I had sex with this boy
and oral and he fingered me, and the whole 9 yards.
But he used me for all of it,and I know it.
But the thing is, he had the chance to do it with either me OR my friend [becuase of the situation]
and he used to call me all the time
and talk to me online all the time
so it wasnt just a one night stand.
But he would continue to want to do it , and he even said to me " We are like sex partners" or something along those lines.
So whats the deal here?
Do you think he atleast thought I was pretty? Or what?
And yes i know it was a stupid mistake, theres nothing i can do about it now.
helP!
but yeah guys really dont give a shit about us these days, just be careful in the futre and please dont be stupid !!!!dont be rude to him but just keep your distance, thats the best i can think of [ batgirl282's advice column | Ask batgirl282 A Question ]
karisue answered Friday November 24 2006, 2:03 pm: sex is sex to guys, no matter who the girl is.
maybe he just chose you over your friend because he wanted someone prettier to look at, while he was doing all these things.
when he said you guys were 'sex partners' he was basically just saying, "i used you, & you don't know. so i'll tell her we are 'partners' and she will do it again."
LagunaBabe answered Friday November 24 2006, 12:35 pm: I'm really sorry that this happened to you, but yes, he did use you. If you do not want to be "sex partners" with him, and that only, then I would move on from this guy. Because he's really not worth it, and that's all he wants. I know this may sound a little blunt, but I don't want you to get hurt anymore, than what you already are. There are plenty of good guys out there waiting, that are much better than he is and will treat you as you deserve to be treated.
helpachick answered Friday November 24 2006, 12:23 pm: some guys are weird like this...but girls are too. a guy VERY close to me had this happen he really liked the girl but she just used him for the sex. and he was hurt by it a little and sounded a lot like you sound now. so this guy you had sex with: he probably thought you were really hot yeah, b/c guys who use girls for sex normaly look for looks more than anything. but i wouldnt keep being "sex partners" with him simply b/c he doesnt really feel anything for YoU and its not good for you to just keep doing it to give someone else somekind of sick pleasure. xoxo helpachick [ helpachick's advice column | Ask helpachick A Question ]
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