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Q: My boyfriend acts like he*s two different people, When we're on the phone, he's funny and happy and lovable, then when we see each other he's moody and we get into arguements! I don't know whats wrong with him, he just acts so weird! Can you help me?? I'd really appreciate it! Thx! x0

Talk to him about it and hopefully you can talk it out

Q: my best friend went to a aprty and got hammered and was brought home in a cop car the next day she lied to liek everyone about what really happened and then we all found out.. ever since then we really havent been as close as before and shes always with the girl that seh went to the party with now as if that girl like took my spot.. there alwasy together like every day of the week and you cant get them apart what do i do? help me please

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Well we are all growing up now as much as we may not to or want to we do... so we have to deal with that. I would just pull her aside and talk to her. Dont call her coz she could hang up dont email her coz she could read the email and not reply dont do it online coz she could block you so just pull her aside-trix

Q: My little cousin has down syndrome, and alot of my friends always make fun of people with it and it really can hurt me, i*ve told them before and they say sorry and everything, but they keep saying stuff! What should I tell my friends? Or should I look for new ones? I dunno!!

Well just tell them you are really getting hurt from this and you dont like that-trix

Q: what do i do about a controlling boyfriend? my boyfriend is allowed to mess around and talk to girls but im not allowed to talk to guys! i found this so unfair and everyone thinks he has total control over me because when we break up, and he asks me back out, i always say yes. is it because i'm weak or i'm just under his little 'spell'?

Its probably both you need to put this to a end

Q: I'm 15, and I'm a 32D/DD. I wear a pant size 3 tho. I'm not FAT. I need to know if anyone knows any good stores for swim suits! I have a problem where I can never find a good suit because either the top is too small or the bottoms are too big. I like it when they sell them seperately. A lot of stores dont sell Xlarge tops too. I NEED HELP

Order them speacially

Q: I think i am very fat. I am 5'1 and i weight 110 pounds..all my friends are tall and they weigh more than me but are skinnier than me. They are all 13 and i am still 12. Sometimes I feel like I am the fattest 12 yr old in the world. Do you think there is a way I could slim up my body? If so could you tell me how? I would really appreciate it.

Run

Q: wut do i do to play hard to get???? plz give me some tips to get the guy i lyk to notice me
thanx,niki

Just be a flirt but when he trys to make a move just back away

Q: I have this friend that only asks if she can come over or if i can come over if one of my other friends isnt home or has somebody else over. It really makes me feel like a rebound girl. I told my friend about it but she said that she doesnt do that. What do you think I should do about this?

Ask her one more time except tell her how you feel about it all

Q: what do u do if u like ur EX-girlfriend and u know u cant get her back but yet u cant get over her or stop thinkib bout her?

Put all the things that remind you of her away and dont call or email her or talk to her online

Q: is 2.2 miles in 20 minutes good? im really curious. i ran that the other day and i wasnt sure if it was good or not. im 13/f. and i usually never run.

I ran a mile in 6 minutes.. and so for you it took you 10 min. for a mile... mm not bad for someone who never runs. Just keep running-trix

Q: im sick of always changing myself for everyone else and now i just want to be myself but idk who i am anymore...what can i do???

Just look in pictures and be what you want to be! thats the real you!

Q: i always flirt with all the guys at school or where ever i go. does that make me a slut bc everyone calls me one

No your just a flirt. Thats what we call the people down here. Such as steveo he is a big flirt. But everyone loves the guy. Just try to flirt less and see if that name fades

Q: My friend Cecely smell`z reallyy bad ---» realllyyyyyyyy bad - and i want to tell her to take a shower so badly.. but i feel if i tell her .. she will get mad. please help! PLEASE

Your just helping her out

Q: My friend and her boyfriend just broke up 2 weeks ago and her boyfriend and I kind of started seeing each other. We always liked each other but we never did stuff and now we do. We had sex the other night and now my friend wants to get back with him but I'm afrid to tell her I'm going out with him and he might be a father now. I'm 90% sure I am pregent but I still have to go to the doctors to finalize it. My friend does not know anything about her boyfriend and I and I want to keep it that way because she would kill me. I don't know what I should do about her and the baby.

Well you do have to be straight out with her otherwise if she finds out on her own then she could seriously be angry. Now im not garenteeing she'll be the happiest camper when you tell her and she most defintly wont be a happy camper about the baby either. I would wait to tell her until your 110% about the baby. But at least until then tell her about you and him. She probably wont want anything to do with him and probably wont want anything to do with you for sometime but just as your telling her you need to let her know.. that you are completely sorry and you had no idea that this could turn into such a mess. Unless that is that you dont care of course then dont say that but if you do you may want to squeeze that in. And she'll probably ignore you for a bit. But you do need to tell her before she hears from someone else because nobody likes hearing things from otherse. They either think its just gossip and the baby part is a add on to the gosssip and is false or she'll believe it. Put yourself in her shoes i do that alot and it helps just think would you like to know from someone else or from her instead? I would like to hear it from her personally myself that way she could see my reaction on how angry I was and I can tell you i would be alot less angry if she told me then someone else. So there is my advice sorry if i may sound a little forward and mean!-trix

Q: how do i lose weight in my thighs and calves??

diets.. running.. jogging.. walking.. biking..

Q: How can you tell if your 'cherry is popped'? I'm a virgin but can't tampons sometimes do it? Sorry if it's under the wrong category.

tampons cant thats not right

Q: ok well ive gone out wit people and made out wit people be4.. but the kind im kinda going out wit hasnt ever had a gf and has never kissed no one so im gonna be his first kiss what can i do to make it sumthing he wont forget!

just have it be like normal but make it a speacial moment before u kiss

Q: i like this guy at skool and he really loves me and he asks me out all the time.hes not very popular tho and im afarid that ppl will make fun of me. plz help me!!! thanks

who cares of what people think honestly? you prolly wont be friends with them anyways later in life.. sorry to bust that chop

Q: i like this guy, and i think he likes me to. but my sister told me she also likes him. i really like this guy!!what should i do if i lke him and my sister does too. he acts like he likes me though.

Find out and talk to your sister

Q: What is Birth control and what are the side affects?

pills .. controls having a baybe pretty much

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"