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There is this guy. We have never actually talked in person but he instant messaged me and we got to talking. We talked for a while and he told me a secret. A huge secret. I have never been told such a big secret before. Now it is incredibly weird around him at school. I fell like i know him so well but yet I dont. It is so awkward. We dont really talk anymore but knowing that I know his secret is just weird. I am the only one that he ever told. I cant even talk to him unless it is over a instant messenger. How do i make this situation not awkward.
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First of all, you need to talk to him in person. Instant messenger is incredibly impersonal and you're never going to get over the awkward situation if you don't.
Secondly, he must have had a reason for telling you such a huge secret. You obviously don't want to tell anyone else his secret, but you do need to tell him how you feel about knowing his secret.
Try talking to him out of school, if that would help. Ask him to go for a walk or get some coffee after school so you guys can talk about your situation.
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When your on instant messenger tell him you feel uncomfortable and awkward talking to him. I would tell him that its very hard for you to talk to you at school. That should probably help so he knows how you feel and he might feel the same way so it will be less awkward. I would just some how get up the courage to talk to him because it gradually will get easier. Good Luck!
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Well he probly feels that you will keep his secret and he trust you to so don't give it away. Since he felt comfterble telling you it then it shouldn't be hard to talk to eachother. Just go up to him and say hi. Then once he says hi back say you have to go tto class. Just take baby steps each day so you won't feel as awkward talking to him. The next day just be like hi wats up and when ever you start to feel comfterble talking to him then start a conversation. Hope i helped.
♥ jackie
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I wanna know the secret!!!
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Tell everyone in school. When everyone knows, it wont be as akward.
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