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boys, i'll tell you!
alright heres the deal.. i like my best friend.. and he still likes me even though he has a girlfriend.. he cheated on her 3 time and he always says "i love you and if we were going out i woudln't cheat on you" and stuff and i don't know if i shoudl still like him or if i shoudl move on.. he's also always rubbing it in that he's going out with this chick to make me jealous.. and i don't get jealous..
additionally, when i like someone other than him.. he gets completly jealous and starts flipping on me and telling me that i'm an idiot because the guy is gay.. when first off he doesn't even know him.. i told him plently of times that if he woudln't be with his girlfriend i woudl be with him.. but he continues to go out with her.. and i feel really bad
should i get over him or whatnot? i will rate a 5 for any thought
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i would get over him and move on to the other guy. first though, i would tell your friend he is cheating on her.
hope i helped!
kathryn
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Well, this is tough. Anyways, it isn't fair what he is doing. Sure, you can still be friends, but I would leave him alone when it comes to being more than friends. Although you like him, from the way you describe him, he doesn't seem like the type to be totally faithful.
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k i think you should go with him because hes your best friend and you trust him right? so yea but then again the whole cheating on goes back to how much you trust him all i can say is follow your heart
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alright....so here we go girl.
this is what i think, you like this guy, but he obviously is with this other chick...and if he really likes you then he wouldnt be with her. he would be with you, i had this almost identical problem a few weeks back so i can totally relate to you!! i know its probably not what you would want to hear, but i think you should try to move on, and if you find any other guy who you are attracted to and is sweet to you then go for it!! dont let him...who is already in another relationship stop you! it seems to me that this guy is kinda using you for a little fun. i wish you the best of luck with this and i hope you take my advice, cuz the last thing this world needs is another broken heart girl, because of some useless guy!
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Honestly? He doesn't seem like a great guy and I really think you need to try to work out why you like him in the first place. He clearly has very little respect for his girlfriend and, by the sounds of it, women in general.
The fact that he gets jealous when you take an interest in someone other than him suggests quite strongly a possessive and egomaniacal nature. It sounds as though he loves the attention he gets from women and that once they take an interest, they are 'his property', which explains why he gets so jealous when you stray in another direction.
Unfortunately, while I have no doubt at all that you are a wonderful person, men like this will say anything a woman wants to hear if they think it will increase their chances with them and this is more than likely the source of the confessions of love. I don't want to make this sound like I'm putting you down. However, I can honestly say from first experience that men like this will take all they can get and care nothing of the line of broken hearts left behind them.
Obviously, what you choose to do is entirely up to you. If you really like him then by all means see if you can go for it at some point but I beg you to please not expect anything short of the treatment his current girlfriend is receiving.
My feeling is that you would be a lot happier with a guy who will respect you, care for you and look out for you when needed. Most of all, you need a guy you can trust and I have to admit, I am a firm believer in the phrase "Once a cheater, always a cheater," and you'll be better off if you get out while the going is good and find a man who deserves you and can appreciate the great person you are, without treating you like dirt.
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Get over him. He's using you.
He wants to be friends with benefits.
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hey last year the same thing happened to me. My brothers friend mike and i talked all the time and he would tell me that if him and his gf were to break up it would be him and me. After a few months of us talkin i got really attached to him and it got me really mad because if he really liked me i thought he would break up with her or do something about it but i guess he didnt. If you feel that this guy really likes you and that he would leave his gf for you or end up doing something about it then you should still give him a chance but if you feel he will just keep playing you making you wait till hes sick of his girlfriend then i think you should just get over him because in the end you will end up getting hurt. hope things work out... ttyl bye xoxo
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Hey hun,
He doesn't sound like the ideal guy for a relationship. He doesn't even sound like he is mature enough for a girlfriend. I think that you should just forget about dating him, and just go with another guy. He doesn't sound like he would make a good boyfriend, and he sounds like he is all talk.
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I don't think he's make a very good boyfriend.
Stay friends. The "I wouldn't cheat on you" line is just that. Besides if he cared so much he would be dating you in the first place. Hes stringing you along as an emergency back up...forget the idea and find someone who will treat you nice.
As for him getting jealous of your boyfriends...just let him. If he wanted you hes had plenty of opportunity to break up with his current and ask you out. Forget having him as a boyfriend...at least until he is older and maybe more mature. :)
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