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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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alright, im 13 and my mom put me on birth control pills...but im a vergin. she doesnt belive me so now im starting the pill on sunday. so i told my bf and he said that if his mom knew about it she would buy him condoms. so we both laughed....sigh...ok now my problem. does this mean that he wants to have sex? or wat? i mean i LOVE this kid...and i was thinking about having sex with him for awhile now. but im not sure if he wants to. i mean i know were like really young but i really do love him. so do you think i should have sex with him and do you think he wants to have it with me or is he just kidding around? and if we did have sex where would we have it? please help me im so freaking confused! I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!! sorry if this is too long.
About him wanting to have sex with you, he probably does want to. You know guys; all of them are horny and think about sex mostly everyday. Guys will be guys I guess, you got to love them though, right? If you want to have sex with him, do so. If you feel comfortable with him and you love him, go for it. If you feel like you're ready, then you're ready. No one else can answer the "am I ready to have sex" question, but you. Just follow your heart.
♥ Krissy
I am very concerened. One day i went to my boyfirend house and him and 3 friends were there.and they ad sex with me all 4 of them. i think i am preg nate i got my period tho but like i have sore boobs and morning sickess and whenever i masterbate i like feel ouch al the time. what why uhh im confused!
Since you have your period, there's no way you can be pregnant. But if you're still scared and worried you can always go out and buy a pregnancy test, just to be sure.
♥ Krissy
hi.........me and my bf. were havin trouble talkin to eachother and stuff. he wouldnt really talk to me. its either that hes shy or he doesnt like me.
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im 12 yrs old and im a girl
Why don't you ask him hun? He is your boyfriend so you should be able to talk to him and ask him anything. Maybe you could call him up or talk to him face-to-face. Then just explain that you feel like he doesn't like you or he's being too shy, because you guys aren't really talking much. But I suggest talking to him about this problem. If you don't talk to him about it, you'll never be able to solve what is going on.
♥ Krissy
i lost my profile on my column! it doesnt show up at all and i clicked submit a million times and checked it...anyone know how to fix this??
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If there's any HTML codes in your profile, they won't show up. As of now, the Admin's took all HTML codings off. You can only have bold, italic and underlined lettering now. No fancy things, such as pictures, moving text, colored text, etc.
♥ Krissy
What does an orgasm feel like?
It's really un-explainable. But it's suppose to be the best feeling in the world. Believe me, when you have one, you'll know!
♥ Krissy
Recently, I've been talking to a boy who is much more experienced than me. Not to sound like a prude, but does it hurt getting fingered for the first time?
Actually hun, it doesn't hurt all that much. But depending on how rough he is on you, it may hurt. Tell him to be gental with you. Just relax and everything should go perfect!
♥ Krissy
everyones saying you bleed wen you have sex
...please explain this to me & is it weird for him? my b/f is not a virgin and i am
You usually bleed because the person you are having sex with popped your Cherry (Hymen). Not everyone bleeds though, since everyone's body is different. Some people bleed a lot, others a bit and some don't at all. I don't think it'll be too weird for your boyfriend. He knows that if a girl is a virgin and he pops her cherry, it's possible that she'll bleed. It's not really a big deal though hun. Just make sure you're comfortable with him, so you won't feel so embarrassed when this happens.
♥ Krissy
okay so like 2 years ago me and my friend begged our moms to get our belly button peirced.. they said after i turn 16..which is in august. but i duno, am i right wen i say getting your belly button peirced is played out?
Do YOU want to get your belly button peirced? If you want to get it done, get it done. It shouldn't matter what other people think, it's up to you if you want it or not. Plus, belly button rings are so cute and I don't think they are "played" out at all!
♥ Krissy
I'm 12/m and sometimes when i'm around girls my penis starts hurting and gets really hard...is this normal?
Yes, it's totally normal hun. It's called a borner. Guys usually get them when they are turned on.
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why is virginity and breaking virginity such a big deal? like oh, you had sex for your first time. whats so big about taht? all it is is having sex except the first time. im serious can someone tell me why this is so big?
I think it's because you give yourself away to this person. Since it's your first time, it's suppose to be special and it's suppose to be with someone you love. If you love and care about this person it's going to be a big deal to lose your virginity to them. But if you're just having sex for the first time just because you want to say you're not a virgin anymore, it's the wrong way to do it. It should be with someone you love, not someone you have no feelings for.
♥ Krissy
Okay, I asked the discharge question like an hour ago. My period just came but i dont know how to tell my mom cause someone from her work is here so shes working with her. How should I tell her, i dont wanna call her upstairs, that'd be too obvious but i dont wanna go downstairs to tell her either! HELP!
If you don't want to tell her because a worker is over, tell her tomorrow when she's not around. I think you'll feel more comfortable when its just you and your mom. Just look around the bathroom for a pad for now. If you can't find anything, just roll up some tolet papper. Then tomorrow, once you get up, tell your mom you started your period. You could always do it now, if you're a little scared about this hole period deal. Just go downstairs and say "Mom, can I talk to you in the next room for a second" or something along those lines. Or you could always wait till your mothers friends leave, then you can tell her.
♥ Krissy
Anyone have experience with wisdom teeth?
Well, my appointment for getting my wisdom teeth surgically removed is on August 2nd. No, my wisdom teeth have not sprouted, they're still hidden inside of my gums. I'd kind of like to know what to expect. I don't want to be too freaked out but then again I don't want to be unprepared. If you or someone you know has gotten their wisdom teeth out, could you please tell me the procedures before, during, and after? I'm not too worried about the after, I know it will be painful, but I can deal with it...just not the before and during. Don't give me a website, I've already done my share of researching, I just want to hear from real people that have experienced it. Here are some questions buzzing around in my head and I would be VERY GRATEFUL if these are answered:
- Will I get a shot for anesthesia? Knowing my dentist...I don't think I will get sleeping gas. Many people say they just got sleeping gas. My last bad experience at the dentist was when I had my four permanent teeth removed. And for that they gave me shots. Boy did it hurt. I still remember my eyes watering from the pain and the blood squirting...I am really scared of shots.
- How do they keep your mouth open? My brother said they stuck a big block into his mouth. Eek. I'm not to comfortable with that either. I have pretty bad gag reflexes.
- How can I keep the empty sockets that will be there after it's all done clean? I heard about salt and water?
- Any foods you would recommend? I know I'm going to miss eating "real" food.
Thank you VERY much for your help. It really does ease my nerves a little.
I just got my wisdom teeth out in March, so I'll be able to help you out on this one. My teeth were hidden inside of my gums too. First, they'll probably take some pictures of your teeth, just so they know how to pull your teeth out and such. Then you'll have a choice if you want to be put asleep or have your mouth frozen. I took the frozen one and I didn't feel one thing. The needle really isn't all that bad. It really doesn't hurt at all. It's just like a little pick and then it's over. Then all they do is cut open your gums and take your teeth out with some tool that I didn't get to see. Next, they just stitch you back up or glue your gums that they have cut. My dentist glued my teeth, since this is the new type of "stitch" out. I don't know if he/she will do that to you or not, depends on the dentist I guess. After you are all ready and they fix you all up, they'll give you some pills that you have to take. These pills will keep your face from getting huge and will help keep the pain down. Here are some of the answers to the questions that you asked; They keep your mouth open by this little type of mental thing. It just slides in your mouth and it allows it to open and stay open so the dentist can see inside. Believe me, I've had gagging experience's too, but I didn't gag for this one. I'm sure you'll be fine. Once they stitch you up, they'll tell you what you have to do. You have to wash your mouth out everytime you eat. It's important so you don't get any kind of infections. Foods that I recommend would be a lot of milk shakes; I lived off of them, since I wasn't able to eat "real" food for a good mouth. Also noodles and Kraft dinner is good. Anything that is soft and you really don't have to chew. Good luck on everything hun!
♥ Krissy
how do you view one of the questions if they emailed it to you...because i can't figure out how to do it. I rate high!!!
If a person e-mail's you a question you usually go to your e-mail and check it. Simple as that hun. EDIT: What does is say when you try to view it? Where does it tell you to go?
♥ Krissy
I know downloading music is wrong, but I'm sorry okay. I use winmx and I love it. But I'm trying to download the new all-american rejects CD, and THOUSANDS of results come up for all the songs, and every single one of them fail. NONE of them work. They'll turn yellow and say "Waiting for network reply..." for like 2 minutes and then they'll fail. Not one single song works. WHY?!
It's probably because the downloader that you have is being a total ass. I think you should switch over to a different downloading program; one that actually lets you download music. I have Ares and it works very well. You can find all the songs you are looking for and you never have the type of problems you are having. Just go to http://www.downloads.com and type in Ares.
♥ Krissy
ok i know im not ready to have sex NOW but i dont know if i want to wait until marriage either..i mean what do you guys think?
a part of me says
"hey who knows if your husband will even be a virgin..then its kind of pointless that you waited..and besides if you wait until your married, thats the only guy your going to have sex with .."
then again anothher part of me says "sex would be more special if you waited to have it with your husband"
any input?
I think it's when ever you feel ready. Doesn't matter if you are married, or in a long-term relationship. If you love the person and you feel like you want to have sex and you are comfortable with it, go for it. Just follow your heart.
♥ Krissy
where do you get music for your advice column and how do you put it in and where?
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You can't put music on your advice column anymore. The Admin's took all HTML codes off.
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Krissy, do you have a xanga??
No, I don't have one. I would start one up, but I know I wouldn't write in it for weeks on end.
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i didn't know what category to use but when i get my braces off i wanna make sure that my teeth are white..some say if you brush your teeth with baking soda it really helps but im scared that my teeth will be like glowing white and i dont want that to look retarded. i just want a nice shade of white..and is it safe to brush with baking soda?
Yes, it is safe to brush your teeth with baking sode. It won't leave them glowing white, but it'll make them a lot cleaner and will get all the dirt off. When you go to the dentist, they actually use baking soda on your teeth. The stuff that comes out of that tube like thing that they clean your teeth with, is baking soda mixed with water.
♥ Krissy
Kay. well I want toned flat abs. Like not the 6 pack looking ones. KInd of like jessica albas. What excerises can I do to have those kind of abs. THx! xOxOx..
Do sit ups and crunches. They will help loads! :)
♥ Krissy
Hey there ♥ well im not really into stereotypes but basically, my boyfriend is punk, along with his friends. and i am not really preppy or punk or anything, i am just me. but i am friends with his friends and his friends are in a punk band and my boyfriend said he really wants me to go, and so do his friends. the problem is i dont want to wear something stupid, or "slutty" looking and i dont want people to think " why is she here?" so what could i wear.. i have long platinum blonde hair with lots of pink and auburn in it. and i am 5'4 and average with slightly curvey body ... what could i wear or put on for makeup and how should i do the hair? thanksss
Well, since your boyfriend is a little punkish, why not dress up like that for the concert? Maybe you could wear some old jeans, kind of rip them up a little. Like the jeans that are out, with the holes in them? You could wear a bright shirt. Green, orange, yellow, pink? Maybe you could go out and buy a new shirt. If you have a store called the Garage, they have a lot of punkish stuff. If not, just find a bright shirt with sayings on it. Or, you could always make a shirt and put some safety pins on it. For your hair, do it all crazy. You could put it up in a clip or in a messy bun. Then curly a few pieces, crimp some other pieces, wave a few other pieces, and then leave the rest straight. For your make up, do it how you would normally do it, but put on a lot of eyeliner. I hope this helps you out a bit. Have fun!
♥ Krissy