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guy friend becoming more than just a friend
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i have a guy friend, who i talk to a lot and we have fun together in our group and stuff. i really like him and some of my close friends know too, and they all think that we would make a good couple, and so do i. i really like him, and he is super sweet and smart, just not the most flirtatious of guys, which may be one reason why i like him so much. anyways, we have a boy and girl sleepover tommorrow and later we have a dance. i dont know if he likes me that way or not, but i have no idea how he would show it if he did. My friends say that they see him "flirting" a little, but i just see him being a friend. is there anything i can do to let him know i am interested without making myself look foolish ,maybe at the sleepover or at school?
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You could write a note or email explaining how you feel and ask him to keep it on the DL, or you could just be over the top flirty and touchy so he gets the point. Then theres another possiblity, you could get one of your close friends to do some investigating for you to find out how he feels, or have one of yur friends tell him how you feel and find out how he feels after they tell him. Well I really hope this works out for you! Good Luck!!
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You could see how he is when he talks to you at the sleepover. Does he spend more time talking to you than the other girls, for example? Is he particularly nice or jokey with you?
Gauge how he is and then, at the dance, ask him to dance with you. Most guys will only dance with girls they like so this will be a fairly good indication. Then, maybe while you are dancing, if you feel brave enough, you can tell him that you like him and were wondering if he felt the same way. If he does, then ask him out.
I always recommend that you ask a guy out yourself and never get friends or anyone else to do it for you. Guys respect girls who make the first move and can do it themselves so regardless of the outcome, you will look better for doing it in person.
Good luck!
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Give him a piece of paper that says, "Do you like me? [] Yes [] No." This is a sure fire way to tell if he likes you or not.
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