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boyfriend and his "hot girl" movies
is it normal to feel a little jealous or upset if your boyfriend picks up a movie (not a porn) with a very "hot" girl on the cover wearing revealing clothes and says how "oohhh shes hot" and puts it in the wagon to buy?
i dont think he got it because he saw i was kind of upset. but was my reaction normal? and does this mean my boyfriend is a creep or he doesnt like me or anythign? whats your opinions? i definately think he reeeaally lpves me..but its just this one area of "hot" revealing girls that makes me mad. it makes me feel inadequate or something if that makes sense
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If you have a very trusting relationship, then he probably feels like he can talk about the physical attributes of other people -- within limits -- without you getting too upset or jealous by it. Remember that it's the person that makes a relationship, and all of the qualities of that person, rather than just looks. He can think a girl is hot and not actually like her, same as I can say Johnny Depp is hot and not actually like him. ;). If it really bothers you talk to him about it, just to get reassurance that he is in this relationship with /you/ and likes /you/.
Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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Men are visual creatures... They might like to look at these beautiful women... but your boyfriend isn't dating them! He's dating you! That means that he's into what you have to offer, but he's just following his primal instincts in looking at the women on the cover. It's the same reason why guys will turn their heads to watch an attractive woman walk by, even if they're with their girlfriend. He's not a creep, and he definitely loves you for who you are.
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ansley says - it is perfectly normal to feel that way, its a girls job to be jealous of other girls that your guy looks at or talks to, if you know he really loves you then there is no problem and its perfectly fine to feel that jealousy and if he respects you he might not act that way around you
hope we helped!! && good luck
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My girlfriend used to not like it when I got movies with hot girls on the cover. But we talked and now its fine.
Think about it in reverse. Would you want your boyfriend to be okay with you getting movies with "hot" guys on the cover?
Your boyfriend isn't a creep, he's a normal guy. Just because he gets movies with hot girls on the cover doesn't mean he doesn't like you or anything he's just being a guy.
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well its basically the job of women in hollywoon to be hot and attrack men. he is always going to find actresses attractive, and even some random girls he knows, its just the way it is. whats important is that get doesnt act on it. now of course he shouldnt be saying stuff like that to you, thats jsut common sense, but you should know that even if he isnt saying it he is thinking it. plus, what movie was it? him saying that might have jsut been him covering up wanting to see a chick flick if it was.
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