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hooking up
okay so i am in 6th grade and tomorrow me and my boyfriend are planning on hooking up. It will be my first time, but the only problem is that i don't know how! i know what it is and all, i just don't know how to do it so that it's feels nice for him also. If you could please give me some pointers on how to do it, that would be greatly appreciated! i rate 5's! Thanks!
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I am sorry but I have to say that you are too young, even though you probably think that having sex doesn't mean anything, trust me it does. And trush me no matter how mature you think you are you are not ready.
You really need to think about what you are getting yourself into. When you are older you WILL regret it...and don't think I don't know what I am talking about...because I do..and I am telling you that even though I don't know you that you are not ready...
Please read the other people's answers and mine, and really think about the choice you are making..
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I know you're probably sick to death of people lecturing you on your age... but seriously, don't have sex yet. I was nearly 18 when I had sex the first time, and I have no regrets. At 12-13, you just don't have the mental, emotional or physical equipment to deal with the many consequences of being sexually active. Trust me on that, just wait till you're at least 16. You've got your whole life ahead of you to deal with that :)
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Dude, I still think 12 is way young to have sex, if that's what you're talking about, but I'm sure you'll go ahead with it regardless of what I say, so I'm going to save you a lecture.
First times of anything (sex, oral sex, making out, etc., etc.) are all awkward. They're not going to be perfect; please don't expect them to be. It'll probably be more embarrassing than anything. And don't worry about making him happy or you'll just ruin your experience. Guys bodies are built to be able to make themselves happy.
My conscience won't let me tell you the physical ways to do what you're planning to do, but for god's sake, use protection. A baby would SUCK at your age.
All I'm going to say is that anything with sex isn't as hard as it looks. Bodies are pretty self-explanatory.
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Okay, well I'm sure we can all assume that hooking up is making out. And although others may disagree, I do not think you are too young. A lot of 6th graders hook up. Well, no one can tell you exactly how to do it, but don't be nervous. If you're nervous, your boyfriend can tell. Although that shouldn't matter to him, it will be embaressing for him too. I wouldn't know, but I would guess maybe this is his first time too? If so, then don't sweat it. He won't know if you don't know what you're doing, and there's no such thing as a bad kisser. There are only different ways of kissing, and different people prefer different ways. I'm sure everything will go fine, and let me know how it goes! Good luck, and all I can say is remember to close your eyes!
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What exactly fo you consider hooking up?
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You need more info.
Actually, you just need to define "hooking up" for us. Because the most familiar meaning of "hooking up" to me is when a guy and a girl get together and become boyfriend and girlfriend.
Please specify, and I will answer this question more thoroughly when you do.
Until then,
-Ryan
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I think that you are TOO YOUNG to be on this site.
That said, you may know what "hooking up" means to you, but none of us do! Are you going to go on a date? Kiss him? Have sex? Dating him is fine. Kissing is fine. Make sure he knows that it's your first kiss and he will help you out. Kissing is really easy to pick up on and after just a few times you'll be a pro! Try not to worry so much. It's not that big of a deal and it will go great. If you're planning on having sex, that would be a very poor choice. You run the risk of getting pregnant at age what...11 or 12? Plus, you will regret it later in life for so many reasons.
If you are 13, my apologies. It just really bugs me when people try to get away with things by pretending they're something they're not.
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woah yur in sixth seriously there is no rush for that i'm in seventh and i havent gotten close to that i really wouldnt suggest it. sorry
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ummmmm... i think that sixth grade is kinda too young to do that. i'm in eighth grade and i haven't done that yet. if your 11 or 12, what happens if you get pregnant. you may not give me a 5, but i just dont think you should do it that soon.
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awww! I REMEMBER MY FIRST TIME!!! I'm so happy for you! but to be really honest with you nothing anyone says is going to help you. I got all these pointers and tricks and stuff but when it actually happened i honestly don't remember what was going through my head or what i did. The only reason i waited so long was because i wanted it to be special and i thought it was gonna be sooo nasty! I've hooked up with a million guys since then and thats when you can know what you're doing because you know what its like already. The thing that makes a kiss bad as trying too hard to do it right. you're a girl i'm assuming, which means your bf will lead you. You don't know what i mean now but don't worry, you will! DO NOT BE TOO STRONG! and it won't look like a movie where you mouth moves a lot and stuff so don't try to make it like that otherwise he'll think your trying to swallow him... i had a kiss like that once but it was the guy, not me... it was gross!
But the best thing i can tell you to do IS DON'T DO IT IF YOU'RE THINKING ABOUT IT!!! when it comes naturally because you're in the perfect situation, then its the best!!! it just happens and you won't have time to think how to do it or anything. It'll all come to you. I PROMISE. Theres no right way to do it- just a wrong way!!! :) i hope i helped!!! write me back and tell me how it was! i really wanna know!!!!
xoxo, Jessie
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