, my school life is even harder. Stress, friend moving away, Grannie died 3 months ago. So yeah My life Sucks

-GD ((Green Day))

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whats a bagger?
like a guy called me that but he was totally kidding. thanks. i rate.

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I'm 27 years old and my ten year highschool reunion is coming up in the new year. Well I feel that by my age I should have acomplished more than I have.
For one thing, I'm still single and don't own my own home or have children. I thought by now that I'd be married, have either a successful career or be a housewife.
All I have is a ten year old car, a small appartment that I rent, a part time job that doesnt pay that good, and some nice furniture and lots of movies, cds, and large television and computer. Maybe I shouldnt complain, I guess things could be worse. Some people from my class are in jail, or had to move back in with there parents for financial reasons, or became single parents.
How can I feel better about myself so when I do go to the reunion I won't sound like such a loser?

Hey There,

Aww Your okay. I have a teacher who is 25 and he still lives with his mom and has no children and isn't in any kind of relationship. And All of us love him. That shows that you can be single, good looking, and still live with your parents but still be a good person. They should judge your problems. So I wouldn't worry. If it comes up about if your still single say "Yes and I'm looking." (sorry about the other answer)

-GD ((Green Day))

P.S: I also know a girl who is 27, Single and lives with her mom. So your not alone.

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lately i've just been hanging out, not really going out of the house or anything. it's kind of like my "me" time, you know, so I can unwind and have some quiet time.
lately though, my parents become so obsessed and think that i have no social life, don't want to do anything with my friends anymore, and am depressed. i try to explain to them that it's just nice to spend some time ALONE sometimes but they just don't get it! how can i convince them that all i want is some time to myself, and for them to get out of my face about it?

Hey There,

I Have the same problem! I like to have some alone time with myself and all my parents do is ask stupid questions like "Are you okay?" or "Whats wron with you??" or "What are you puffed up about?" And Even when you tell them its like talking to a concrete wall! They don't listin and then if they catch a little its like they make it a big deal. There is no way to get them to shut up. Trust me. What I did was just say "Mom I have a head ache and I need some time by myself and maybe finish a little homework."

-GD ((Green Day))

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