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Ackward with him
When me and my boyfriend are together I can sense some tension, not like bad but like ackwardness floating in the air. How can I ease this and make it more comfortable for the both of us so we can just unwind and relax with each other and just be ourselves?
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I would suggest taking the first step maybe admit something that means a lot to you or something embarassing so he can relax and realize he can tell you stuff like that to. I was in the same positon, hope it works out for ya!
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if i were you i would just ask him and talk to him about the tension you are feeling ... ask him if he is feeling it too .. and if he is then you can work together to think of ways to help you two unwind and be yourselves around eachother .. but i am certain after you talk to him about it the tension will already start to ease!
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They say that the keys to any relationship are trust and communication and it sounds as though there are come feelings that aren't being effectively communicated.
Can you think of any reason for this tension? If it's not coming from your side of the relationship then perhaps there's something bothering him. Men don't often like to share their feelings and it can take a while to open up. Ask him how he is and if everything is okay because you have been sensing some tension betweem you and were a little concerned.
See what he says. If he insists there is nothing wrong, don't press the matter. Accept it and let it go for the time being. It might be that nothing is actually wrong or it might be he just doesn't want to talk about it yet.
If that doesn't work, try doing something that you both really enjoy but is also very involved. Go bowling or to a theme park or something similar. If you have some fun together, it should ease any tension or negativity and make you both feel a lot more relaxed.
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