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Okay...I'm 18, and I have these two certain good friends that I've been friends with for a couple of years. I've been feeling left out lately, because they're going to the same college, and I'm not, and they always talk about it in front of me. We also have this thing where we wait for each other after soccer practice, and lately they've just left without me, talking and laughing all the way. I take this as a sign that they just forget me, and it makes me mad. One of the girls I was good friends with until the other one came along, and now they're best friends. And I'm left out. I keep giving them HUGE hints that they're leaving me out, but they're either too clueless to know, or just don't care. What should I say to them/do?? (link)
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Well you can't force some one to like you better than the other person... maybe you should hang out with them induvidually... and get to know them better... that will give them a chance to start liking you more. If that doesn't work than definetly tell them how you feel don't just give hints.
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ok theres this girl..i dont know if i would consider her my friend but i try to be nice to everyone.well she liked my boyfriend b4 we started to go out.and of course i did 2.well she WAS mad when we started to go out so ever since then shes been butting into our business.like we can be walking down the hall holding hands and what not and she just walks up in between us.after awhile it can get verrry annoying.when me and my boyfriend are on the phone ill get online and she'll IM me and want me and my boyfriend to 3 way her.he doesnt like her and she pisses him off.today she crossed my boyfriends line.she pretty much was trying to invite herself to the movies with me and my boyfriend and that pissed him off so he goes no we want to be alone for once.i cant really blame him but shes allllways on my business.i dont want to be mean to her because im not that way.what are some ways to tell her to back off without being mean? (link)
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my best friend is exactly like that.. except i am not sure if she likes my boyfriend or not... she always walks with us and always wants to know what we talk about... i try and give her little hints like saying i never get anytime alone with my boyfriend anymore (but not in a rude voice) or sumthing like one time when you got picked up from school early eric told me he loved me and he told me i was prettiest girl in the world... my boyfriend usually doesn't say that to me when she is with us because he is shy like that... if she doesn't understand ur little hints than definetly tell her you and your boyfriend need some space and since you said you wouldn't consider her a good friend than i would just not be friends with her anymore. ALso, don't tell her what your plans are with your boyfriend and don't tell her when you guys are on the phone.... and if she asks if you have plans be like we're going on a very romantic date that way she won't be able to come because it's going to be romantic and she shouldn't get in the way of that
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Okay.. so me and my boy friend have been dating for 8 months ! Well just last week we were looking at his digital camera and a picture poped up and he was like oh look heres when they had a stripper come to my dads birthday ! Im Like WHAT ? so i didn't say anything until we got home well when i did hes like its just a joke come on i mean she was ugly and she only danced in front of everyone else ! I was like ok and i let it go away well then today i was looking thru the pictures and i seen one of her dancing all over him !! i didn't tell him i saw it but now its all i can think about i really love him what should i do ! (link)
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Well he did lie to you... but maybe he has good reasons. Its just a stripper... its not like he's cheating on you.... you have two options:
1) talk to him and tell him what you saw... (he may get mad that you were looking through hid pictures, but it's the only way to let him no how you feel)BUt tell him that it's not a big deal... but you were just wondering why he lied.. this way it doesn't make him feel hurt... and you guys don't get into a huge fight.
2) don't say anything... keep your feelings to yourself
Maybe you should ask him why he even took pictures of her in the first place if he thought she was ugly.
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Ok, this guy didn't kno what I looked like and my friend pointed me out to him and he still talked to me on AIM, and then I asked him if he saw what I looked like and he said "No I forgot" and then later on another day I asked him "so do u remember what I look like know?" and he said "Yeah I remember now" and then he started talking to me less and less. He never said I was ugly or anything, and he's the type of person to say if ur ugly or not. He didn't say anything. I'm confused! Why is he being this way?!
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Maybe he is shy and doesn't want you to know that he thinks your pretty... you should ask him if something is bothering him because he hasn't been talking to you that much. ASk your friend if he said anything like "wow she's gorgeous!" or "umm she's ok."
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I know this is going to sound like a stupid high school crush, but thats what it is i guess, this guy said that he liked me and he asked me out. At the time i didnt like him, i did about a year ago but since we had no classes together and i barely saw him. Now over the past few weeks ive started seeing him in the halls and beginning to like him more. I am very shy unless im with my closest friends and have never told anyone to their face that i like them.I want to know if i shud just wait it out and let it, like all my crushes, slowly fade away or should i tell him how it is? (link)
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just think of it this way...
If you don't ask him out will you have regrets?, will you be missing out on something good?, and would it have worked out in the end? DOn't be shy about it... ask him out.
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ok im an 18/f.. whenever my boyfriend and i get in arguements i start screaming and cussing at him when im really mad. i usually feel bad about it later cuz i can be so mean.. but i cant calm myself down when i need to. when im really pissed off i dont think about it, i just start yelling. sometimes i feel like its the only way i can get him to listen even though i know it only makes things worse.. what should i do to stop doing this? (link)
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hmm... if i were you... and i was in a fight with my boyfriend ... i would take a deep breath and think of all the good times i'd had with him... then i would count to five (in my head) and in a calm voice tell him how your feeling and than let him have his turn... after that compromise and make up... but if fights keep happening and you keep yelling.. i think your boyfriend will want to break up with you... sorry if thats not what you wanted to hear... but if you think about what i just said... you'll want to stop yelling so that way you can be happy together.
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My fourteen year old daughter has been going out with this nineteen year old boy since the beginning of January, first of all she lied to me saying that he was sixteen. I am quite worried about this. Can somebody help me and tell me what I should be doing. She is my only daughter, in fact my only child. I am worried. Help. (link)
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I think that you should talk to her about how you feel... but don't tell her not to go out with this guy because if you raised her right, she'll be able to see what guys are the bad ones to go out with and which are the good... i would make a dinner date with them and get to know her boyfriend. You should trust your daughter and let her like who she wants to because you can't make her like sumone she doesn't want to
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I really need a lot of help on getting over my ex boyfriend. I went out with him for 9 months and we loved eachother and everything*. but we broke up like 4 months ago and since he was my first love and first and only person to have sex with.. i was absolutly in love with him. But now he has a new gf and i need to move on. I sorta like this kid and he likes me a lot too but i just need help .. i can't like picture myself with any1 else yet.Nothings like 'clicking' with any1 esle.. nothings the same. Help please- i'll rate (link)
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Just because he has a new girlfriend doesn't mean you have to move on... but from what it sounds like... i don't think ur ex has any feelings for you... if you kinda like this other kid than maybe you should go out with him. WHo knows, maybe you'll wind up liking this kid alot. Sooner or later something will click and you will be able to picture yourself with someone other than your ex
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I loathe myself, every tiny detail about myself. I hate my appearance...My
hair, my face, my teeth, my hands, my eyebrows, chest, stomach, back, arms, etc...I
hate every characteristic of my personality, every last one. I think of my self
as stupid, incompetent and worthless. Everything that goes wrong is my fault. I
suck at every thing I do. Seeking professional help is not an option for me, and
neither is getting help from a trusted adult. Even if either were an option, I’m
much, much, much to timid to ask for help...I don't think I even deserve to have
people waste there time on me to help me anyway. (link)
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There has to be something you like about yourself... don't be to obsessed with looking good. Have some fun and go out with friends... try and enjoy yourself like get a manicure so than atleast your nails will look pretty.
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ok well my bf and i have been dating for about 3 months and valentines day is around the cornor and i don't know wat to get him! i don't want to get him something really stupid that hes not gonna like but i want to get him something that shows i really love him! so if u have any ideas! let me know! thanks a bunch
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i am having the same probably... but what i think i am going to do is buy this big wooden heart at the store Micheals and than paint it and in the middle wright i love you... and also since my boyfriend likes soccer i am going to buy him something from sports authority but i really don't no because i am new to all this
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me and my boyfriend broke up but we still love each other and hopefully might get back together. but im having second thoughts what does that mean? (link)
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if your having mixed feelings than its better that you two just be friends.. listen to ur heart and do what you want even if it may heart your ex's feelings.
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ok yea hi there ok well im worried about my older sister shes 14! and shes in highschool and shes ALWAYS hanging out with seniors and she ALWAYS has guys over at the house and she has a bf and hes like one of my best friends ever! and they have been dating for a couple months now and im just worried about her cuz when she goes out she goes with seniors and they go get drunk and im afraid that sumtime she mite have sex with one of them! and if they do her bf will be really uppset and i don't know who to side with my sister or my best friend! HELP (link)
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Don't side with either of them, talk to your sister about how you feel, or tell a gurdian or parent. Tell your sister your just trying to make sure she's gonna be ok and u don't want her to get into trouble... maybe you and your sister can go to the movies together so that way she won't be hanging out with these seniors. As for her bf, he should definetly talk to her and even though this may be hard for him, he should dump her because from what you're saying, things just don't seem right between the two of them, it sounds like your sis hangs out with her friends more than her bf.
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Hey, so here is the thing. My BF and I were really happy, we loved eachother (and still do.) but what happened was he was supposed to move to virginia last month. So we broke up b\c we didnt want a long distance relationship. But then he ended up not movin. He told me this recently and now the girl who ALSO wants him is makin moves b\c we are not officially together again! So now the girl, Amber asked him to the dance and he said YES!!! But then he kissed me and said he wud go with me!!! I feel bad for him cuz hes hot and ever1 want him but i feel bad for ME b\c my bf MIGHT me a playa! What in the world should i do?!?!?!?!
I WILL RATE PLEASE REPLY!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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ditch this guy... if your having mixed feelings then get out of this right now. There are plenty of other guys out there who will be loyal to you. If you can't get over him then talk to him about this.
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hi, uhhh its kinda hard to talk about this but, I dont know what to tell my boifriend, I mean he asked me if I was a virgin or not n i keep aboiding the question, you see when I was 13 I was rapped, what should I tell my boifrien? should I lie or tell him the truth, do you think it will effect the relationship?
thanks so much (I rate well!!!) HaLeY
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YOu should tell the truth.. your boyfriend should understand. If you don't tell the truth then and ur boyfriend finds out, then there might be a problem. You should be able to tell your boyfriend almost everything because you should feel comfortable around him. Tell the truth.
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I've been going out with this guy for 5 months and i love him and everything... but i think my ex is hot and sometimes i even dream about doing stuff with him (i've dreamed at least 4 times in the past month me and my ex either making out, or having sex) and i love talking to my ex even though i don't like him anymore and my boyfriend kind of gets mad when i talk to him.. but i don't want to end things with my boyfriend.. what should i do? (link)
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I had the same problem... i dumped my boyfriend and went out with my ex again because i was always excited to see him and stuff like that... i had dreams also... it was hard dumping my boyfriend... but now i'm really happy. I think u still have feelings for your ex.
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I have this friend named Emily. She has recently just liked this guy named Justin. Well a week ago she decided she didn't like him anymore. Last night they were talking online and Justin told Emily that he really really liked me and he was going to ask me out and if i said no then he would like be at da point crying. I don't like him and i don't really want to go out cuz i like someone else but my friend wants me to go out w/ him... what should i do? (link)
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listen to your heart... don't have your friend tell you who to like. If he asks you just be like i'm not interested in you that way but i just wanna be good friends and then we'll see what happens
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My best friend never beleives me she always beleives her mom or ... ANYONE exept me, then i yelled at her because she is my best friend and is sopposed to beleive me, so she got really sad and i feel bad for me making her sad and her not beleiving me. what should i do i need to know now (link)
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YOu should talk to her and tell her ur sorry for yelling... make her feel good and tell her she's a good friend. If your friend doesn't want to believe u she doesn't have to... she has her own mind... so don't try and force her to believe you.
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ok today I was talking to my boyfriend and he said that i dont think this relationship is gonna work out and i asked him y and he said because we dont ever do anything together and when where on the phone I never talk to him. ok this is no reason to break up with someone but i said that we cant ever go anywhere because your grounded and you dont say anything on the phone then he hung up on me wat do i do? Should i call him back should i break up with him help me out here!!!
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To me, i think he likes someone else. I would break up with him... but first call him back and ask him whats going on
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Ok, my ex-boyfriend and I are friends now. And we had a talk about my love life. He wanted to know so I told him. I brought up that one of my crushes is kind of offstandish towards me and he replied "one day he'll wake up and see the morning blossom." Then later he asked which one of my crushes I want to die with. What does all of that mean? (link)
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i think it means he still has feelings for you... but depending on how you feel... i would either talk to him or tell him that ur just friends now.
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your a loser. You dont ask for advice while giving advice. nice talking to you (link)
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sorry
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