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Ok my friend (who is a guy, and I am a girl) just broke up with his girlfriend, who is another friend of mine. And ever since the break up My guy friend and me have been spending a lot of time together...while the his ex is moving on with other guys(if you know what i mean) I think he is using me as a way of not to deal with the pain. I feel so bad for him because I can see how much he is hurting and everytime I bring her up he changes the subject. I don't want to push...but i want to help him get over it. How can i do that? If you look at him you can tell he is in pain...just he trys to cover it up. I don't want him to know that I know he is in pain. So what should I do? Any help would be amzing! (link)
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I'm sorry if this seems a little harsh, but he needs to get over his pain the quickest way, which would be to leave him alone. If you're easing his pain, it's going to last longer than needed. Give him some time to himself. Hope I helped!
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for like 2 months and almost 3 months. And he's been acting kinda different from the last month. Last month i was his everything, he was perfect. This month he's different, it's like he's kinda careless now. I'm so sad, and worried, i cried 4 times 2 days ago, and cried one time this morning cause i waited for him to wake up online until 5 in the morning. But then i gave up and i signed off.. and then he signed on.. and i talked to him on the phone later that day and he said he woke up after i signed off and that he did not sign off on me and etc. and he said he was sorry.
but my friends arent really helpful my BESTfriend and i are fading apart since she moved to another city.. and my other bestfriend and i are in a fight and all i have is this site and my other bestfriend. Hopefully things wont get worse.. im scared of losing all of 'em especially my boyfriend.
should i worry or should i not? is he losing feelings for me? (link)
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don't worry. tell him how your feeling and hear what he's feeling. Maybe you're just not on the same page, talk and you will. Hope I helped!
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well, first of all, im REALLY uncomfortable putting this up, but i need to know.
for some time now, my 'area' has had throbbing 'desires' i should say. it feels gross and wrong. is this just being a teenager with hormones or something else? (link)
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hey lauren! We talked about this last night.LOL
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ok this might be a little strange, but when i think of something, it's always a color... i have colors for names, the time, days of the week, letters, up/down, brands, seasons, states, and even north/south/east/west. a lot more things too.. i don't obsess over them, but i think about them often. im just wondering what it all means? is this abnormal? (link)
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It's not abnormal, you just happen to see things in a different way. Which, in a way, is fun! You know the words, but you make it funnier for yourself and for you its easier for you to remember things this way. It's actually pretty neat!
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URGENT! I am going to the beach Tuesday with 3 of my bffLs for my bday! I just broke up with my boyfriend so I want to meet some hot guys to get my mind off my ex! When we see them, how do we act to get there attention, or how do we just start talking to some guys? Hurry tho! Im leavin soon! (link)
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Okay. Bring a ball and try playing catch. WHen you throw, by mistake throw it towards the group of boys and casually walk over to them and try to start a conversation. Good Luck!!
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WEll i got this friend that i been getting into fights with alot but we seemed to get over them really quick but then one day i really got mad and chewed her out and this has been about three weeks ago and i really miss talking to her so i went and bought her flowers today and dropped them off at her house and then i get on the internet later and she sends me a message and says sorry you wasted your money but nothing is going to change and now i dont no what to do and the thing is all my other friends are really good friends with her and if i lose her they will forgwt about so what should i do?? (link)
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I'm really sorry! I went through the same thing. Sit down and talk to her one on one in person. Explain your side of the story then have her explain hers. Try and work out from there. Hope I helped!;)
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I really need help. Ok there's this guy I like and i'm not sure if he likes me. Well, I think he likes me because his friend told my brother that he likes me. And all the signs are there too. But there's something telling me I shouldn't like him. I don't know why though. I mean we're friends, his brother is friends with my brother, he's really nice, cute, funny, and a great athelete. But I have a feeling that something bad will happen if he finds out that I like him and we start going out. What should I do?
P.S. I'm 13 (link)
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Well, I'm 14 and haven't started dating yet, so wait a little while and test the boundries. Find out his background and if everything looks and sounds ok ask him out on a date just as friends and take it from there. Don't sweat it. Hope I helped! ;)
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My sister is 13. This entire summer she hasnt gone to any of here friends house or even have them come over our house. But before the summer she had friends over every single weekend. she hasnt gone anywhere with the family either.
She spends every second of her day on the computer Seriously. Myspace to be exact. She has ten different myspaces && they are all of famous people from the disney channel. && she talks to people on there like she knows them in person. She has over 700 friends on each one. && she talks to every single one of them. I made me a fake myspace && made it so i was a famous person from disney && she even talks to me. but she doesnt know its me. And im not telling her.
My sister stays up till 430 - 530 in the morning. && then she goes to bed && sleeps till noon then gets straight on the computer. Yesterday morning my dad came downstairs and saw her on the computer. && told her to get to bed now. She got aggravated && yelled at him saying quit treating me like a damn child. She came in my room because i had to work & she goes why do you guys not let me stay on the computer & why do i have to get the computer right now? Its the summer and i should be able to spend all day on the computer.
Today our aol is not working && she is flipping out & yelling at everyone telling us that we better fix the computer before we go to bed. I have my own computer && my own cable box so i can use the computer. She is telling me that if she cant use the family computer i can't use my computer & that i better let her use mine if the family somputer doesnt start working.
My question is How do i get her off the computer && how is telling her to go to bed at 430 in the morning treating her like a child?
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Do not tell me to block myspace & make a password on the computer. we already have blocked & put parental control on the computer. We have a password on the computer.
Dont tell me to warn her that school is starting in two weeks && she is going to have trouble waking up when school starts. She doesnt care.
&& she has plenty of friends But alot of them dont have internet access so she doesnt go over their houses.
Any help would be wonerful
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wow. ummm...i would suggest telling her she needs to do other things than that or otherwise she won't be able to enjoy life like she should and that she doesn't know who she's talking to online and she may get in trouble, Hope I helped.
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I want to save myself for my wedding night. Is this generaly considered weird? At school people think its really strange and generally make fun of me for it if it comes up in conversation at all. I mean, its not something I go aorund shouting, but if someone asks what I think about sex before marriage because I'm a Christian, I will tell the truth. My friends were amazed that I went out with a guy I was completely in love with for 9 months and didnt have sex with him.
Is it that strange? And is it possible to save yourself for marriage? I've heard that it gets harder to wait as you get older, and it wasn't easy in my last relationship. (link)
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It probably will get harder as you get older, but don't worry about what other people say about you. It's not abnormal to save yourself until after married. A lot of people have the same problem. Don't sweat it!
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The problem is that my pubic hair grows very fast and it hurts to shave it. How else can I get rid of it? (link)
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first of all, this is CaptainL on geegollyHolly's sn. :] Yeah, I have the same problem. You might want to try trimming with scissors before shaving - to relieve the pain a bit. Don't shave UP - shave down from the TOP. Hope I helped!
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Sorry for the length and for it not being very well written...
I've been doing theater since 1st grade at school (and have gotten 8/10 leads). I'm changing to a different school where I hear the theater program is really serious and intense. The only problem is that my chest voice isn't too good.
My friends say that I am AMAZING at singing. That's with my "throat" voice. With my chest voice I have to sing really low, and I barely have any range at all. I want to get a good part, but how can I develop my chest voice to perform theater songs in a more intense and serious environment? Can I use my "throat" voice because it's much better and loud, but I'm not sure if it's loud enough.
PLEASE help!!
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I have the same problem where I can't sing to low. SO I suggest maybe going for singing lessons. Or ask a music or choir teacher to help you practice after school. You'll be sure to get a part.
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I have a lot of hair that grows on my neck, and it's really embarassing. I usually wax it, but it takes a long time and is pretty painful. I know I shouldn't shave it, so that's not an option. Is there any quick and possibly painless way to remove it where it wont grow back very fast?
Thank in advance (link)
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Just try hair removal cream. But not anything like Nair. Trust me!
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dear geegollyholly,
i have no life. what do you suggest? i have no boyfriend. what do you suggest? i have a friend named david and i LOOOOOOOOVE him forever and EVER!!!! but im fat. what do you suggest? :]
THANKYOU! (link)
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Never put yourself down. You'll make yourself feel bad and it will make you more insecure around him. I don't have a boyfrend either, so don't sweat it!;)
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okies hey
i've met this guy in the year below me
well we hit it off right away and i really like him and it clear he likes me too , which im really thrilled about :) but the trouble is he is only 13 right now, he does look older though and is mature for his ages. he is just 1 year 3 months younger.
is this too young for me?
please help. xxx (link)
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No! that's not too young at all! my parents are 3 years apart and i know others that are 7 years apart. don't sweat it!
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My long-term boyfriend & I have recently started having sex. He wasn't a virgin but I was (I'm 18, he's 19). The sex is getting better each time too. The thing is, sometimes he'll make a face or we'll like bump heads by accident & I'll think it's hilarious. He doesn't think so, and stays so serious. I would like to lighten the mood a bit and get him to loosen up even though sex is serious, but how do I go about doing that? (link)
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Just talk to him about it and see what he thinks about it. Maybe he's insecure about himslef and you laughing isn't helping.
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Okay so yesturday was the last day of my period i get it for 4 days and then on the 5th day its kinda just finishing itself off, and i ended up takin a shower with my boyfriend today and we kinda had sex, he went in me, but only for a quick amount of time, and didnt have a condom =X i know, bad desicion, but i heard that right after your period if the best time to do it without a condom (even no time really is a good time) but i was just wondering if this was true and why?
thanks in advance (link)
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If its the day that your period ended, then it probably wasn't a good idea. You could have had left over eggs floating around in there! :X
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hey my name is rachel and i have been having cyber sex online and i think iam addicted to it i've tried to stop but i can't I want to stop before my parents find out please help me. (link)
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Do something to turn the guy off. And obviously quickly! ;)
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okay I'm 14 and I have alot of stretch marks on my thighs and they are starting to get lighter as I age and everything but I'm still really worried that maybe if a guy sees them he will find it a huge turn off and then I dont know what. :[ I'm not really fat or skinny but I've had these marks since I was 12 and I'm really worried that a guy will think less of me physicaly because of them....would a guy be? My mom had alot of stretch marks when my dad met her and he had no problem but I'm still worried. Please help! (link)
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Hey I'm neither fat or skinny too. I talked to my mom about it earlier actually. It's completely normal for ANY girl of ANY size. Almost every girl has stretch marks from growing no matter what they do! Don't worry about it - they will eventually turn white as you get older. I've had mine since I was 12 too so don't even worry about it. :]
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i m from india.my friend nowadays is really worried. she says that she never had sex with her boyfriend but they only touched one another everywhere.
now the problem is she is not got her periods for past two weeks from the scheduled date.she says that her periods are very regular.
then what can be the reason for her delayed periods.she says that while touching his lower part if she had sperms on her hand and if by mistake she touched her lower part can this lead her to becoming pregnant. (link)
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It is possible so she may wanna take a pregnancy test. Or see a doctor. ;)
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okay well, im 14 years old and my bf does foreplay, where he sucks my breasts. and i was reading a magazine somewhere and it said that one time a girl did the same thing, and she started producing milk because her body thought something needed it, because her boyfriend was sucking it. im so scared im going to start producing milk, please help! (link)
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Well, how old was the women in the magazine? Plus, the same thing has happened to me and the doctor said it was normal. So don'
t sweat it! Hope that helped! ;)
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