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Should i tell him?
15/f
I have a good guy friend, and we are good friends. I like him more than just a friend now and I think he may feel the same way. But i am not certain. Should i tell him how i feel or keep it to myself. And if i should tell him..how should i break it to him..like where..when..how..all those. thanks <3
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try to hint towards it but dont tell him straight on, like ask him to go to the movies or something alone, so maybe he start to feel more confident to tell you that he feels the same way, because if u straight tell him things might get awkward, but most of all follow your heart!!
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Well I think you should tell him because if you never do, and he never does, then you guys could really be missing out on something. The next time you and him ( just you and him ) hang out, I would tell him and just be like," hey i got something to tell you... i like you. I just felt the need to tell you and if you don't like me back like that can we just stick to friends because i don't want this to ruin the relationship we have right now." or something like that, haha. I hope I helped! =]
Love,
MELii
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if you like him let it be known! tell him the truth maybe he feels the same way you do. if you don't say something then some other girl might get your man. tell him when you feel the time is right and when you are at a place that you feel comfortable that might help to. i hope that it helped i also hope that you get your man girl! =*
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Hi Hunny,
I think you should really tell him. Tell him when you guys are either at his or your house and make sure it is only you two. Just say, I want to talk to you about something, and I really hope that whatever the answer is, that me and you will always stay good friends. I was wondering if you like me, because I like you, and if not it is ok. He will feel comfortable and know that if he doesn't like you, that it won't change the friendship between you guys. I hope I helped you in any way.
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If you are such good friends you should feel like its easy to talk to him. If you feel this go for it. Take him to a quite place and explain to him that you have feelings for him. You may say something like this to get the conversation started. "What would you think of you and I as a couple." Or "Do you have feelings for me?" Something like that. But you must know that when you start the conversation you must be confident and willing to bring up your feelings and expressions for him. if he likes you back you'll know as soon as you start the conversation.
*Glam
Hope everything works out.
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I am in your position everyday! But I'm better at giving advice about it than doing myself. lol.
If he likes you to, try to be there for him more than a friend. And start to be like, love ya before you get off the phone with him. He'll start thinking, Is this the friend way? Or does she like me too? Hope this helps a bit. :]
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okay..well if you are friends with someone and you want to be more then friends..you should deffinatly talk to him about it...like one day call him, and just talk about normal stuff..and then just say something like, um i have to tell you something..and then just break it to him the best you can..and just ask him qeustions and bring out that you are my very good friend and i dont want to ruin are friendship, but i just have been thinking alot about this. and eventually he will probablly start to see...if you have anymore questions thn just ask them...
thanks
love always, -Logan-
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Hey ♥
I used to be in your exact position. I had a friend for about 10 years - we were BEST friends. But, I liked him since 5th grade, and never told him because I didn't want it to be weird between us if he didn't have mutual feelings. I just moved about 2 months ago, from PA to TX & told him how I felt, and found out he liked me, too. I wish I would've told him because maybe we could've been more then friends, but I was a fool and didn't. =/ Which basically ruined everything. Now he has a girlfriend, and I can't do anything about that. You should tell him how you feel, because he might just be nervous about telling you that he likes you but he doesn't want you to not like him the way he likes you. Basically going through exactly what you are. You need to tell him face-to-face. It may be a little nerve racking, but just tell him, "How would you feel if I told you that I'm starting to like you more then just a friend?" If he reacts to this in a certain way that you didn't want him too, then just make a joke about it. Pretend you ever said it, then you'll know that he doesn't like you back. But he could say, "OHMYGOSH YOU DO? I SO LOVE YOU!" Haha. That's what I would do, but you could tell him via e-mail, AIM, text messaging, phone, etc. But you need to tell him no matter how you do. =) Good luck & I hope everything goes great for you!
♥♥ naimee
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just tell him. seriously. its so much easier, and whats the worst that could happen? he says no? wow no biggie you 2 will still be friends.
if your shy about it tell him over AIM or on the phone. and tell him as soon as possible.
and how.. hmm. start talking about boyfriends and relationships. ask him who he likes first. and tell him youll tell him who you like if he tells you who he likes.
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