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Im 14 almost 15 and I havent had my first kiss yet. Is that okay. I understand that a lot of people have had their first kiss like younger or sumthing. Is it okay that I am waiting for that right person. I dont want the guy I have my first kiss with to be all like wow you havent had your first kiss yet and all. Anyway Its okay not to have it yet right??


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Yeah, thats perfectly fine you just have self respect for yourself and don't want to just kiss anybody most people just kiss anybody so they can say they've had their first kiss.

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oaky...Well I will start out like this, well there's this boy and he lives with me four days out of the week,and it kind of seems like he takes over a lot of things like usally i am the one that stands by the cart being able to talk to my mom and then when he comes I am the one standing in the back and he is the one that is getting all the attention and its not fair.... it seems like he takes over everything like my sister and my dad. because like my sister is way nicer to him and my dad is always doing stuff with him... And he makes me cry every night because everytime i need to talk to my parents he's there buddin into the conversation and i can't barely talk to anyone about the way i feel because he's always around and I dont want to tell my friends and family about him in front of his face well all i am asking for is some good advice so even if its bad but you tried I will give you a five

Luv Brittany PLEASE PLEASE answer because I need halp : (

I would tell this boy nicely to please back off and how you are feeling and that you want attention as well. Also, on one of the days he's not at your house just tell your family, but if you don't get to be alone with one of them because of this boy I would just say politely can I be alone for a little while with my mom, dad or sis or w/e lol but I would suggest talking with your family and this boy and don't worry about it they love you tons more!! it'll be ok, hope it works out for ya, GOOD LUCK

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Is being forced to makeout sexual abuse in any way? For example, if you're making out with a guy and he doesn't let you pull away when you want to.
And if it isn't sexual abuse, then what is it?
I'm just wondering.

It depends, like the situation if he knew you were trying to pull away, or its just a guy being a jerk who only uses his brain down there to think lol i'm sorry

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Jesus, I just got back from the Spelling bee. I had been studying like a fiend the night before (From 4:00pm-10:00pm), I had the whole Paideia memorized, and I was almost sure that I would be headed for Washington D.C. in a few months. OMG! GODDAMNIT! It was the first round, and they gave me a really easy word, and I completely forgot the word. The word was "notary." Isn't that an easy word? I bet everyone here can spell that word. I just blanked out on that word and forgot. They rang a little bell, and that signified that I was the 4th person out on the 1st round. I suddenly remembered how to spell the word when they rang the bell, but it was too late. I lost.



All of that hard work----flushed down the toilet. If it weren't for that stupid word, I know I could have won. I have never lost a spelling bee in my life. I need to talk.

Anyone who at least tries to make me feel better gets a 5

Aww, It's ok you sound really driven and I probably wouldn't of known how to spell that word lol. I really suck at spelling. I mean you have to be like amazing at spelling to make it that far and have guts. There will always be next year, but I know yur bumming because you lost just try to forget a move on. Hope ya feel better

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This may be a stupid question to some, but I thought I might as well ask it.

Is telling a guy you like him really as easy as some people make it sound? I mean, I'm pretty confident and outgoing, but with guys, I can be pretty shy.

I like a certain guy... I mean, I'll talk to him and stuff, but I can't tell him I like him unless I KNOW he likes me, too. I doubt he likes me back, personally. But some people are just like, "Tell him!" and I don't know if I should. So... should I, how, and is it that easy? Thanks in advance.

Well, its not easy by no means but you've got to take the risk, do you like this guy enough to take the risk? or you could always tell him by email or a note. Good Luck

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Okay the past days I've been thinking about this. There is this one guy that I REALLY like but I don't know whats better having a frienship with him or have a relationship with him. I don't really know whats better. He likes me but my fear is that I might someday lose him and I don't want to lose him NEVER want to lose him. So I need you guys some help here.

I would tell him how you feel just tell him everything you said in that paragraph about never wanting to lose him and that you really like him and see how he reacts. sorry I can't help more but hope it helped!

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some guys that i know.. not really MY friends.. but we kinda have some same friends.. text me and are like "ur flat" .. and i think they all think that. and i know i shouldn't care and whatever but is that all anyone thinks? it's so annoying and idk what to dooo

i rate highhhh

Oh, I'm sorry you should really ignore those guys I mean so what yur not developed do they really think you'd date them if you were? I mean really their just trying to get to you. Boobs don't matter you don't just have to have boobs to get a bf or be considered pretty. Next, time they say that, say yeah for now, or say yeah ik so they know it's not bugging you. I'm sorry I hope this helps! Good Luck!

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i am a female age 15 and im dating this guy and i dated him in the past and my grandmother told me i had to break it off between us...now that im seeing him she doesnt know and if she finds out i will have to break up with him AGAIN!...how do i convince my grandmother to letting me date?

Why don't you suggest going on a date as a group or double dating, and introducing him to her, and tell her your old enough and if under those circumstances could you date.

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Hey, I'm on a softball team, i'm having a problem with my glove, it always gets so slippery when I use it, and I have to adjust my hand a lot, what can I do to my glove to fix it? Thanks.


-SoftballWhore

You could wear your batting glove with it or put some dirt or spit on yur hand.

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When me and my boyfriend are together I can sense some tension, not like bad but like ackwardness floating in the air. How can I ease this and make it more comfortable for the both of us so we can just unwind and relax with each other and just be ourselves?

I would suggest taking the first step maybe admit something that means a lot to you or something embarassing so he can relax and realize he can tell you stuff like that to. I was in the same positon, hope it works out for ya!

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i have a guy friend, who i talk to a lot and we have fun together in our group and stuff. i really like him and some of my close friends know too, and they all think that we would make a good couple, and so do i. i really like him, and he is super sweet and smart, just not the most flirtatious of guys, which may be one reason why i like him so much. anyways, we have a boy and girl sleepover tommorrow and later we have a dance. i dont know if he likes me that way or not, but i have no idea how he would show it if he did. My friends say that they see him "flirting" a little, but i just see him being a friend. is there anything i can do to let him know i am interested without making myself look foolish ,maybe at the sleepover or at school?

You could write a note or email explaining how you feel and ask him to keep it on the DL, or you could just be over the top flirty and touchy so he gets the point. Then theres another possiblity, you could get one of your close friends to do some investigating for you to find out how he feels, or have one of yur friends tell him how you feel and find out how he feels after they tell him. Well I really hope this works out for you! Good Luck!!

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There is this guy. We have never actually talked in person but he instant messaged me and we got to talking. We talked for a while and he told me a secret. A huge secret. I have never been told such a big secret before. Now it is incredibly weird around him at school. I fell like i know him so well but yet I dont. It is so awkward. We dont really talk anymore but knowing that I know his secret is just weird. I am the only one that he ever told. I cant even talk to him unless it is over a instant messenger. How do i make this situation not awkward.

When your on instant messenger tell him you feel uncomfortable and awkward talking to him. I would tell him that its very hard for you to talk to you at school. That should probably help so he knows how you feel and he might feel the same way so it will be less awkward. I would just some how get up the courage to talk to him because it gradually will get easier. Good Luck!

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sorry about spelling, but I am really considering getting my cartilage (spelling?) pierced around my birthday day (July 1st) and I know this is a stupid question but how bad does it really hurt, and I don't really remember getting my ears pierced because I was young. And also when you do get your cartilage pierced how long do you have to keep it in? Well, thanks and if theres any other information about getting your cartilage pierced please tell me

Hey!, yeah I got mine done, well the actual peircing doesn't really hurt maybe a slight sting, but it hurts to touch it or sleep on it for a few weeks. You have to keep it in 8-12 and clean it everyday! Good Luck!

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i need teens to answer this only please!!
anyway so i have this perverted frien who likes to look at you know pictures and sites and stuff of women and he is only like 15. He is my really good friend but he is getting really perverted. I don't not want to be with him and i've already talked to him about his "habit" what should i do?

Tell him straight up that if he doesn't stop you can't hang out with him because his habit has gone too far for your liking and it makes you uncomfortable.

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I need guys to anser this question. I need some ways that you can tell if a guy likes you. This guy i'm tlaking about HAS a girlfriend & my best friend which is his best firend thinks he likes me. I wish she was right, and i think maybe i like him. How can i tell if he likes me back!!? PLEASE HELP!!

Well I'm a girl but they find any reason to touch you or get close to you, they look at you differnt, their tone of voice changes when their around you to a flirty one, and they focus their attention more on you than their guy friends. well hoped that helped

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so I got a 2nd hole on the lobe of my ear 6 weeks ago, and it's time for me to finally take it out.

but I try to remove the backing, and it's being stubborn && won't come off!


are there any tricks to help me get it off?

thank you in advance!!

Try twisting the back off or put lotion around it or some baby oil or something if need be. Good Luck getting it off lol

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I need you help guys and girls.
Ok,,, Well the problem is that I don't know what to do next. I can't seem to find the right type of guy. The ones who really like me are the ones im not really interested in. There's one boy who loves me alot. His name is JD. He's ok. He loves me ALOT. I DONT feel the same way about him though. Should I just keep searching for the hotties or settle down in the commitment relationship thing? Im so frustraited that I can find love. HELP! I RATE! ..
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Well, I mean I would suggest keep looking but maybe don't be so hard on the guy you choose, meaning settle more on personality than looks. well hope that helped!

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Am I missing something? Do most girls lose their virginities by the time they're 16? I'm just amazed, because when I was 12, NOBODY was having sex, or even kissing... and now I hear about 12 year olds having sex! I'm 18, so I'm not THAT old...

I'm just curious...

Yeah I know what you mean its really grossing me out it's like dont these girls realize their giving up the respect they diserve to a guy that hasnt begun to diserve it. But also it depends where you live and where you go to school depending on the type of girls..lol welll yeah...hope that helped CUZ YUR NOT CRAZY lol

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okay so i am in 6th grade and tomorrow me and my boyfriend are planning on hooking up. It will be my first time, but the only problem is that i don't know how! i know what it is and all, i just don't know how to do it so that it's feels nice for him also. If you could please give me some pointers on how to do it, that would be greatly appreciated! i rate 5's! Thanks!

woah yur in sixth seriously there is no rush for that i'm in seventh and i havent gotten close to that i really wouldnt suggest it. sorry

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There is this guy who likes me but he is not my boyfriend.(because I don't like him that way) He always sits next to me during classes we have together. He flirts with me alllll of the time. He treats me way better than other girls. But the thing that really gets on my nerves is how he calls me EVERYday. I don't even talk to my friends that are girls everyday. Do you think he is getting to attached or is it just me?

Yes, I think he's getting attached I'd try to hint it to him to stop doing this and you dont feel the same and if he still doesnt get the hint TELL HIM. lol good luck

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