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pregent and friend
My friend and her boyfriend just broke up 2 weeks ago and her boyfriend and I kind of started seeing each other. We always liked each other but we never did stuff and now we do. We had sex the other night and now my friend wants to get back with him but I'm afrid to tell her I'm going out with him and he might be a father now. I'm 90% sure I am pregent but I still have to go to the doctors to finalize it. My friend does not know anything about her boyfriend and I and I want to keep it that way because she would kill me. I don't know what I should do about her and the baby.
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Well you do have to be straight out with her otherwise if she finds out on her own then she could seriously be angry. Now im not garenteeing she'll be the happiest camper when you tell her and she most defintly wont be a happy camper about the baby either. I would wait to tell her until your 110% about the baby. But at least until then tell her about you and him. She probably wont want anything to do with him and probably wont want anything to do with you for sometime but just as your telling her you need to let her know.. that you are completely sorry and you had no idea that this could turn into such a mess. Unless that is that you dont care of course then dont say that but if you do you may want to squeeze that in. And she'll probably ignore you for a bit. But you do need to tell her before she hears from someone else because nobody likes hearing things from otherse. They either think its just gossip and the baby part is a add on to the gosssip and is false or she'll believe it. Put yourself in her shoes i do that alot and it helps just think would you like to know from someone else or from her instead? I would like to hear it from her personally myself that way she could see my reaction on how angry I was and I can tell you i would be alot less angry if she told me then someone else. So there is my advice sorry if i may sound a little forward and mean!-trix
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