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Q: im 13 years old and i REALLY want a job. ive always wanted a part time job at a nursery home w/ the elderly to pay for college(even though its a long way off) but i think i have to be 14. I also would like a part time job at a camera store, but i dont think they even hire 14 year olds! can any1 give me suggestions for jobs or if they know if nursery hames would let 13 year olds work there???
i usually rate a 5!!! :)
Well at 13 you cant work at fast food places.. well not here anyways.. but you could do babysitting or something around that area-trix

Q: ok i rlly like this guy but this bitch came and stole him away from me and i was goin to tell him i rlly liked him but she asked him out and i think he felt bad for her so he said yes......wut should i do about it?-confused
Well.. you dont know if he has feelings for the girl weather or not he may be hiding them. And if you have strong feelings for this guy and you think he does for you to then you may want to call him or something or just be more flirty towards him.. just a hunch tho.. but good luck between you 2 and just do what your heart tells you-trix

Q: would it be bad to be a pimp for halloween???
haha no it'd be cute.. get some pimpettes!-trix

Q: hey i have a friend who is sooooooo obsessed with her boyfriend and she is on the phone with him all the time and it gets sooo annoying but i love her too much to tell her that! and like what should i say to her and plus he is pretty ugly!! ick he is gross!
signed-
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Well she obviously doesnt go for looks and thats good because she isnt shallow she is just caught up in love or whatever it is.. just tell her you would like to talk to her more often.. just wait till he goes out of town-trix

Q: all my friends have a bf...when ever they talk about him i feel realyl lonely bcuz i dont have a bf...what can i do to feel not so left out?
go meet someone-trix

Q: if a guys asks me out that i really dont like or even know i find it really hard to say no. if i just plainout say no i feel really realyl mean. but if u say yes, i know i will be miserable. if i say we can just be freinds the guy will just follow me around for a while even though i dont even want ot be freinds
just tell him know you would rather be friends-trix

Q: i sweat a lot when ever i am working out. so in team practice it gets a little annoying and embarsing...what do i do?
Just think before what you say-trix

Q: does anyone know any good clothes stores with cheap clothes? i'm not saying cheap cheap but cheaper than abercrombie type cheap. help asap! i rate REALLY good!
Pac sun gadzooks wet seal vanity jc pennys herbergers marshall fields journeyz -trix

Q: whats the best way to get over a guy that ur stuck on?
put away all memories of him such as books, pictures, anything that reminds you of him-trix

Q: i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in 18 and hes 19, we have sex often. im a 34b adn he thinks that i should get implants. should i do it just to please him?!?! i really think that he might be the one, adn we've talked about our future.
help
No.. if he isnt satisfied with you and your body then screw him-trix

Q: how can i put music into my advice column and where can i get the music??
xanga.com but it sounds terrible-trix

Q: okay..my boyfriend and me kissed a lil.but i was scared to kiss him.i know that sounds stupid but i didnt want to mess things up..i didnt want to be bad.lol but after he said that i was a bad kisser he was playin around but still it hurt.considering we didnt really kiss.what should i do im nervous to kiss him?
That doesnt sound stupid everybody is nervous to kiss. and its understandable you didnt want to mess things up. But he was just messing with you and i could see where it hurts.. just kiss him again and if he says it again .. then he means it and if he doesnt then your okay-trix

Q: what are some good ways to get rid of the fat on your thighs (sp)?? and what's a good way to make them stronger because i'm a cheerleading and i need a lot of leg muscle. please help asap!
biking or running or jogging or walking-trix

Q: What exactly does a moderater do? And how do you become one..if you become one what is the point?
You get to rate questoins bad ok or good they are faces like :( :\ :).. so yeah its fun-trix

Q: Okay, well I liked this boy from last yr ( i'm over him though), but I was always curious about him. Last year, he was an assshole to me like saying "piss off" on IM but at school, he's all flirty with me, staring at me, gives me looks (good), smirks at me or whatever, what does this mean?

Lilly
He has a crush probably.. just a mixed up kind of crush-trix

Q: i really am unorganized!!! i dohn't kno wat to do... i have never told anyone this but my last boyfriend of 1yeat left me cuz i was sooo mmessy wat should i do!
Just get organized and keep clean and neat and watch what you do with yourself and your things-trix

Q: what r some good products to remove makeup? say how much urs cost n where u got it plz! ill rate u!! also, how do u use ur products to actually get the make up off?? i need help to get my eyeliner off (both top and BOTTOM LASHES!!) i dont want my mom to think i look slutty, cuz she says ppl do when they were eyeliner, and sumtimes when i try to get the eyeliner/mascara off, itll take out sum of my eyelashes! i hate it cuz theyre my best feature n i dont want that happenning!! so plz help!
Oxi and i got it from wal-greens.. its good.. but i wash with soap and water first.. dove soap.. works well and the oxi is a lil pad.. a wet one. Well there is a eyeliner and it has a eraser at the bottom.. it works good.-trix

Q: A Soldiers Tears



I was scared stiff
For i knew that this pain wouldn't ever lift
I took one last look at my baby
Hoping one day maybe i would see her again
I looked around
I saw 20,000 frowns
But we all knew
As the wind blew
Today wont go by fast
It wont be a thing of the past
It will stay in our minds forever
Please someone just pull the lever
He gave us the go
And we all began to flow
I felt a tear
Symbolizing my fear
I knew it was the end
Good bye my dear friend
We began to march
And we formed our arch
We placed them on our shoulder
The wind made it colder
The leader yelled."FIRE!"
And we raised them higher
I looked at the guy across me
And i wondered why
Why did we have to shed each others blood
And sink into this warm flood
I wanted to just be their friend
This all has to end
But this country is full of hate
Each and every state
So I pulled up my gun
And i fired one
It hit him in the leg
Then he fell to his knees and started to beg
"Please Lord",he said!Just let there be peace
Im sick of the fights!
We should all have the same rights!
The Lord said yes i know theres to much hate
But you make your own fate
All the guns began to burst
It hit me first
I looked down and i was about to drown
Everywhere blood
Making a little flood
Men everywhere fell
It looked like Hell
OH GOD PLEASE HELP US NOW!
Bloody terrified yells
From all the brave males
I knew i was about dead
I would now go to my dark bed
I would never see my family again
My last memories were of these brave men
I began to fell numb
This world is so dumb
How would this make anything better
It would just make peoples faces wetter
This isnt a solution
Its a deady pollution
But as i lie
About to die..
I take my last deep sigh...
And i wondered.....
Why?
wow!! i love that!! im proud of you!! 2 thumbs up!!-trix

Q: what is the normal/ideal weight for a girl that is 5'8 and is 14 years old?
130-140 depend son how active you are-trix

Q: most days i am all home alone by myself bcuz my mom and dad are at work...what are somethings i can do so that im not so bored?
call a friend or clean-trix

bio
bAhAmAmA0250
My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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