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Forgiveness
WEll i got this friend that i been getting into fights with alot but we seemed to get over them really quick but then one day i really got mad and chewed her out and this has been about three weeks ago and i really miss talking to her so i went and bought her flowers today and dropped them off at her house and then i get on the internet later and she sends me a message and says sorry you wasted your money but nothing is going to change and now i dont no what to do and the thing is all my other friends are really good friends with her and if i lose her they will forgwt about so what should i do??
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I'm really sorry! I went through the same thing. Sit down and talk to her one on one in person. Explain your side of the story then have her explain hers. Try and work out from there. Hope I helped!;)
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ok well healing always takes time right and so its been 3 weeks send her an email tell her you are sorry and that wat u said was out of anger send her lots of emails and stuff but also realise you could of really hurt her and so you may have to deal with the fact it will never be the same but talk to your other friends tell them wat your afraid of i am sure they wouldnt do that and if they do then they are not friends at all so just dont worry every thing will probably work out
tell me how it goes
~nikki~
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Hey,
Umm.. That sounds like a really tough problem you've got there, and honestly, for the first time, i haven't been in such a situation before.
But i will give you some ideas and suggestions, and if it doesn't work out, you can contact me and tell me so, and i will tell you what else to do.
First of all, you should go to her in person, and sit and talk with her.Tell her " I am really really sorry about what happened between us, and i know that you are probably so mad at me and you don't want to talk to me ever again, but i promise that this would be the last fight, and that i will try to control myself next time, and not let things go out of hand or upset you for whatever reason. I really do love you and care about you,and care that you shouldn't be upset from me, i want things to be okay between us and that we would go back to being friends as we used, because nothing is worth ruining the freindship that i most treasure, please forgive me?"
YOu can tell her that in person, or in an email or online or anywhere, but just tell her that exactly, and if it doesn't work,( i hope it does), then please contact me and i will tell you what else to do.
And by the way, don't worry about your other friends, because its not any of their business to try and stick their noses in a fight that you had with your friend, this is something between you and her alone, and its no one elses right to get mad at you or fight with you. So act cool and natural and things will be fine.
Goodluck:)
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