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is it normal to feel a little jealous or upset if your boyfriend picks up a movie (not a porn) with a very "hot" girl on the cover wearing revealing clothes and says how "oohhh shes hot" and puts it in the wagon to buy?
i dont think he got it because he saw i was kind of upset. but was my reaction normal? and does this mean my boyfriend is a creep or he doesnt like me or anythign? whats your opinions? i definately think he reeeaally lpves me..but its just this one area of "hot" revealing girls that makes me mad. it makes me feel inadequate or something if that makes sense

My girlfriend used to not like it when I got movies with hot girls on the cover. But we talked and now its fine.

Think about it in reverse. Would you want your boyfriend to be okay with you getting movies with "hot" guys on the cover?

Your boyfriend isn't a creep, he's a normal guy. Just because he gets movies with hot girls on the cover doesn't mean he doesn't like you or anything he's just being a guy.

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Theres this boy that i really like and hes in my class. Well in class we use these white boards. And the boy i like wrote loser on it and showed it to me im like thats so mean. I had wrote my name and he wrote his name and wrote hates so it was ____ hates ____. I thought it was really mean He said he was just kidding and he would never say that to me and mean it. We are really good friends and we talk all the time and he ate lunch with me today and he would mess around with me jokingly. We were walking up the steps and i stopped while walking and he almost fell but he thought it was funny.He doesnt know i like him. Do you think him saying this stuff would mean anything. Other then its mean to say.

Yeah he might like you. If he does then he has an immature way of showing it so i'm guessing you are in middle school?

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I'm 16/f and I was talking to one of my guys friends today and about guys that like me but wouldn't date me. He said that I sometimes intimidate guys because I'm cocky and I make fun of people. I don't randomly make fun of people but just my friends like crack jokes about them and stuff. They do it right back to me and don't care so it isn't like mean or anything, just fun/funny. And yeah, I can be a little on the cocky side sometimes but most of it is just confidence; only like .000007% of me comes of as well...conceded.


So my question is guys, do girls like that intimidate you? Because personally, I think if you are intimidate by a girl like that then you're a pussy and I wouldn't want to date you anyways. Or is it just insecure high school boys?

I don't like cocky girls AT ALL.
Cocky girls think that they are to good for people so I definitely wouldn't want anyone like that.

I'm pretty sure you don't come off ".000007%" conceded because why would your guy friend say that you were. I'm sure its way more than that.

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I think I may like my exboyfriend again. But the thing is, we never really talk anymore. I think he likes someone else but I'm not sure. I know that if I ask him out, he'll say yes because I almost asked him to a dance a few weeks ago and he found out and asked me instead. Theres something stopping me from asking him out though and I just don't know what to do. What would you do in my case?

There was a reason why you'll broke up.
Do you want that reason to happen again?

I believe in leaving the past in the past.

But if the reason why you all broke up wasn't that big of a deal then I think you all might be able to work it out.

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Hey, I'm talking to my boyfriend online right now and he asked me if I have asked any one for advice on things in our relationship. I said yeah and i told him a couple of things that I have asked advice for. I asked him the same question and he said yes and that he did "10 minutes ago" about how to be closer. He told me he asked one of the girls I talk to the most thats on my basketball team. He said that he wants to keep it between him and her about what she said. I dont like it when people keep secrets from me, especially if its my own boyfriend/best friend. Has this ever happened to you? How have you handled it before?
Thanks!

Don't make a big deal out of it. Most guys don't like that.

It's not like he is cheating on you or anything. He asked one of the people you are closest to how to better you all's relationship. A lot of guys wouldn't bother to do that. So be grateful that you have a good boyfriend and relax.

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i'm going back out with my boyfriend after he cheated on me. but i know he won't do it again! a lot of people tell me that i'm stupid.... "once a cheater always a cheater!" but i love him so much and know he won't do it again! WHAT DO I DO?!

I think that you are making a mistake.
You are letting him think that he can do it again and still have you as a girlfriend. Take it from a guy. He might try to take advantage of you.

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ok, so i think that i may like this guy who is about 2 years younger than me. i think he's a good guy and he's nice to me. i'm not sure if he likes me too. what are some signs that i should look for to see if he likes me, without asking him if he does?

He will treat you better than the rest of the girls.

I know it's only one thing. But there are a lot of things to fall under it. So if he does then he probably likes you.

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is it true that when girls play hard to get that guys like that girl more ??

Depends on the guy.
I don't like that. Playing hard to get sends mixed signals. I would much rather her to send me signals of her liking me instead of the opposite.

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OK i think this guy that I have been bffs with forever likes me. I wicked like him too. Only problem is, i could be wrong cus like, im fat. Hes cute too. I guess my question is .. does weight matter to everyone. And im a really big tomboy, i dont wear cute preppy clothes like all of my friends because i dont like things w/ a tight fit, im like a DD. Just please help !

Not all of us guys want girls for their looks. They guy that like you happens to be one of the guys that don't.

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I am a dancer and i have developed so much muscle. My arms and shoulders are very muscular and every time people see me without a shirt on they go "are you a swimmer?" My thighs are also pretty muscular. Do guys mind this?

I don't really care. As longs as you don't have more muscle than me. Then that would be kind of wierd.

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Hey, all you teen boys out there, I was wondering if any of you like horses or are involved with them. I'm just curious, it seems like it's too much of a girl thing for some reason. So I want to know if anyone knows any horse guys or if you are one yourself.

lol and I'm not looking for answers saying "horses are cool", because I want to see if anyone likes them more than "cool" and have actually done things with them.

I don't really like them that much.

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I really would like to make more guy friends. Guys talk to me and stuff, but how do I develop a friendship with them? I'll give all 5's. Thanks

The same way you would make friends with a girl just don't talk about girly stuff like what shoes you think are cuter, your period, etc.

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Iam 16 years old and I want to have sex so I could get pregnant becouse I feel like nobody loves me and if I have a baby iam sure my baby will love me is this normal?

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I like this guy... and he confuses the hell outta me. yeah. Last week we chilled monday night tuesday night and wednesday night. All three of those nights it was me and him fliritng back and forth and i was always sitting with him and when he said goodbye he would be like can i callyou tomororow and give me a kiss on my cheeks and my lips. Then he wouldnt call the next day he would make my other guy freinds call. Then other days if we hang out he'd act all differnt. Another problem is my friend joe likes me alot well idk if he got over my yet but im pretty sure he still likes me. The kidi like told me last wekek how much my friend joe likes me and asked me why i wouldnt consider joe and if i would ever see me and him together. HE also told how joe talks about me 24/7 and why he thinks that. He responded sayin " well i understand why. Your goodlooking, you have a good personality, your nice, you're everything." When he told me that i wanted to flip I just like.. LIKE LIKE him ALOT. I dont think he realizes how much. I think hes with some girl but honestly i dont think he likes her from the way he was acting with me. I really cant read him hes so confusing. what do you think? how can i tell if this kid likes me like i like him and wants to get more involved or is just scared of me? or doesnt want to because joe likes me? what do you think? please give me your opinion
thanx xoxoxoo

I don't think he is scared of you.
He sounds like he knows what he is doing.
He is leading you on while he is with another girl on the side.
I think its best to get over him and give Joe a chance (if you like him) atleast you know that he likes you.

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alright heres the deal.. i like my best friend.. and he still likes me even though he has a girlfriend.. he cheated on her 3 time and he always says "i love you and if we were going out i woudln't cheat on you" and stuff and i don't know if i shoudl still like him or if i shoudl move on.. he's also always rubbing it in that he's going out with this chick to make me jealous.. and i don't get jealous..

additionally, when i like someone other than him.. he gets completly jealous and starts flipping on me and telling me that i'm an idiot because the guy is gay.. when first off he doesn't even know him.. i told him plently of times that if he woudln't be with his girlfriend i woudl be with him.. but he continues to go out with her.. and i feel really bad

should i get over him or whatnot? i will rate a 5 for any thought

Get over him. He's using you.

He wants to be friends with benefits.

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my little brother always wants me to play with him and it is so stupid........yes,my mom makes me and i dont no what i can do i'll rate good for good advice

Say no. When my youngest sister was little she wanted to play with me all the time and ofcourse I couldn't so I just said no.

Let your mom know that you don't always want to play with him and that you have other things to do.

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hey! i am 13 years old/female and i am 65 pounds and 4 feet 6 inches tall. i am really short. i am very small for my age, and i have trouble finding jeans that will fit me. can anyone tell me some stores where jeans might fit a body type like mine? thanks in advance!

I asked my girlfriend. She said 5-7-9 and JCPennys.

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Well I randomly heard of a party that is going to go on saturday from my friends. The person having the party is my friend [ or so i thought ]. I just met him this year but hes my friends girlfriend. He told all the other people I hang around with except me. I am wondering if he doesnt want me to go. I asked him if he is having a party for his birthday and he said yes. I said when and where. He replied saturday at my house. But he didnt mention anything like are you going to go or whatever. What should i do?

He might not want you to come. OR he may just have thought that you would get the word from your friends or caught the hint since he told you when and where it was going to be.

The easier way is to just ask him.

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hey well i was wondering what all u alls views were on teens (well 14 yr olds) making out? is it to young, or not? and what about not going all the way like sex but..just a little ways? i just need to know what other peoples views are on this! please please please i'll rate high!! xo thanks

Its their prerogative.
I don't see anything wrong with it.

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