disasterxwoah answered Saturday November 25 2006, 12:20 am: The first person you loved.
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Just because the person loved you doesn't mean you loved them back. You may have thought of it as a fling, but the first person you love is the person that treated you the way you wanted to be, the person you felt the most comfortable. You know deep down you care more for the person you loved first, and you would rather choose them. You wouldn't want to hurt the person that loves you, but in time they will deal. All in all, do what makes you happy, but personally speaking I would go for the one I loved. [ disasterxwoah's advice column | Ask disasterxwoah A Question ]
xOx_LoOvE_xOx answered Friday November 24 2006, 11:47 pm: I think you should pick the person you first loved becasue you have to follow you`re heart & you cant`t love someone just becasue they loved you first. Timing really doesn`t matter but the way you feel about someone does. [ xOx_LoOvE_xOx's advice column | Ask xOx_LoOvE_xOx A Question ]
DepthofHeart answered Friday November 24 2006, 11:00 pm: If you don't love the person who loved you first you shouldn't feel oblidged to pick them. You shouldn't feel as if you owe them you heart. You have to ask yourself: Who do I love? Who do I want to be with. It's your choice not theirs, you just have to saty true to your heart. Just because you loved someone first that doesn't mean you'll always love them and it doesn't mean you love them the most. Things change. People change, and what you want changes. Good Luck! [ DepthofHeart's advice column | Ask DepthofHeart A Question ]
duudee_advicer answered Friday November 24 2006, 10:51 pm: Something as special as the person whom in which you love shouldn't be picked on a website from a bunch of strangers.
Also, in love you shouldn't sacrifice all of your feelings to accomidate someone else's. If you love someone, then stick with them. No use in you being miserable to make someone else happy.
However if the one you love doesn't love you back, you should think about how you treat the person that loves YOU. You don't want to be rude and mean to him then turn around and complain because the one that loves you was rude and mean to you.
XoXoXoXo77 answered Friday November 24 2006, 10:31 pm: well first of all,
if you're talking about who to pick now..
you have to go with huever you like now.
but otherwise, go with the one that you first loved. i know this sounds bitchy, but sometimes you just need to make yourself happy. you can't satisfy everyone, so when it comes down to it, you need to just go with whatever makes you happy, which in this case would probably be the first person you loved.
hope i helped
SecretBoy89 answered Friday November 24 2006, 10:30 pm: It's no use being with somebody you don't love, even if THEY love YOU... you should pick who YOU love... who do YOU find yourself being happier with? having a better time with? who do you think about more and want to be with more? Who treats you better? Hope this helped [ SecretBoy89's advice column | Ask SecretBoy89 A Question ]
LagunaBabe answered Friday November 24 2006, 10:25 pm: Well, I think these questions really depend on the situation. But I think you should choose the one you have the most feelings for. Whoever you love and care about the most, is the one you should choose. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
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