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my perdicament between bf and friends
Heres the thing. My friends dont like my bf at all. Its to the point where i cant have them hanging out together. All my friends do in school is talk about us in a bad way. about how we spend a lot of time together and how they dont like him. it feels like they arent happy for me and they want me all to themselves. its a frustrating situation. i can only see him on weekends and he doesnt go to my school. so heres the problem: i have been neglecting my friends. butt i dont want to give up any time on the weekends because i can only see him then! and maybe a day or 2 during the week IF im lucky. : /
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well, you have got to remember that (depending on your age) your relationship will not last. this may not be what you want to hear, but i think you have to choose between your friends or your boy friend. this is my opinion: take it or leave it-dump your boy friend, unless for some reason you despereatly feel that *hes the one* then fine...pick him. but in the end, would you rather have a boy friend that can immediatly turn his back on you and dump you, or your friends? well i hope this helps and you make the right decision!
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i'm just went through the same thing. you have toplan time to hang out with your friends separatly then your bf. have girls night every other weekend and hang out with your bf more on the weeknihgts if you know your going to want to hang out with your frineds on the weekend. i know you want to spend all of the time possible with your bf but you really need to let your friends know theat your always going to be there and they come first because your bf might not always be aroung but they will, and i know you want to keep them both in your life as long as possible, dont plan things where they will have to be together unless its like your birthday or something. it may be hard at first but youll get used to it and it will get easier. hope i can help.
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