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What does "Kawaii" mean? (link)
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The definition is cute, it's Japanese.
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does anyone know where to get cheap conair &revlon straighteners that work really good??? and can u please send me pictures of them so i know what your talking about? thanks in advance (link)
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I know, you can get Conair Straighteners just about anywhere, like Wal-Mart, CVS (or your local drugstore). Here's a good Conair Straightener:
http://www.conair.com/product_info.php?products_id=60
Ceramic is best, by the way. They heat, style, and work better and faster.
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what are chi straighteners?
13/f (link)
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CHI Straighteners are very expensive, high quality hair straighteners.
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i really neeed your advice:
who do you pick? the person who first loved you? or the person you first loved? (link)
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Well, I think these questions really depend on the situation. But I think you should choose the one you have the most feelings for. Whoever you love and care about the most, is the one you should choose.
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Hey. I was wondering how people do those little black hearts on myspace. thanks! (link)
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All you have to do is put "& hearts ;" of course, without the quotation marks and the spaces and you have this -- ♥.
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theres this new thing. like, you can wear contact lenses [with color!] even if you have clear vision.
well ive had eye infection before [because of eyeliner] and someday i really want to use those like for speacial occasions [etc] to make me look attractive. [i also believe that bright eyes look better than dark eyes]
the deal is, do you think it will hurt my eye or cause infection if i use it because ive had eye infection before?
please give me advice thanks! (link)
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Well, this could cause an irritation and another infection. But to be sure, I would go see an eye doctor, and they can tell you exactly what will and will not work. Good Luck!
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13/f
do u knowany good straighteners out there? like really good ones that lasts all day without being frizzy ? but not too expensice ones.. maybe something that i can afford. [im 13. lol] ihave curly hair and my hair has been damaging due to hair dring and constant straightening. [also maybe because of all these different products i use for it like serums and sprays to make hair shine] i hope this doesnt sound confusing and i hope that you can help me!
ps. does hair dyeing also damage the hair?
THANKS IN ADVANCE. (link)
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I think you do have some serious hair damage, so I recommend using a good shampoo and conditioner -- Thermasilk Color Revatilizing Shampoo & Conditioner, and John Frieda Frizz-Ease Reinforce Strengthening Triple Creme Masque (daily). And yes, dying your hair that often damages your hair. I would leave it one way, or use only temporary color.
I'm a total beauty junkie myself, and it's great, but you do have to watch for what's really healthy for your hair, and not to get too out of hand with it. The only thing it really does, is burn a whole in your pocket, but other than that, it's pretty much okay for your hair.
As for the straightening, yes, it damages your hair extremely! Try not to do this so often, use a gel or smooth-in cream.
Conair has very good (and cheap!) ceramic straighteners, you can buy them at Wal-Mart or even your local drugstore.
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i have black eyes and black/brown hair. and im not sure which shades i should use for my eyes? do you have any ideas... which would look nice on me? thanks. [: (link)
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Assuming you're meaning colors of eyeshadows -- green, blues, browns, charcoals go very well with black eyes, and black/brown hair.
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I had sex with this boy
and oral and he fingered me, and the whole 9 yards.
But he used me for all of it,and I know it.
But the thing is, he had the chance to do it with either me OR my friend [becuase of the situation]
and he used to call me all the time
and talk to me online all the time
so it wasnt just a one night stand.
But he would continue to want to do it , and he even said to me " We are like sex partners" or something along those lines.
So whats the deal here?
Do you think he atleast thought I was pretty? Or what?
And yes i know it was a stupid mistake, theres nothing i can do about it now.
helP! (link)
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I'm really sorry that this happened to you, but yes, he did use you. If you do not want to be "sex partners" with him, and that only, then I would move on from this guy. Because he's really not worth it, and that's all he wants. I know this may sound a little blunt, but I don't want you to get hurt anymore, than what you already are. There are plenty of good guys out there waiting, that are much better than he is and will treat you as you deserve to be treated.
I wish you the best of luck!
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when i plug my digital camera into my computer witht he usb, nothing pops up for me to get the pictures off the computer. this has never happened its usually pops right up. can someone please tell me how to fix this.
thank you (link)
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I've had this same exact problem, luckily, it is easily fixable! All you have to do is go into "My Computer" which can be found in the start menu. Then, you should see your USB port on the main page, or it may say camera -- either way, something along those lines, it's different for every computer, but you'll be able to tell for sure which one it is with no problem. So, double-click it, and there you go.
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I'm looking for a new cell phone and was thinking about getting the LG Chocolate phone. I've read mixed reviews about it, so I'm still undecided. If you own this phone, how do you like it? Would you reccomend it? I've heard that the touch sensitive buttons are difficult to use, is this true? (link)
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I haven't had any experience with this phone, personally, but what I recommend is to go to the store you're buying it at, and ask them any and all info, they have it first hand.
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ohkay. so like a lot of people i would like to become famous, but before i become famous i would like to be a model for a store catalog magazine thing. haha.[like Kohl's and alla that junk] i live in Chicago. i heard that you go up to the manager and say something about modeling, but wouldnt it be weird going up to them and them being like "oh we dont do that" sorry if this sounds confusing! lol.
also anything else i should know.
thank yoU! =] (link)
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Yes, you can go directly to a manager and ask him/her, but I would recommend -- First, checking their website, and find a FAQ or something pertaining to modeling, then check and see what it says. Second, if you cannot find any of these, then give the place a call, and ask them if they are accepting models for their catalog, and see what they say.
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13/f
d0 y0o kn0w wer t0 get the music sheets for the song "how to save a life" by the Fray? [by internet] THANKS (: (link)
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Hello. Here it is -- http://www.musicnotes.com/sheetmusic/scorch.asp?ppn=sc0028922&mnuid=Y4UFKZZ6DTGNNVL3393G862CGTBP8WP61SUD9WP6
Also, here are some sites full of downloadable music sheets:
http://dmoz.org/Arts/Music/Resources/Downloadable_Music_Sheets/
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I would really like to have a shaved vagina... The bush feels so unsexy. But I can't even begin to imagine how hard it would be to shave that area. How do you shave your vagina & how fast does the stubble grow it? Is it worth it? (link)
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Honestly, shaving is not worth it because it's so easy to cut yourself down there. Which would hurt so much worse than the common accidentel cut on the leg. And the stuble will come back the next day, just as it does on the legs. So I would not recommend this, if anything, I recommend waxing. You can't cut yourself, it's faster, but I cannot lie -- it will be painful (but this is a downside to both shaving and waxing).
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ok so my girlfriend im pretty sure she wants to kiss me....but she kissed other guys before and ive never kissed a girl before....and idk i need sum advice on a first kiss...i wanna seem like ive kissed a girl before (link)
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Honestly, it really does come naturally. So try not to over think or over obsess about the kiss, especially, while you're kissing her. It makes the kiss awkward, and not too enjoyable. I'm sure you'll be great, and everything will be fine. So don't worry, it comes naturally, go with the flow and it will be okay. Good Luck!
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i REALLY like this guy. he knows i like him but he likes one of my good friends (who has a bf and doesnt like him (the guy i like) back) what should i do?
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I think the best thing you can do is talk to him. Tell him how you feel, because if you don't -- not only will you wonder "what if?" but it will lay on your mind terribly. I'm sure everything will work out great, and good luck!!!
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heyok i got my eyebrows done yesterday. They used to be like thick and kinda screwed up but its now its thin.it looks really weird cause im not used to it. Anyways the skin above my eye is like swollen and it makes my eye look bloated. Is there anything I can do to make it un-swollen?? Thankss (link)
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They key to this is fortunatly, simply moisturizing. Apply lotion three times a day (morning, noon, night), and in a couple of weeks it should not be swollen, etc.
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14/f Ok so there is this guy that i really like, and we are pretty close friends. The winter snowball dance is coming up, and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of how to ask him to go to it with me, even if we just went as friends. Or should i wait for him to ask me? (link)
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No, I wouldn't wait for him to ask you. I think you should ask him. I would ask him face-to-face, and talk to him about it. Even if you both just want to go as friends (I would mention this, so he doesn't freak out or something, if by some chance he doesn't want to go with you as in a date).
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Okay, if a girl is under 16 and a guy is 18, is it a legal for them to date? Someone told me that it is as long as you don't do anything with them but someone else told me that you can't date at all until the girl is 16. What's really legal? (link)
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This law only applies to sex. It's legal to date, just not have sex.
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I'm getting a CHI flat iron for Christmas, however I'm not sure which one to ask for.
I like the largeness of the 2" Turbo Chi because I have alot of hair, however a store is having a sale on the colord Jewel Chi. I'm sure there are many more types of Chi's but I was just wondering which one you guys would most recommend.
$150 max. (link)
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I would recommend the CHI Ceramic Flat Iron Turbo 2". It heats almost instantly, and styles perfectly.
http://store.hello-gorgeous.net/chiceflirtu2.html
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