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okay.. I love the song "somewhere in between" by Lifehouse, and I want to put that video in my myspace but there is no video for it... so I was wondering if there was any way I could at least get the song for it so it will play on my myspace. Like are there any websites for that?

thanks.
ill rate.

Alright try typing in:


www.myspace.com/lifehouse

and then go see if at the top theres a music playing thing and see if that song is one of the options. If it is, next to it's name there should be a button that says "ADD TO PROFILE" or something like that, click it, and it will instantly be added to your myspace. That's the only way I know how. But you can also do this with any other band. Mostly every band has a myspace site. I hope I helepd!





Love,
MELii

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Okay, so. I have a huge problem that I need serious help with. Okay. So me and my boyfriend are crazy about eachother. Like, for the first time in my life I could honestly say that I am IN love with him. And I know that may sound like shit because I'm not older or anything but I don't think age means a thing. (I'm 14. He's about to turn 16.) So anyways. His mom totally like, hates me or something. But that's beside the point. So he got grounded for getting a horrible grade in Trigonometry. But it wasn't exactly his fault because I mean c'mon it's Trigonometry and he's only 15 and he had come in half-way during the semester and had to make up all that stuff he missed. So anyways, he got a 37 in that class. And he got grounded. At first it was only until progress reports so I didn't think it was all that bad. But I just found out last night that he's grounded until January 12th. Meaning he can talk to me on the phone all he wants, but he can't see me. At all. So. I'm gonna go absolutely insane until then. But by January 12th he'll have his car and he'll be able to see me a lot. So is it worth it to wait? Keep in mind, I truely am head over heels in love with him.




Pleasseee give me some advice. Please. I'm desperate

Of course it's worth the wait. I mean you always be able to talk to him on the phone so it's not like you won't ever be able to get in touch with him or anything and I mean once Janurary 12th ends, you two will be able to see eachother all you want =] so yeah, it's totally worth the wait. You can totally make up for all the time you missed. And do you guys go to the same school? Cause hten you can just see eachother in there. But I'm guessing not by the situation. I hope I helped!




Love,
MELii

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hi i like this boy. i want to be freinds with him and talk to him with out him knowing that i lke him.i kno were his locker is (right acrass from mine if i could do somthing with that)help

Well whenever you talk to him, don't try and flirt or anything because then that'll show signs of liking him or as a friend. Just treat him how you would any other guy friend that you have. I hope I helped!



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MELii

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does any one know this song called like you by bow wow and ciara. well me and one of boyfriends friend made out to this song and when ever it comes on now we both look at each other and start laughing and we would say we have to talk about something and walk away for a minute and start talking about the night we did make out or we would just sing the song and look at each other. would it be bad if we did do this and not have my boyfriend know nothing or should he know i mean he just got kicked out of his house and he is now living with the guy i made out with his mother and he said that if ever finds out that we would ever do something like this, that he would kill his friend and me. so what would you do if you were in my shoes?

hope theres enough info
kriddle06

Well I would just tell him the truth and neither date your boyfriend or his friend. You shouldn't do that to people I'm sorry. I know you might still like your boyfriend and want to stay with him, but that's not fair to him and also you don't like him that much if you made out with his friend. And don't date the friend or there'll just be awkwardness and ruined relationships. =/ I hope I helped!




Love,
MELii

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ok the reason i am asking is b/c my fiance left me almost 1 month ago and he listens to rexetter-he was here the one night and was looking for the song on the internet-i dont know why(i think he wanted me to see what he was looking for) b/c he has it on cd. so i am trying to figure out what he is trying to say to me--except i didnt understand the song--so i am trying to flip your answer in the oppisite shoes-but see i gave him all the love and attention in the world--maybe it was too much for him? maybe he doesnt understand himself? wjat do you think?

are you talking about the roxette song? I'm not sure what your talking about ( i get alot of questions, so I really don't remember them all ) so please just IM me at MELii x MARiiE or email me at MELiixMARiiE@yahoo.com and explain the problem again please. Sorry I don't remember.




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MELii

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hey, there is a guy andi really like him we went out twice already and it felt like we were meant tobe.. he broke up with me both times and hes now in highskool and im in middleschool ..he sin 9th im in 8th.. i still really have feelings for him but he doesnt talk to me anymore like we used to talk.. i no its because we're not going out anymore but sometimes i wonder if he gets annoyed of me or thinks im like obsessed with him and i dont want him to think that even tho i really like him.. i dont know what i should do or if i cant even do anything.. maybe i should wait till next year.. i dont know but please help

I don't think he's getting annoyed with you.. i think he just might not know how to talk to you anymore because it might be awkward for him =/ he might think you still like him which might also be awkward.. especially if he doesn't like you anymore =/ i might just wait until next year when you can actually be in the same school with him and might see him more often. Unless you see him alot now.. then I might want to try now. I hope I helped!




Love,
MELii

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There is a song ny Roxette called "you dont understand me" and i am having trouble understanding what the song is about can anyone help me????

It's about a relationship between a girl and a boy and I guess he's not exactly being there for her and caring about her as much as he does her. And she's talking about how he doesn't understand how much she loves him and wants to be with him and must not understand her at all. And she says " I guess loneliness found a new friend, here I am " she must be feeling alone. Basically a girl is getting ignored and unloved by her boyfriend. I hope I helped!





Love,
MELii

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ok the love of my life (but he doesn't like me more than a friend) told me last nite that his dad was beating the sh*t out of him by a text message. so i then talked to a mutual friend and she said he said the same thing to her but that he pushed him down a flight of stairs and it really hurt him!! we dont kno weather or not to believe him. like he tells everyone this but none of his guy friends believe him really, just the 3 of his closest "girl friends" (me, and 2 mutual friends). they have different stories (ex: "we were on the phone and he started screaming and crying because he was in the shower hiding from his dad when he heard him coming and had to hang up"). we dont know whether to believe him or not..

once, one of his guy friends told us that he saw his dad smack him REALLY hard once..i dont know where.

please help..what should i do? its serious..also, no one knows what happened to his mom

Well what I would do is the next time you see him, check him for bruises or cuts or anything. =/ It is kinda weird that he went around telling people, because people who are being abused usually tend to be quiet about that and are afraid to tell even just one person. =/ but I don't see why he would make something like that up...I mean if he finds thats humorous, that's kinda stupid. That's not humurous at all. And if he is getting abused, tell someone right away and have them call the police ( or call them yourself ) and report it. I hope I helped!





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MELii

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ok so i was really good friends with this guy...lets say his name is..."Dave" ok so me and dave were wicked close and then he asked me out and i said yes,it was ok for a while and then i didnt think it was rite so i said lets go back to being good friends. then he stopped talking to me. i keep asking him to talk to me and lets start being friends again but he says its hard and hes trying to be nice and stuff but is it him or what should i do so things can just...go back to normal? someone please help me thanks

Well it's kinda tough to go exaclty back to the way things were. Because he likes you more than a friend, and then you just want to go back to being friends. He probably just feels a little upset right now. Just let him get over it for a bit until he's ready to talk to you again. I mean, at least he's trying. Some people just completly ignore the other. So just.. give him some time. I hope I helped!




Love,
MELii

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Okay, my best friend kelli was dating this guy mark for a good 4-5 months. Mark broke up with her about early October. Well, even though i was mad he dumped her, me and him still stayed close friends. and so did him and kelli. now kelly is dating this guy named adam. anyways, all of a sudden, mark started being really flirty with me lately.. and people told me he likes me. and the thing is, i like him too. but the other thing is, kelli is not over mark at all! she has a lot of feelings for him still but i dont think thats fair to adam at all. but today when i told her i kind of liked mark, she freaked out on me. and now i feel really bad and im not sure what to do.

Well you can't help who you like. She should decide if she wants to be with Adam or not because that's totally not fair to him. And if she does decide to be with Adam, you should be allowed to date Mark. Just not right away. You know, give her some time to get over him. I don't care if my friends would date my ex... just as long as I'm over him and have moved on. So just talk to her about it. I hope I helped!




Love,
MELii

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Ok, I like guy, guy likes me. I found out he liked me today from a friend of us both. He told her this exactly (at least from what I know) "I like (my name), but I am going to wait a while so I can make sure she is right." Omg, I like him so much, haha, anyways I was wondering when this would be...?

Well I really can't tell you WHEN he's going to ask you out.. just like he said, he's going to ask whenever he feels your right. Alls I can say is just be nice and sweet and everything until he feels you are right. Well I mean always be sweet and nice and everything, haha.. you know what I mean =] I hope I helped!




Love,
MELii

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ok i wanna have sex with my boyfriend.
but some part of me is scared....
why is that??
i'll rate.
and dont give me some "your to young to have sex" bullshit.
or any of that.

Well it's perfectly normal to be scared. Your probably just nervous because sex is a huge step to take. But if you are nervous, then there might be a part of you that's not ready, and if you're not completley ready, then you shouldn't do it. You should only do it if your completley ready to. And I'm not gonna say anything about "your too young to have sex" stuff. I think whenever your ready ; your ready. Anyways, just think it through clearly and for awhile first. I hope I helped!




Love,
MELii

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there is this boy that i have liked for ever and he always tells me how he likes me too, as a friend. well he is preppy and im preppy but turning skater and im scared he wont notice me at all if i change. what should i do because i really want him and his attention?

well if you two really like eachother it shouldn't matter if your skater and he's preppy. What should matter is that you two like eachother alot and have alot in common.




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MELii

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Hi,

My name is Todd, I'm an only child, and I am 15 and in High School. I have a really good friendship with this girl who has some problems. We're not really dating, but she's a really nice person and she's very kind, however she's depressed quite a lot.

I found out that she cuts herself since I saw cuts on her arms, and when some people asked she said it was nothing. I knew something wasn't right since she's never usually been cut like that. I didn't want to tell her that I think she's cutting herself, since I don't want to make her feel worse, but I just wish I could do something to make her feel better.

I always listen to what she has to say (although it's not much [as she says]), and I always try to do great things for her like get her gifts and make her feel better.

I know, from what she told me, her family has issues since she isn't really given much attention. It's not that her parents are mean, it's just that they don't really care about her. She also has two older sisters (who have children also) and one younger sister, so things get hectic over there, from what I know. Her two older sisters occasionally come up once a week or so, and she is left to babysit her nephews and niece.

I always try to let her know that I care about her 24/7. I'm going to invite her over to my house this weekend since she's been to my place before and my parents are happy to see her. Plus, it's a lot quieter. :-)

I know I can't "give" her my family, but I want to do as much as I possibly can to make her feel better and less depressed.

I'm concerned because I don't want her to commit suicide, since that would kill me. ;-(

If you have any advice or solutions you can give me, PLEASE TELL ME.

One of my ideas was that if her family doesn't do anything for Thanksgiving, I was thinking of having her over for Thanksgiving, since my parents won't really be doing anything since my immediate family moved away.

Thank you very much! :-)

Whenever she comes over to your house this weekend I would just talk to her about it. Just tell her you care about her deeply and you don't want her to kill herself, let alone hurt herself. Explain to her that nobody should kill themselves that she's needed on Earth and there's people out there who love her, like yourself. Alls she would be doing by killing herself is hurting people =/ and explain to herself that whenever she doesn't want to be at her house or near her family, that she can always come to your house and you'll always be there to talk to her and comfort her whenever she needs it. What she probably needs right now most is comfort and to be able to let all her feelings out and everything. And about the cutting, explain to her that no good comes of that either. Hurting yourself doesn't solve anything, it really only creates more problems for her. There's other solutions to releasing anger. Blast music, smack around a pillow, hit a wall, talk to a friend ( you ) .. anything other than cutting yourself. You are such a wonderful nice person for being there for her like this and I hope everything works out for her and she becomes so much happier =] god bless and i hope I helped!





Love,
MELii

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Does anyone know where I can find a *free* online guide to drawing Manga/Anime style?

heres some sites:

http://drawsketch.about.com/od/animemanga/

http://drawsketch.about.com/od/learntodrawanimefaces/

http://otakuworld.com/links/howtodraw.html



I hope I helped!





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MELii

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15/f
I have a good guy friend, and we are good friends. I like him more than just a friend now and I think he may feel the same way. But i am not certain. Should i tell him how i feel or keep it to myself. And if i should tell him..how should i break it to him..like where..when..how..all those. thanks

Well I think you should tell him because if you never do, and he never does, then you guys could really be missing out on something. The next time you and him ( just you and him ) hang out, I would tell him and just be like," hey i got something to tell you... i like you. I just felt the need to tell you and if you don't like me back like that can we just stick to friends because i don't want this to ruin the relationship we have right now." or something like that, haha. I hope I helped! =]




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MELii

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Hi,
I am 19, blonde and VERY pale. I consequentially can't find any decent colours of make-up - if I wear anything too pale, I look wishy-washy as I already have fair hair and skin. If I wear anything darker, I look gothic and I have nothing against goths but that's not what I'm going for :) Does anyone have any suggestions for some natural-looking make-up? Or some colours that may work? I have grey eyes, if that helps.
Thanks!
P.S. This has to be suitable for work, as I am a nanny and don't want to scare the children in my charge lol! On the other hand, some ideas for going-out make-up would be good too :)

well for your skin, i would just get a shade of foundation a little tiny darker or some bronzer and maybe apply some blush to your cheeks too. And for your eyes, wear really light colors. Light gray or blue would probably be the best considering your eye color. I might also suggest going to a store or something and you know how they have those make-up artists there? Try and ask them what foundation would go well with your skin and have them help you with some make-up and maybe have them put in on for you =] I hope I helped!






Love,
MELii

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every time i go walking or sometihng i ALWAYS get sweaty, and my shirt under my arms gets wet. does any one know how to prevent that from happening... thanks i rate 5's

Get some deoderant called "Certain Dri" and whenever you go around, wear some loose fitting clothing so then air cause pass through and cool your body down and also bring some water. Some people can just get really sweaty more than others. I hope I helped!




Love,
MELii

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Hi I'm 15 years old and I'm a female. For some reason I think my ex is ignoring me. I dunno if he's mad at me or what for not talking to him when he IMed me one day. I was really upset that day especially when I saw him flirting with a bunch of different girls. Why do I always feel hurt by him everytime I see him with another girl? We only went out for a week over a year ago. What can I do to make this feeling go away?

Well you just might be upset because maybe you still have feelings for him. And some girls just don't want to see their ex flirting with other people. I know I wouldn't want to see mine even though I don't like him anymore. Well I can kinda see why he might be mad at you for not IMing him back. I mean he doesn't know you were upset. He just thinks you weren't IMing him back. =/ I don't know how to really get over something like that. Just try not to think about him, and preoccupy your mind about something else. A song or something and just kinda push him out of it. I hope I helped!






Love,
MELii

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this is goin to sound so gay.. but we never hung out.. like i never hung out with him, in person.. we've just been talkin on the phone for 2 months. but other then that, yeah you helped =)

=] well i'm glad i could help =]

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