I never got a chance. He never game me one. For 3 years i begged for him to want me, even for one day. His name is Drew and he is a year older than me. When i was in 7th grade, and him in 8th, I fell head over heels for the cute and innocent, yet devilish boy. I never expected much from the crush, maybe a week of staring and pining for this boy. But instead I got 3 years of heartbreak, because in my heart I knew he would never want me. He has had plenty of girlfriends over the past 3 years, none of which was me. Although I have been strong over the years, last night he told me that I need to get over him because he never liked me and he never will. How do I just move on with my life? I built my world around one boy, and that one buy tore my world apart. How do I move on? I need as much advice as I can get. Please Please Please HELP ME... Love Kelsey
well, you are so much better than any girl that he should get. guys are so insensative. just try to forget about him i know that it is hard. but its better to at least try to forget about him. I think that you just need to focus on your friends, and think about the good things about yourself, and this guys is sooo mean, you dont wanna be with him! espically after he did that to you! you are gonna find a guy that will finally treat you right! maybe try to look for a few guys or something, and/ or make friends with some guys. i know that its hard, i have been in your position before! and just try to get him off of your mind!!! its really your best bet! and try to not fall in like that again!!
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i have recently had a coldsaw but my girlfriend wants me to give her oral sex but im concerned that if it is not gone completely she may get infected. is it safe?
no you shouldnt
and for a side note- you dont have to do things to stay together! please be careful!
and if she gets mad @ you because you wont, then you need to have a serious talk with her!!
You sound like a sweet guy! you must care about her a lot!
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ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby?
go to the doctor
call 9-1-1
file a restraning order, but make him pary child support, and for any bills that you get for the baby.
im serious, thats horrible!
best of luck to you!
I hope your baby is okay!!!
Let me know how things turn out!
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I have this problem because I have hair on my upper lip just a little bit kind of and what should I do about it?? I tried bleaching it should I try waxing it but I am afraid it would hert please help me (age 13 1/2) thanks!
dont, because it grows back darker, thicker, and FAST!
its okay! someday these little jerks will grow up!
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i'm 14 and i think about sex kind of a lot because this one guy that i really really like wants to have sex w/ me but i don't really want to but then again i look at some of my friends that are 14 and they've lost their virginity already but i don't really want to have sex w/ this one guy but then i do..i'm confused and i don't know if i'm totally out of my mind for thinking about this but i don't want to have sex w/ him but then i do..is it bad to even think about it when i'm 14?
DON'T you should be 110% sure that is what you want to do. one ands, ifs, ors, or buts. it should be with someone who your respect, and who respects you. and just because your friends are doing it/ have done it, doesn't mean that you should. yah i know its hard how, and it is tempting, and you think your wierd because you arnt, but when your older and married, and ready to have sex for the first time with your amazing husband that you are commited to, and you are inlove with eachother, then you will be glad, and so will he, that you didnt.
I know its hard, its was hard for me too. But my boyfriend feels the same way, and we help eachother, and have remained abstinent (no sex or anything sexual besides kissing) and its awesome. because once you do something one time, then the relationship depends on it, and then, i wont lie, you have a great relationship for maybe a month, but its not real, because all it is, is getting stuff from eachother, its not a true commited relationship. and then after that month, the relationship depends on that, and then problems occur, and then the relationship goes down the toilet,{or out the window, which ever you wish to call it}
Anyways, I hope I helped!!!
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okay the other night my friend (who moved to the total other end of the u.s like a year ago) well her ex came to my bedroom window and opened it, climbed in, woke me up and was liek i like you alot and i was like half asleep and he all of a sudden took my clothes off and well basically raped me and then when he was done he jumped out my window and i havent seen him since..what should i do..he like raped me and took my virginity(hes 17 and im only 15)..idk what to do..now i cant save my virginity for like the right person or nehting...i need some help quikly..
no matter ur answers ill rate 5's cuz i need the help!!
1) call 9-1-1 report it.
2) Your virginity, in itself, may be gone, but God knows that it isnt truly. See, He took it, but you didnt want him to, you wanted to save yourself for the right person, and he didnt give you a choice. So God Understands. :)
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OKAY, someone made a s/n almost exactly like mine and is telling me that im gonna get my ass kicked ass school but they wont tell me who they are and is putting up stupid away messages such as: "having sex for money"
and tellling me that my boyfriend is cheating on me and stuff. and she says that i've been mean to her in school. but i have no idea who it could be because im not really a mean person.. what to do?! lol
1) block them- then you wont be worried anymore
I know it will be hard to, but its right, belive me, {been there, done that}
2) even though you like your new screen name, make a new one! one thats even better, and only tell your friends. If someone talks to you on it that you dont like, block them.
3) if you want, make 2 new ones, in addition to the one i described above. {screen names i mean} then with one, only tell your close friends, with the other let it be known, but still, it a problem or someone who is a problem, presents it/themself, block them immedietly, i know it seems hard, but its better!!
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*Kels*
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hey im just wondering, if u cut is it like wrong.. is it that big of a deal.. if its not for attention it just helps you deal with yourself then does it matter? do you need help if you do cut?
uh yah, because you can kill yourself like that, get diseases from the metals and also aids too!
its a problem, its just like drugs its addicting.
seek professional help immedieatly!
it will help you!
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*Kels*
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Hi well i love playing the piano but i hate goin to lessons. I just HATE lessons. Does any1 kno how to make myself want to go to lessons?
well, if you dont like the lessons, how will you ever play any better? So, if you dont take the lessons you wont be good at piano. make sence?
so you want to take the lessons to get better at piano.
:) and then you will like piano more because you can play better :) because of the lessons.
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*Kels*
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I'm a thirteen year old female. Recently Iv'e started eating super healthy. When I'm at home eating the food there, or eating foods with nutrition information I'm fine, but whenever I eat at someone else's house or eat out and the food served looks fattening or sugary I panic. I don't know whats in it and so on. Sometimes I make up excuses for not eating things. My friends jokingly said I was anorexic before. That didn't bother me. However, now they have started to say it seriously and my own mum said I was eating in an anorexic way. I know people suffering from anorexia have poor self image, but I think I am at a perfect weight. Please tell me if I am anorexic or not. Honestly.
anorexia, is flat out not eating. Bulimia is where you eat then throw it up. so, you arent anorexic.
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*KeLs*
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Ok I'm in 8th grade and my one of my friends said that I should ask out this 7th grade girl, she kinda hot and a little sluty and i know she likes me but I dont know if I love her, and what if she already has a boyfriend. And why am I stresing out over this girl I should just end my pain right here and now! Please help!!!
chill.... Seriously...all this middle school drama....p-ah-leeze!
:)
ask her out. if she is with someone else, sorry! but if its driving you that much insane.
And you shouldnt "love" anyone before you go out with them. Love takes time. Real love anyways.
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Kels*
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I am asian, and I think my nose is quite broad and quite flat. Compared to others, it is not that bad, but I'm just not satisfied with the look of it. I want something like the nose of Lucy Liu, it has a prominent bridge and it is narrow.
The thing is, I need to ask the permission of my mom! We are not close, and I think I'm (middle child) her least fav. child out of her 5 children.
I think I have enough money in the bank to pay for my own beauty enhancement, and I'm old enough to have rhinoplasty because I'm turning 21 in July.
Pls. give me tips and strategies so that she will say yes!
If your over 18, it Doesnt matter what she says, because your considered an adult, so you can do it on your own.
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Kels*
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Hi...ummm I just started a make-up buisness where people can tell me what flavor or color of any kind of make-up (like lip stick, gloss, etc.)
and I really need the money! Does anyone know how I can get people to know about and buy my products? I'll rate high!!! Thanks!
a flyer @ school. @ the local Diergurghs/schnucks/wal*mart/K-mart/Target ect.
:)
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Kels*
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I've never had a boyfriend, because my parents think I'm too young, and I think I am too. But now in high school (i'm a freshman) it's really hard not to want a boyfriend. Another thing is I don't know how to tell my mom that I like someone. Every time I do she always walks away or laughs. She won;t take me seriously. What should I say/do to make her listen. I just want someone to talk to! ;(
Yeah i had a boyfriend since feb. 2004, and im still with him and that was when i was in 8th grade, and my dad still hasnt accepted it, they will eventually- but for now try to be friends with the guys, and when you do go out with them, go out with a group of people. your parents are trying to protect you because i know that alot of my friends do alot with their boyfriends, and even just with guys, and that alot of them have already had sex one or more times, and some not with the same person, and that some would if they got the chance.
tell her that you are serious, and ask her what you need to do for her permission.
and if going out with a group would be okay.
*(exs- 3,4,or 5 girls and an equal # of guys, or unequal)*
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**KeLs**
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Ok, I wrote in earlier about the guy that hates me and everything. Well now he said that he is going to ask out this really discuting guy for me tomorrow in 1st period and I know he will. What can I do because I dont want to go out with this guy but I know that he will ask him. Someone please help me and plz hurry
it doesnt matter- if you dont want to be with Mr.Disq. then you dont have to be, just because
mr. Freak askes him out for you, doesnt mean that you have to be with him, but when you let mr.disq. down, be nice. and as for mr.freak- well, let him know-tell an adult or your councler, because that is not acceptible!
*Kels*
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Across the street from me, an elderly couple sold their house and the people that bought it have two young boys, ages 4 and 7 I believe. They have asked me if I'd like to babysit for them and that's fine with me. I've babysat before but normally I'd do it free of charge. It's come the time where I'm getting older and I need to get money. I'll be driving in a year and my parents aren't going to be paying for my gas and car insurance. What would be a good amout of money to ask for? I don't want to be asking for too much. I'm 15/ female.
6-7$ an hour
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Me and my brother both bought Betta Splendens. (Better known as-Siamese Fighting Fish) We wanted to know how much to feed them we bought tiny pellets that they have at the pet store. We both have males so they cannot be together. How much do we feed them a day? How much do we change their water and any other basics? Thanks.
no its okay that they can see eachother, just make sure that you dont put them togehter. change the water every couple of weeks. *(my boyfriends sister has one, and my brother had 3, now he has one, but dont worry, he had the other two like over 2years!) feed them EACH 2-3 pellets every other day i think.
Kels**
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Hi im english and i want to know the differnece between "making out" and french kissing....us english dnt use da term makin out lol
french kissing it w/ toung. and making out, is like for a longer amount of time, and could possibly include touching.
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KeLs
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Are there any ways that your hymen (sp?) can be broken besides sex? Like using tampons, fingering, etc? And can a doctor tell if its broken or not just by looking@ u down there? (like check ups andstuff)
its a think piece of skin it think.
but it can get broken before sex. by riding a bike and other things, it does not automatically break if you us a tampon, although it may.
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Me and my boyfriend have been together 1-year-4-months today AND well we have not done ANYTHING sexual. well i want to lead on to start doing sexual things but i don't know how. can you guys explain your first times or how you lead on to doing sexual things for the first time
thanks-
confused..
you dont have to do anything togehter, your relationship will go great for a little, then it will depend on doing stuff. you've already been togehter for 1year and 4 months, dont ruin that, you dont have to do anything to stay togehter! belive me.
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