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How short do you have to be to be considered a migit? im 15 and 4'10...does that make me a migit?

I dont think your considered a midget unless a doctor basically tells you that you are.. cause not only are midgets short but the have other growing problems with arms,legs and other parts of their body.. i think people might call you a midget messing with you but No your not considered a midget.. ♥ Dez

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well it all started in 2nd grade when my friend and i thought it would be fun to try and have sex so now im not really sure if i am a lex, bi, or striaight. i always thought it would be more comfortable having sex with girls and if i ever needed to practice making out a girl would be better i really have no idea and im scared...if i am a lez or bi i dont want to tell my friends cuz they might feel uncomfortable...and i kinda wanna wait till im older to see if it all changes and if i doesnt im gonna tell my parents..i just need to some help! please! thanx!

Just wait to see if you feel differently about girls.. If your attracted to girls and guys your Bisexual.. If your just attracted to girls and not interested in guys at all then your probably a lesbian.. And if your attracted to guys and not sexually attracted to a female then you probably Straight.. i mean you could grow out of the phase.. but alot of girls look at other girls bodys and stuff and judge em thats doesnt me or Lesbian or bi.. ♥ Dez

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I'm 17/f. My boyfriend of 2 years and I are going to a concert this summer and I really want to lose my virginity to him soon, so I figured why not that night? After the concert, I was wondering how I could somehow initiate it or give him a sign that I want to have sex with him THEN? I dont want to kill the moment by discussing it beforehand because I know it'd make him AND me feel uncomfortable knowing. I want to let it happen on it's own without making it seem awkward. How do I initiate the moment?

Why dont you just make the move that you want too..? thats what i did with my boyfriend like i just started kissing him and putting his hands where i wanted them then he went from there.. im sure if you do something like that he'll get the hint and do it from there.. me and my boyfriend didnt feel awkward or funny.. but if you think you will then maybe try somebody else's advice.. ♥ Dez

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mmk, so i really need to go to my friends house really bad because we havent seen eachother in forever...(okay okay like 1 week but ya no, its my bff) and my mom wont let me ebcasue she says that i have to stay home with my sister. my sister is 10 and isnt 10 the legal age to leave ur kid home? well i need reasons...like why i should be able to go...im already gonna clean the house and everything...I need advice FAST!! PLZ HELP!!

My lil sister is ten too and she stays home by herself if i want to go somewhere.. my mom called our distract police and they told my mom if my mom thinks she is responsible enough to not burn the house down or anything then its okay for her to stay home during the day by herself.. tell her you want to be able to do things and not be in the house all summer babysitting and cleaning.. tell her its not your job or child to be watching her all the time.. if you want to see your friend so bad why doesnt she just come over your house.. ♥ Dez

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when shaving "down there" for females, is it normal for your skin to turn a dark color?

Yea its okay.. ♥ Dez

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i always get really bad cramps when i have my period. does anyone know good ways to dull the pain, either home remidies or medication? thanks.

try Midol Tylenol or Advil for pain.. Midol has a kind for cramps.. also try walking or exercising it helps with cramps too.. ♥ Dez

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me and my boyfrind have been together for almost 10 months now. we never really argue, except when i talk to other males on the telephone. i tell him, they are only friends, but he feels uncomfortable with me talking to them. should i give in, and not talk to my friends or should i continue being friends with my male friends? besides i dont understand why he's uncomfortable anyways.

tell him he should trust you.. tell him your not just going to stop talking to your friends cause he dont like it.. their your friends and thats it so he should trust you more.. i can understand why he's uncomfortable but dont give in.. ♥ Dez

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ook i really like this boy. i still havent had myy 1st kiss. i know its kind of lame but i just wanted to wait. but i want him to be myy first kiss.like french kiss. and i kno this might sound dorky but i dont exactly kno how to kiss. can someone please describe it. and please dont just say it will come naturally. thanks

Hun all you got to do is go with what he does.. its no big deal.. ♥ Dez

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there are these gurls that wanna beat me up and i cant fight what do i do??

Well if there is more then one maybe try to get a few friends together to fight them also or call the police... but if they beat you up all you got to do is press charges.. ♥ Dez

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look i kissed my boi_friend lastnight and me and him have been friends for a while and i felt like i kissed my brother. i dont no what i should do i asked one of my friends and she said that i should break up w/ him what should i do!

If your not comfortable with kissing him then you should break up with him.. you shouldnt feel like that when you kiss your boyfriend.. ♥ Dez

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does sex hurt the first time

Some people say its hurts and some people think it doesnt.. i personally think it wasnt as bad as i thought it was going to be.. i expected to cry or something but it wasnt nothing i couldnt handle but people handle pain different so i guess if your askin this question..you plan on having sex so you'll find out yourself.. ♥ Dez

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is headaches a sign 4 pregnancy??? and wut r other signs?

Yea headaches can be a sign.. sore breast,change of eating habits like having cravings for weird things.. missed period.. morning or night sickness..usually its morning tho.. weight gain.. ♥ Dez

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I told my mom I wanted to go on a diet and she thought it was a good idea to see a nutritionist. So before we could do that she had to make me an appoitment with my doctor. Im really scared because I dont know if she is going to measure my weight. I hate that and that is like my fear! Will she just talk to me about my eating or will she see how much I weight? Please answer! And what will the nutritionist tell me? Thanks so much. ♥

Hey yea i think the doctor probably will check and see how much you weigh and might talk to you about it.. a nutritionist will tell you something to eat and what not to eat.. like the nutritionists will probably give you an idea of how many calories or something to eat in a day.. and will probably give you some exercises to do also.. hope i helped ♥ Dez

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umm i'm kinda bleedin' downstairs right? and i thought it wazz my period but its now the 8th day or 9th day i 4get buti'm really scared and i just lost my virginity a couple days ago so idk could i be pregnaunt??

smooches xoxo

No your not PREGNANT.. ♥ Dez

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i wanna dye my har ether red or brown. i dont know which one to do. i dont like bieng blonde bcuz its not that punk and.. people make fun of me saying im a dumb blonde.which color do you recomend????

How about BOTH.. try brown with red highlights its Hot and cute.. ive done it before.. but if you want to just choose one i would choose an albrun color its like a brownish red.. Good luck.. ♥ Dez

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whats the best hair color dying stuff and which one lasts longest???

Nice and Easy.. ♥ Dez

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does anyone know where i can buy the seasons of smallville on DVD that's not ridiculously expensive?

try ebay or amazon.. ♥ Dez

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My boyfriend is moving and I really really like him, and we have been going out for 3 years and I wont see him anymore should I break up with him or not!

if your not going to see him anymore then freakin break up with him.. theres no point in being with somebody you wont see him.. Not unless your into a long distance relationship that most likely wont work out cause one of you guys will meet somebody else or one of you will cheat on one another... See its freakin POINTLESS.. Move on the best you can.. or try to find a way you will see eachother.. ♥ Dez

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hey my boyfriend is graduating this thursday and his party is in a week...any ideas on what to get him?

Sandels.. thats what i get everybody for graduation.. woo woo get em from Marathon the gas station there only a freakin $$$$DOLLAR$$$$... ♥ Dez

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Alright you know how guys wear condoms while having sex for protection so that when they cum it doesn't enter the vagina and fertilize? When they DO cum while wearing a condom what happens to it? Like does the condom expand..with the cum in there..and it's all soggy-ish, or what?

Sorry I know that sounds stupid.

Well yes it expands when the guy takes the condom off.. but far as i know it doesnt expand inside you.. he should have pulled the tip of the condom out some so it dont break easy or have sperm come out of it and enter the vagina.. and yes it might be SOGGY!.. ♥ Dez

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