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Boy help
14/f Ok so there is this guy that i really like, and we are pretty close friends. The winter snowball dance is coming up, and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of how to ask him to go to it with me, even if we just went as friends. Or should i wait for him to ask me?
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Compromise; wait a week.
Nothing yet? Step up, ask him.
While you two are talking slip in something like "Hey, are you going to the Snowball Dance coming up?" if he says 'no.' Then try "Well, would you like to go with me?" If you see him struggling with an answer you can slip in a "Just as friends if you want" move, that way its more casual and less threatening.
If you're more of the take-charge tip try this:
Ask him "Hey are you taking anyone to the Winter Snowball dance?" if he says 'no.' say "Now you are" then wink at him.
Or.
Leave him a little cut-out snow flake on his locker saying meet me at ______. Then you can ask him that way too.
Good Luck <3
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No, I wouldn't wait for him to ask you. I think you should ask him. I would ask him face-to-face, and talk to him about it. Even if you both just want to go as friends (I would mention this, so he doesn't freak out or something, if by some chance he doesn't want to go with you as in a date).
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I think you should ask him! Don't wait too long though (: Write him a cute little note and have it ask the question there! Hopefully he says yes!
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well maybe you should bring it up in a convo somehow... like... " hey who are you going to the dance with?" or "are you going" then maybe if he talks about it you'll say well maybe we could go as friends. Just talk to him about it but dont come out of no where and say it, then you may just embrass yourself. Find out around school if he's taking anyone then you might find out that he's alone. but you should wait too long to talk about it.
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Never wait around for him to ask you. Because you don't know his feelings for you, you don't know if he has feelings for someone else, so if you just sit there and wait, it might never happen.
Also, if you were to make the first move, it shows confidence, which is something alot of girls lack, and can be a real turn on for guys and an attention-grabber. Guys like it sometimes whenever the girl makes the first move instead of them doing it all the time.
I would just bring up the dance with him while you two are having a conversation, and just ask him if he's thinking about asking anybody, or already has a date or not. ( If he says no ), then just casually be like,"Oh, me either. Well, hey, since we both don't have dates or anything, do you think you'd want to go together? :)" And just smile. If he starts taking it as a date thing, then you can always add the term "just as friends".
If he says yes, however, then just be like,"Oh, that's cool. Who're you going with? Do you think you could save me a dance? :)" And try and make sure at the dance that it's a slow one ; sets a more romantic mood, and it's easier to talk to eachother and flirt and you two being real close to eachother.
And then just have a great time together and hang out and try even flirtng with him to send him some slight signals that you're interested in him and see what he does back.
I hope I helped.
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