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If you want to avoid the point, simply take offense. -Intuit


I came here to answer computer questions. (This used to say "...and nothing more.")


What I meant was, I don't know how much help I would be with other things... NOT that I would be upset if you asked a non computer question!


No matter the subject, Ask Away! (I'll do my best.)


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I have had dirreah for more than 4 days. should I see a doctor? (link)
Yes, you should talk to a doctor about this. Sure, it may be nothing much, who knows, (the doctor will) but a long time ago, I did NOT go to the doctor when this happened, and it turned out that waiting left me so dehydrated that I almost died.

Please, don't take any chances... see a doctor right away.


I used Chrome for a few months without any problem and recently started having the same issue - it wouldn't load ANY page. I typed in the address and click enter or the go button, but nothing happens. I have uninstalled and reinstalled the browser but the problem persists. I have IE, and they both load pages normally, so I know it's not the internet problem. Please help (link)
Hi there,

This is a serious issue for a lot of people. Have a look here, and check out the MANY search results on the topic:

only search advicenators.com


I hope they get things fixed soon.

At least you know you aren't alone, right? :-)



What does this quote mean? 'Buttonhole tunes'(it's from Annie Lennox's 'No more I love you's'..'Whistling buttonhole tunes')Thanks:) (link)
Hi there,

Surprisingly, this has already been answered here:

http://forum.wordreference.com/showthread.php?t=2233923

... and what I am taking as the likely meaning is provided about half way down the page by the user: Lis48

At least now you know you aren't the only one who wondered about this. :-)


























linkand self sabotage literally everything? I'm 18 and I don't want to live the rest of my life like this. But at the same time, I don't feel like I deserve all my big dreams and thus don't put work into getting them, and just end up in this rut. growing up I was pretty lonely and had no close friends at school, especially my last 2 years of high school, which were hell because of the "isolation" or "rejection", whatever you'd call it, worsened because my family moved to a different state, halfway across the country. I just can't seem to get over my frustrations about the past, and how my high school experience was the last thing I expected to happen. no wild parties, no boyfriends (never been asked out, but I've crushed on many guys and never said a thing. getting rejected once in 5th grade was enough to scare me from being forward), no girl friends to hang out with (I feel like everyone was just an acquaintance at school, just varying levels of acquaintance), etc. my parents think it should be easy for me to just let go the past but it's helped make me who I am.. like I have social anxiety and internet addiction cause I feel I go online when I want to connect with others. it's why i'm really into music too, but music isn't enough. i'd give up listening to all my favorite music for true love, because my music is just an attempt to fill a void that can't be filled in such way. I don't even know... I like how I look, I just don't get what others didn't like about me to where I basically was a loner even though I'm actually pretty extroverted. I feel like I'm letting my past get in the way of me moving on.. but I don't even know if I want to move on cause it still frustrates me. like my family loves me and tries to help but I have this thing where I really want to be loved by someone who didn't have to love me back, someone not in my family, basically. its silly cause there are people who had bad families who turned out as good people, and I've been privileged with a lot more than most people in the world and yet I still feel this way and it's so draining but I don't want to put my career down the drain. and yet my actions speak differently than my words
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Hi there,

That link you pasted in with your question, seems to be causing problems. Would you mind re-posting this without the link?

Thank you.


Can u get a STD from someone eating your pussy (link)
Yes. Very easily.


why dont people rate answers ? (link)
Sometimes they do and sometimes they don't.

Typically, well written answers have a tendency to get rated more often than something that wasn't well thought out, or was just thrown together with bad spelling, no capitalization and lousy grammar. If you aren't putting much effort into your answers, then changing that may help you be rated more often.

Other than that, sometimes people are just plain selfish. They don't think about other people and just exist to take from others. They don't rate because they can't be bothered, which is sad.



i have a crush on a girl. i dont know if it is a good idea to tell my cosant. plox tell me by thanksgiving. p.s. sword plox and thox you. im 13 and im a boy. (link)
Re-write this, please. Take better care about how you word this. If I approve it as is, they will only make fun of you.


I pre ordered The Sims 3 seasons Sept 30th and on Nov 9th I finally got the email that it was being shipped to me along with a tracking number. The number is for UPS mail innovations. I tracked my game all last week by the tracking number through cities and on Monday the 12th my package got to TETERBORO, NJ which is about an hour and a half away from me according to Google Maps. Ever since then, my package has not left that town. Around Wednesday my tracking page got this message in a yellow banner saying "This shipment is progressing through the postal system to the final destination." But it's been almost a week. My estimated delivery date was on the 15th and it's now 2 days late with no change it cities.

I tried having a live chat with UPS to figure out what was wrong today but all they said was that my package is being shipped via the US postal service, not help whatsoever since I already knew that.
http://tinypic.com/r/2ey7uyp/6 This ling leads you to a picture of my tracking page with my info crossed out so everyone can see what I'm seeing.

I'm extremely annoyed, does this mean my order was lost? Is there anything I can do about it? I'd rather not see $40 go down the drain. (link)
Hi there,

The post office doesn't update that status once it is handed off to them. Given everything that is going on on the east coast lately, you may want to give it a couple more days.

2 days late in the aftermath of a storm like Sandy isn't something to worry about. I know you are anxious to play, but I would wait a week before concluding it was lost.

It is actually quite rare for something to be lost in shipment, statistically speaking. You should be fine.


Curious how long does it stay in your hair? please answer fast cause i am doing a school project on it (link)
How long does WHAT stay in your hair?


i am form Africa my question is am vary satisfied when i fake my self (link)
Please ask this again, and explain more about your question. It is hard to understand what you are asking.

Thank you.


Have you beat the shit out of the person or persons who are bullying you yet? This is a sure- fired cure for bullying. I know this works from personal experience. Make sure you find an acceptable forum for your retribution and get in the first punch. Make sure it's a good one! An ambush is a great strategy. (link)
Hi there,

You are asking a question, not answering one.

Please create a free account if you want to answer questions.

Thanks.


I am from Indonesia. Is my friend Philip Moore good guy? (link)
How is anyone here supposed to answer this?

We don't know him.


what channel is "The CW" on Verizon Fios in 08831 zip code?
(link)
Please check here for the full Verizon FIOS channel lineup:

http://tvlistings.aol.com/listings/nj/monroe-township/verizon-fios-mercer/PA66326


I have been bleeding from my anus for a long time. Recently it has become a lot of blood when I poop, mixed in the poop and a lot a lot on the out side. Like it looks like a females menstrual cycle that's how much it is. I'm actually getting scared. (link)
Time to go to the doctor.

There is nothing anyone here can do for you over the Internet except give you the following advice:

Any time you bleed from someplace you aren't supposed to, you go to the doctor and find out why.

Don't put it off any longer. Go today.


Do I need to seek e/r treatment if the only substance I am pooping is blood? What might this be a sign of? Accompanied by mild stomach cramping. Has happened about 8 times within 24 hrs. (link)
Nobody here is able to offer you a diagnosis, but it is safe to say you should seek medical attention.

If you have a regular doctor, call them. If not, call the ER and tell them what is happening.

Your description makes it sound like a great deal of blood, and that is always something to take care of right away.

Let me ask you this: If the same amount of blood came out of your ear, eye socket, mouth, or any other orifice, would you already have called 911? I know I would have.

Please seek treatment right away.


Okay so i already posted a question titled: "Did i make a mistake having sex with my boyfriend?" you can read that if you want to. Now. i realize the answer in my head was yes. We did use a condom but i was late by about 2 weeks so i took a pregnancy test, it was positive. I then told my boyfriend and he took me to the doctor, they confimred the pregnancy. He is being supportive, and says whatever decision i make, he will stand behind. I am happy he is being so nice, but i know he wants me to get an abortion. I am not basing my decision off his, but it will play into effective. I have not told anyone besides my boyfriend, I am frankly too scared to tell my parents, and i feel like other than them, i have no authority figuree to seek advice from. I fell scared and alone, I dont know wha to do. I am leaning away from abortion due to my religion, but it is still an option should it come to that. I don't know what to do, and would really love some input. (link)
Hi there,

You are very fortunate that, if you had to make a mistake like this, you did it with someone who isn't pressuring you into doing something you don't want to. Still, I am sorry you are having to make this choice in life.

I understand that you are scare to tell your parents, but that really is your best next step. Why? Well, no matter what you decide to do, the next step is going to be something you may want them involved in.

If you have an abortion, it isn't like they aren't going to know. You may not tell them, but if you take the time the read the hundreds of questions on this site from people who have had abortions and never been the same, the one recurring theme amongst them is that everybody they knows tells them they have changed, are depressed, etc... then they are left lying to everyone about why they are depressed.

So, best to assume that your parents will find out.

Unless you are planning not to have sex again, you may want your parents to help you arrange birth control, so you aren't in this spot again.

Now, if you have the baby... I don't mean to be funny, but your parents are eventually going to notice you getting a bit more pregnant as time goes by. :-)

I think everyone has done something they were afraid to tell their parents about. Everyone. I know I have, and some real winners too!

I look back on some of the stuff now, and the ONE thing that they all have in common is this:

My parents never, not one time... EVER... reacted as badly as I thought they would.

The key to this is that your parents love you, and want the best for you. Sure, there is going to be a moment of shock, and you can understand this, right? If it was your daughter, you would be a tad bit surprised, wouldn't you? After the initial shock wears off, you will find that they still love you, and only want to help.

The worst thing I ever did when I was in trouble, was delay telling my parents.

The ONE thing you do NOT want to happen in all this is for your parents to find out from someone else, and they will eventually as these things never stay secret... because if you don't tell them, they will never trust you again. They will always, from that point forward, think you are hiding things.

You will turn your parents from your best support system into your biggest doubters. Please don't make that mistake.

You said yourself that you have nobody else to talk to about this, and you already know that you desperately need someone to talk about this with in person.

You didn't mention it, so I thought I would: You only listed two options... but there is also adoption, if you decide you can't keep the baby. I have friends that had to wait 12 years to adopt, so it isn't like nobody wants another baby.

Don't get me wrong, if you have loving parents, a supportive partner and a good attitude towards the world, which all seems true with you, then you can raise a child and have a good outcome. Many people manage with worse situations.

Example: One of the best people I ever worked with was born to a single mother (14 years old), who was the daughter of a single mother who gave birth at 13. He grew up in the projects, and, according to everyone's expectations had NO chance in life but drugs, gangs, prison and death.

He joined the military, learned electronics got a job with me when he got out and now has a wife and kids of his own.

Is it a great deal of work to raise a child? Sure is.

Is it worth it? Ask your parents. :-)

Whatever decision you make, I wish you only the best.


I have just been feeling depressed for a while now. I have no friends,just only the co-workers I work with. I really don't talk to my family like that anymore. I just go thru the same routine everyday. I feel like no one is there for me. I have struggle to keep myself together for the last past three years. I graduated High School about 3 years ago. I lost all my best friends. Arguements,lies happen after high school. So, No more friends. I don't want to go to school or work. No one ever texts or calls me unless it's family members wanting someone or asking something. I just don't know what to do. I never make plans because i'm always alone. I never been on a date. I'm have been single my whole life. I'm only 21 years old. I'm gay. I gotten sick with the shingles about 6 months ago. Because of stress and it was really bad. Cause of work,ex-friends,lonely,didn't feel like i belong,hiding about beening gay(which i am still). I need someone to talk to. I hate this feeling. I sit at home or ride around before i go home everyday or go to the park and just think and cry all the time. I dreamed about me dying in a car accident all the time and wondering what would my family do with out me. I just don't know who i am anymore. I need answers and help.It's not the world's business to know what i'm going thru and to know that i'm gay. Not,my families either because i will get disown.:/ My family is so christian. Now, It hurts. Having to lie to them about everything and can't be my own self. Advice please?
(link)
Hi there,

This has already been asked, and answered here:

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=608922



is it safe to double up on birth control pills to
stop continuous bleeding? (link)
Absolutely not, unless specifically instructed to by your doctor. Please refer to the insert that came with your pills. The side effects are horrible enough without doubling the dose: Heart attack, cancer, blood clots, etc...

If you are having continuous bleeding, something else is going on and your doctor needs to know about this right away.


hi there ,
are you the creator of this website ?
i really want to do the thing where you give suggestions but i dont have enough rates ! should i just give more advice ? (link)
What do you mean by "the thing where you give suggestions" exactly?

Thanks,

DN.


I found out they were different girls (WTF). But I cant get her to like me. What should I do? Her name is Mira. Im a boy at age 13. (link)
Nobody but the admins can see your previous questions.

Please re-ask this and include all details needed to answer it.

Thanks.




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