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HELP ME! It's my b.f!!!!
Hey, so here is the thing. My BF and I were really happy, we loved eachother (and still do.) but what happened was he was supposed to move to virginia last month. So we broke up b\c we didnt want a long distance relationship. But then he ended up not movin. He told me this recently and now the girl who ALSO wants him is makin moves b\c we are not officially together again! So now the girl, Amber asked him to the dance and he said YES!!! But then he kissed me and said he wud go with me!!! I feel bad for him cuz hes hot and ever1 want him but i feel bad for ME b\c my bf MIGHT me a playa! What in the world should i do?!?!?!?!
I WILL RATE PLEASE REPLY!!!!!!!!!!!!
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It sounds like your boyfriend's mixed up and not sure about what to do with his feelings.
I'd ask him straight. Give him the choice between her and you and say that you won't take him cheating on you.
If he refuses, or chooses her, he's not worth it!
I feel a bit bad for him too, but don't stand for players! Go girl!
Good Luck,
Sophie xxx
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Just be real with him.. Ask him if he wants to be with you or other people.. tell him you care about him but you don't need to be played like that cuz your worth way more.. Tell him if he wants to be with you its not going to be and open realtionship that lets him be able to mess with other girls..cuz, NO female deverses to be played..
give him 2 options, you or other people. if he can't deicde clearly or picks other people, drop him!!
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If you are having to worry about him playing you, get rid of him. You don't need someone who is going to play you. You can do better than that.
Best of luck!
Heddo
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ditch this guy... if your having mixed feelings then get out of this right now. There are plenty of other guys out there who will be loyal to you. If you can't get over him then talk to him about this.
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he is a playa you need to break up with him if you to arent already broken up well there are alot of guys who are like that so the can get some becasuse they are desprate sooner or later noone will like him cuz he is like that so i think that you need to break up with him
hope i helped
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First off, the whole give him sex advice that XxXhypergirlXxX gave you, that is definatly a not, he would still cheat on you if you gave him sex, and sex before marriage is so dumb, anywho. Sounds like your boyfriends two-faced, I don't think he really loved you, if he did you would be back together again and he would have told the girl no. And another thing, looks are nice, but being hot isn't everything, in the end looks don't matter and hot fades away. And no i'm not some 30 something year old women...i'm 15, i just opened my eyes sooner.
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im sorry i cant answar youre question better...but...maybe he later changed his mind about amber and i guess i dont think hes a good boyfriend annyway if hes gonna be playin you
{MATT}
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GO BACK OUT WITH HIM! iF he wants you then go out wiht him, and then give him sex and so he wont cheat on you.
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well i think you should be proud of yourself for actually having the guy that all the girls want. think about it.. he could of chose one of them over you, but didnt. he wanted to have you and not them. if your uncomfortable with him around other girls because they all like him and he has danced and hung out with some of them, maybe you could try confronting him. but you dont want to come off to strong. i would wait and see if he is actually playing you before jumping to conclusions. because if he is just friends with osme of them and nothing more then you dont want to come off and seem like the jealous type to him. so wait a while and see how things go.
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I think that you need to talk to him about this. Tell him that you still like him and that the only reason you agreed to break up with him is because you didn't want a long distance relationship and now that he is going to the dance with this other girl even though he also said that he was going with you it makes you feel like he is being a player. Tell him that you really want to go back out with him and ask if he wants to go out with you again too? It seems like he does since he kissed you so don't worry that he might say no. hope this helps!
♥ Katie
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