well it all started in 2nd grade when my friend and i thought it would be fun to try and have sex so now im not really sure if i am a lex, bi, or striaight. i always thought it would be more comfortable having sex with girls and if i ever needed to practice making out a girl would be better i really have no idea and im scared...if i am a lez or bi i dont want to tell my friends cuz they might feel uncomfortable...and i kinda wanna wait till im older to see if it all changes and if i doesnt im gonna tell my parents..i just need to some help! please! thanx!
denajah5 answered Thursday June 16 2005, 6:29 pm: i have a saying for people who are not sure if they are gay or not..if your not willing to admit to your closes friends that your gay then your not...im not sure of your age but if your young then the saying doesnt go for you. if your young then its all about how you feel around girls. like if you feel akward hugging your friend goodbye or something like that then you might have feelings for them.or if you dont like boys at all then you might be gay.truthfully if i were in your situation i would just see where life took me. i wounldnt stress over it.if you need somemore answers i might have them for you
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mooch789 answered Thursday June 16 2005, 5:07 pm: Well if you had sex and made out with a girl then your lez. But if you have a strong attraction to guys, you're bi. And there's nothing wrong with that. Your friends should treat you with respect and not care whether you're bi, lez, or straight. If they don't, thy're really not your friends. Hope I helped! [ mooch789's advice column | Ask mooch789 A Question ]
pixieglitter123 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 2:43 pm: well...it sounds to me like u might be bi if you seriously think about making out with a girl over a guy. but, i wouldnt come out just yet until you are sure your feelings are real and your not just going thru a phase. so just take sometime to figure yourselfo out, and once you know the real you then be comfortable and proud of who you are! [ pixieglitter123's advice column | Ask pixieglitter123 A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 11:50 am: Just wait to see if you feel differently about girls.. If your attracted to girls and guys your Bisexual.. If your just attracted to girls and not interested in guys at all then your probably a lesbian.. And if your attracted to guys and not sexually attracted to a female then you probably Straight.. i mean you could grow out of the phase.. but alot of girls look at other girls bodys and stuff and judge em thats doesnt me or Lesbian or bi.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
queenbianca2004 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 9:10 am: Its all ok you could just be confused. and thers nothing wrong with that. I mean you could be by. Hey at least you get the best of both worlds. And if your not ready to tell your friends then dont bc you might not be shure. Here is a way to test your sexuality. Test with a girl and see how you feel. Then test with a guy (kissing) and see how u like it. If you like both then your probably bye if you like one or the other then you can be straight or lez. But dont be what people want u to be be yourself bc if your friends cant respect you then there not real friends. I hope I helped
ilovepink101 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 8:20 am: well i think all gurls have those urges to do it with other girls..and i think almost everygirl kissed another girl..and that is true if you tell your friends they are going to feel vey uncomftable around you..and people will call you bad names..and its just terrible..but you shouildnt saying anything about it now because you dont no if your straight or lez or even by...so you shouild just keep that to your self friends wise..and you dont need to tell your parents right now..and your making a right choice waiting till you get a little bit older to see what is right for you...or to see what choice you have made..well i hope i helped...
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